Dry Spell You Say? 7 Reasons You and Your Man Aren’t Getting Busy Enough

August 16th, 2012 - By Julia Austin
"Black couple in bed"

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Your relationship is fine. You’re not getting into massive arguments. You’re happy to be around each other. You look forward to seeing each other. You do find your partner attractive. But you’ve stopped having sex. Or, you’ve stopped having it nearly as much as you used to. But sex is an integral part of feeling intimate with someone: it’s what differentiates your partner from just your friend. And if you let a sex drought go on for too long, you could be headed for the end. But it can be an easy fix if you can identify the problem.

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  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ashley-Sykes/1065177536 Ashley Sykes

    wait what? we need to be sexual objects? *exits*

  • do u or dont

    Go ahead and use that “rabbit”…us men have PLENTY of real women to choose from…

    • Kristina Tramel

      Those women would rather use something that’s not going to get them knocked up and leave or give them a STD they can’t get rid of.

  • Vandellish

    2 more:
    Stressed out. Career changes or setbacks, death(s) in the family, health issues can all play a part in ‘not feeling freaky’

    Plain ol’ not attracted. The simplest and most difficult of all but happens often. Sometimes you’re just not attracted to your partner anymore and it’s a definite sign that it’ll soon be over.

  • universal

    those vibrators are dangerous. its like some women dont even need men anymore. they just have their vibrator and they’re as happy as pie….

    • TeahMonae

      I dont know what kind of vibrators they using cause ain’t nothing like the real thing!!!

      • Black wifey

        have you tried “the rabbit”??? Girllll, you need to get one asap!

        • Cassie

          loooooooooooooooool! Good for you Black wifey :-)