Kimberly: My boyfriend is having issues with his member. I’ve tried everything, and he refuses to go to the dr. We haven’t had sex in months. I’m really unsure what to do. I moved across the world to be with him, but the intimacy is a huge issue. Any advice on how to get him to go to the doctor? He’s German…free healthcare…I don’t get it.

D.Y: I applaud you for being so patient with your man’s non-working wang. And, while I can understand his hesitation in seeing someone about it — basically, to understand how sensitive most of us are about our penises/sexual performance, imagine the one thing women are most sensitive about. and multiply that by 25 — you have to stress to him that something needs to change if you want to continue to be with him. I’m sure you didn’t fly across the Atlantic to be cuddled every night.