Yeezy and His “Perfect B****” Are a Perfect Match: The Importance of Dating Someone With The Same Values

August 8th, 2012 - By Charing Ball

 

Source: gawker

According to Gawker, who got their info from XXL

“I wrote the song Perfect B**** about Kim,” Kanye West tweeted yesterday, referencing the new song he unveiled in NYC over the weekend.

“Perfect B****,” reportedly featured on the upcoming G.O.O.D Music compilation, Cruel Summer, was rumored to be about Yeezy’s current girlfriend, Kim K.

One person in attendance at PH-D Rooftop Lounge described the song like this: “(He raps) verses about his search for the perfect woman and how he has now found the ‘perfect b****.’”

Not quite the stuff of Hallmark cards and Shakespeare, but if she likes it, I love it.

And apparently, she does. According to EURweb, by way of TMZ, “Kim is telling friends, “I’m honored. I love it,” adding, “I know he doesn’t mean it in a negative way when he says the word ‘b****.’”

Now that this budding controversy is settled, let’s move on to what I really want to talk about: Don’t you think that Kim K and Kanye are the perfect match?

Okay, before you roll your eyes…HEY, I said don’t roll your eyes at me…hear me out:

It wasn’t that long ago that the longtime pals decided to take their romance public. We started seeing more and more of them together, holding hands, dressing alike, and posing for the paparazzi. We were even treated to affectionate tweets between the two, including a photo of the authentic (*snickers loudly*) soul food dinner — complete with two of the most soggy chicken wings I have ever seen this side of lukewarm grease – Kim K decided to whip up for her boo.

It would be easy to pass this fling off as a publicity stunt, but these days it’s hard to deny that the two are like kindred spirits. For instance, both of their names begin with a K. Both are superficial as all hell, sharing a mutual love of Louis Vuitton, expensive jewelry, gaudy furs and other designer fashions. Both find themselves a dedicated source of controversy. From Kimye’s sex tapes and 72-day nuptials with Kris Humphries to Yeezy’s constant stream of diarrhea of the mouth, public tantrums and angry songs over his last girlfriend Amber Rose, neither of them really have squeaky clean reputations.  Even fellow Chicago rapper Common acknowledges the natural chemistry between these two, saying in an interview, “Oh man, they are great — they are a great match.”

Source: carltonjordan.com

Likewise, the union of these two powerhouses has the potential for a nice return on their investment.  There is already talk of a Kim and Kanye shoe line. And even more talk about wedding bells in the near future, which would bring about a ratings bonanza if they decide to publicize it. Of course, they will. They are Kim Kardashian and Yeezy. I used to find them annoying when they were separate, but now that they have joined forces, there’s no denying that the couple is unstoppable – sort of like Mighty Morphin Power Rangers powering up to become Zord.

What I love most about their relationship is how it kind of reaffirms everything that I always suspected was the key to finding the right person. There is a whole industry dedicated to telling you the 20 reasons you don’t have a man, or how you have to think like a man, or how many days you have to wait in order to get a man. Yet few will acknowledge that finding the perfect match is not about changing oneself or playing silly games with the opposite (in some cases same) sex, but rather finding someone, who compliments your weaknesses as much as they highlight your positives.

The old saying is true: like attracts like. So many folks are walking around, trying to catch the gaze of people who meet some societal standards of a good mate that they missed their opportunities to truly build with someone, who shares the same values – no matter how messed up those values are. Remember when Kim’s ex-husband Kris thought that he could turn her into a wholesome Midwest housewife?  She cut out on him before he could even put a down payment on a nice little ticky tacky house in a gated community.

If you are a superficial twerp with a penchant for money and the fast life, then more than likely get yourself a dude, who enjoys profiling in his Porsche and wearing sunglasses indoors. If you are a woman, who enjoys sitting on a couch, being lazy and eating, then find yourself a dude who has a Netflix account and buy one-get one free coupons to the all you can eat buffet.  If you are a dude who has two strikes for armed robbery, than find yourself a woman who knows how to properly drive a get-away car (kidding!). Point is, love is about discovery. First discovery and accepting who you are – and that includes the good stuff and the not so good stuff – before you can learn to go out and love – and be loved by the right somebody else.

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  • applesauce585

    My thoughts…..it’s not going to last….Kanye has ADHD (j/k) as soon as he gets bored with Kimmy and she can’t stimulate his “mind” or she decides not to wear matching sneakers/jeans, like him……………………he’s on to the next…..LOL.

  • Ta_ty

    #love this article… the kimye stuff and the love stuff… couldn’t have said it better myself

  • realadulttalk

    All’s good in the honeymoon stages–these two ego’s are eventually going to collide in a major way.

  • yuh

    well done, well done *golf claps*

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Dominique-Martin/100003065925958 Dominique Martin

    This article was BRILLIANT!

  • NiceNasty

    Okay first off it may SEEM like this relationship is a perfect match but let be honest we don’t really know. And they are not that match alike, and i seriously doubt that kanye will marry this woman. Also people who are alike DOES NOT last longer in a relationship, they get tried of one another very quickly because they are so much alike. Two people with huge egos will always agrue about who has the bigger one or try to outdo the other in everything. Two selfish people will not get along because they both will want everything for themself. Two people who thinks they are always right will not get along because well you know the answer, and the list goes on. People alike always end up with someone totally opposite, and they are for a reason. Poepl who are different from you open your eyes/mind to different things in the world, they teach you things that benefit you in the long run. And you get to teach them as well, your able to better yourself and eachother. I mean think about everybody in your life, the people who you have a great relationship are more then likely opposite of you. Yea ya’ll might have somethings in common but really and truly your completely different. But they have showed/taught you things that you would have never known if you was involved with people who was jus like you.I’m jus saying.

    • Love_Sexy

      You are right because even though two people may have some things in common its the differences which I think assist with keeping the relationship thriving, growing, exciting etc…

    • ijs

      excellent post. Whoever “thumbs downed” it is just too simple minded to understand. The best friendships and relationships I’ve had were with people who I had enough commonalities with to form a bond but also enough differences to complement one other. If everyone is honest with themselves, and takes into account their character flaws, I’m sure they’ll realize no one wants to date a mirror image of themselves.

  • brownielocks

    Now this article right here… THIS ARTICLE RIGHT HERE… I like!

  • anonymous again

    what would their children be like? Would they have children? It would be sooo funny if their child became a supreme introvert who decides to become a farmer in Maine.

  • anonymous

    i feel like i see her really smiling a lot with Kanye more so than in pictures I saw of her with Kris. Okay now I need to go back to paying attention to my own life.

  • GirlSixx

    I for one said from the getty-up when the rumors first started speculating — that she found her match in Kanye if it turned out to be true because they both like “Flashing Lights” lifestyle she needs to stay in the media to stay relevant and he don’t mind the paparazzi AT ALL.
    gOOD LUCK To the both of them.
    #TheEnd

  • CA Pullen

    I be glad when this dies down. It seems everytime you look a at magazine, advertisement, caption pictures, websites, you see these clowns. I wish the media would try to find something else to write on besides the Kardashians. I understand that they are “popular” but enough is enough.

  • Candacey Doris

    This is very true. Opposites may attract, but people who are alike usually stay together longer. Side note: have you noticed she’s darker in that pic?

  • Mystique

    Why don’t he just marry her and shut up? They are both crazy!

  • Smacks_hoes

    The only problem I ever had with their relationship is that the media constantly smother us with irrelevant news about the couple. Some may say “why come on gossip sites if you don’t want to hear about them.” I come on gossips sites to escape my life of responsiblity to read about celebs and their “perfect lives”…but every site I go to I get bombarded with news about the kardashians that shouldn’t even be news yet they make headlines. Other than that I have nothing against them. They seem to be a perfect couple. Two completely self absorbed, materialistic, arrogant people who think their gods gift to earth. When you think about it their a match made in heaven.

  • Amiyah_268baby!

    Love this! Good read! *TwoThumbsUp

  • Alissa

    Yesss! Whoever came up with the “opposites attract” stuff confused a lot of people. Forget that. Find someone who is the same brand of crazy as you are (cause we’re all our own brand of crazy) and live happily ever after haha. Loved this post!

  • lalatarea

    Love it! Absolutely love this article sooo true and such a breath of fresh air.