Toya Speaks On K. Michelle: Please Stop Talking About Me and My Husband and Promote Your Music

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August 8, 2012 ‐ By

Source: Hiphopwired.com

For weeks we have only heard K. Michelle’s side of her beef with Toya and allegations that she has been talking stuff all along, but finally we get to hear her thoughts on the situation straight from her mouth. After witnessing K. Michelle’s endless rants about her and her husband Memphitz, and being asked about the situation repeatedly, Toya decided to speak her piece during an Atlanta bloggers brunch with Talking With Tami.

The Jasmine Brand caught the statement and here’s what she said:

“I promised myself that I wasn’t gonna talk about that because she’s so irrelevant to me, but I’m gonna say this: The picture she’s painting of my husband is not my husband. I’ve been knowing him for six years, I know several women that he has dated that never said anything about abuse. If somebody abuse you like that, where is the proof, where is the police report, where is the pictures, where is the messages that you said he sent threats to your kid and threatened to kill your child?…It don’t matter about love, you would be in jail if you threaten my kid…And she’s saying that I said all this stuff about her, pull it up, where is it?

“I never said anything about that situation, never addressed it…Memphitz father died years ago in Memphis. He comes from a family where it was always his mother and his father so he’s like a loving person, he’s very affectionate. Anybody that knows him for real just be like ‘what is wrong with this girl?’ And the crazy part about it is everybody say that you crazy and you hit them. You the abuser.

“I just wish that she would stop saying my name. I got a gag order that I just got. Pump your music up. You was given a platform, I was given a platform, I was here to tell my story. I been through a lot of things with my ex, yall don’t know about that. I’m not here to bash him, I’m not a hater. But please stop talking about me and my husband and my family and only promote your music and do what you gotta do on the show. God gave you a platform, use it.”

K. Michelle, your move.

Check out the video clip of her comment. What do you think about Toya’s statement?



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  • sunshine

    All men lie I have never met a man that didn’t lie u don’t know him as well as u think you do and I would keep KY comments about k.Michelle to yourself.! His mouth aint no prayer book and he damn sure aint God becarefu_l. What u say u might eat those words

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=619747425 Lisa SimplySunshyne Jennings

    Just look at the situation. Memphitz was a record executive who took advantage of K-Michelle, and thru litigation she was released from her contract. However he placed a 3 yr gag order on her. So, NO TOYA…YOU WOULDN’T HEAR ABOUT THE NEGATIVE THINGS HE DID! He had the chance to hook Toya Wright, and now that K-Michelle can talk, of course everyone is oblivious to the facts. I say, we weren’t there to see it. BUT…I do believe that it happened. Speaking the truth about a life situation is not “hating” it’s therapy.

  • #Mrs.Itiswhatitis!!!!!

    I feel that K. Michelle is not telling the truth about the extent of the abuse. Judging from the way she explodes on the reality show for the least little thing. K.. Michelle has gotten into an argument with almost everyone on he show. I like Toya statement, she never said her husband didn’t do it she said that not who she knows and based off of who she knows she can’t see him doing it. She also made a valid point, she know her husband but she does not know K. Michelle and as a wife she is suppose to stick by and support her husband. If K. Michelle has proof this happened and if Memphitz lawyers called and told them they could not mention his name on the show unless she had proof this happened and K. Michelle was so abused and wanted to move forward with her life why not submit her proof. It has been proven by her that she is violent, hot tempered and a bully. Everything she a has to say someone is negative just about. Karlie Red, inflated a$% cheek and turn of the century rapper; Rasheeda, puff bag eyes and Georgia Prune. If you try and find any interview were Toya said anything about her (besides the written ones that specified they are rumored to have heard), you will not find but one so far of her speaking out on this matter. K. Michelle threatens to hit everybody. This is stuff coming out of he mouth. I don’t believe he hit her I do believe he tried to restrain her and im judging this off the way she acts with others. I believe Toya did and said just what she was suppose to do as a wife and a mother. Sorry people it is what it is. You have to look at everybody actions and not just listen at what they are saying,

  • Wassup

    I feel There is NO REASON at all to lie about abuse. You would be surprised about how much you “think” you know about someone. I use to be in a abusive relationship and I’m only 17, so I know how that feels. YOU WERN’T THERE PERIOD. I love Toya and K Michelle, but if K Michelle is so irrelevant to you, it sure doesn’t show.

  • CoCoCola77

    Toya didn’t bash her ex (Lil Wayne) because up until a few years ago, he was her primary source of income. It would not have been beneficial to her to speak out against Wayne when he was paying all of her bills. So the statement that she made regarding that was irrelevant.
    Also, K. Michelle never said that Memphitz threatened her son via text message. She just said that he threatened to harm him so that particular threat could have been spoken verbally. Toya, her friends and many others down there in Atlanta GOSSIP AND SPREAD HEAR-SAY too much! Even during this interview Toya is talking about hear-say whereas K. Michelle only speaks on her personal experiences. And could somebody please explain to me why it is that none of Toyas so called “friends” have recommended that she brush up on her English prior to doing interviews? She speaks horribly.

  • Deliciamo

    K-Michelle is a NUT-CASE!! The only reason BLACK WOMEN agree with this is because it’s drama. We have been through so much with black men that anything negative about a black man is believable. Abuse is a serious accusation and K-Michelle in no way acts like an abused woman. She seems very bitter to me. Her eyes light up when she speaks of him and she is still in search of a man like him. I think he broke her heart and she can’t let it go. This was like 5 years ago. And she seems to be trying too hard to tarnish his name. Single-black female comes to mind. Very eager for revenge NOW, but what happened back then? She’s telling her story to the wrong people. She should have told the cops. She’s a coo-coo bird.

  • CarlaKah

    Ugh. Isn’t it K. Michelle’s business whether Memphitz hit her or not? I read between the lines that Toya is saying that K. is lying because of who her husbsnd is TODAY. Stop it! Toya would be wise to just state she doesn’t know, because she wasn’t there and his past (BEFORE she started dating Memphitz) really doesn’t affect her current relationship with him. Claiming that other exes and other people don’t believe K.’s story, therefore it’s a lie is so dumb. This attitude is why SO MAY WOMEN do not go to the police or eventheir close people to show and prove that they have been abused! I wasn’t there, I don’t lnow the story either but I do know that I will never claim to know who my current man was with his ex(es). And as a public figure, Toya should stay away from comments that make her seem like she believes that, women that say they have been abused by seemingly kind men, are crying wolf.

  • BARRAKA WYLIE

    WHY IS THIS IMPORTANT TO U K MICHELLE WORRY ABOUT MAKING YOUR ALBUM! !!!! IN OTHER WORDS DO YOU! !!

  • BARRAKA WYLIE

    WHY IS THIS IMPORTANT TO U K MICHELLE WORRY ABOUT MAKING YOUR ALBUM! !!!! IN OTHER WORDS DO YOU! !!

  • cub

    Your typical woman. He moves on get married now the ex wants 2 bash him. Y she doing it because she has no 1 like most women do. Most men don’t sweat it. Yes u will b missed but men don’t start rumors 2 make the new man 2nd guess his choice and cause confusion chaos and unhappiness.

    • http://www.facebook.com/christina.dagnello Christina D’agnello

      maybe she’s doing it because all the publicity he’s getting over his new marriage stirs up her inner resentment towards him………and no men do sometimes start rumours to prevent their ex’s from moving on and exalting themselves.

      • CarlaKah

        If you watch the show, you see she is asked about it a lot and she is telling WHAT happend to her and explaining WHY she went off back then. It is her story to tell. Let her! I am sorry but women need to support eachother on these things.

    • Me

      I get what you’re saying because some women are like that but not ALL women sit around and bash they ex because he’s with someone else, I never have and in fact I get along with the women because I moved on. Some men don’t bash they ex because it seems that these days the women just turn up dead somewhere not all men are that cool about the relationship ending either.

  • polymathk

    No one brought up the fact that k.michelle has a son who she does not have custody of. I never trust a woman right off who can’t even be trusted to take care of her own children.

    • CarlaKah

      Why doesn’t she have custody?/

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  • Kayo

    Sounds like Toya needs to take a few grammar and writing classes. Also, I am going to need for Black folks to learn the definition of ‘relevant’ and ‘irrelevant’ and then use them properly.

  • Erika

    If I was Toya or K.Michelle I would be upset with Tamar for not minding her own business! K.Michelle was simply telling her story in the beginning. She didnt even reveal any names until Tamar opened her muppet mouth re-focusing the whole situation. I think K.Michelle told her story to show her life’s obstacles and her journey to rise again. But Tamar re-shifted that to Toya and Mephitz vs. K. Michelle. Now everyone is going back and forth which is ridiculous. Toya should let Mephitz handle this situation because this was before her time (she was not there). If you let someone to continue to talk eventually they will tell on themselves. K.Michelle needs counseling to heal from her past and move on. The best revenge is living good and stress free.

    • sunshine326

      Tamar needs to mind her own business. I believe K. Michelle. Everyone does not take pictures, tell friends and family of abuse. Some don’t tell because they are afraid, some or to embarrased or worried about what others may think. That does not mean that the abuse did not happen. I hope K Michelle will get help. Even though this was in the past it must have affected K Michelle deeply as to the point she has not forgiven. You can forgive, but forgiving does not mean that you have to forget. I will not say move on. I will say heal yourself. You are blessed vocally focus on your career. Memphitz knows what he did or did not do. Toya, please let him speak for himself, you were not there! Toya, may sooth him and K Michelle may have stood up to him in a way he felt was wrong. Two differnet women.

  • quest

    I never even heard of KMichelle or Memphitz until this show.

  • Brit1908

    Statistics has shown that most women who are or have been in domestic violence relationships do not report thier abuse. Because they are in love with thier abuser and do not want to put them in jail or their afriad of them. So there wouldnt be a police report. I personally think that Toya shouldnt have commented on the situation because she was not there to witness it.

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/PHFUXMPNYZZDNBBPEGA4IYSFFY Christy

    I think this situation has gotten way out of hand. This started as K. Michelle telling her life story just like everyone else on the show, and her life story just so happen to included abuse. Then Tamar spoke on the situation which she should not have and its been a mess every since. People need to be very careful on how they respond to the media and putting stuff on twitter. Toya really don’t need to comment about this situation and let her husband handle it. Now I understand that she is upset because K. Michelle said something about her, but she can’t defend her husband with this one. He is the man, let him be the man. He know if he hit ther girl or not, and if he didn’t hit her, then why wont he get some professional advice on how to handle this situation or advice on what is the best way he can defend his character? there is no way I would allow someone to damage my character by spreading lies. I would sue the heck out of her, i would retaliate legally. I know why he hasn’t done it, because HE DID DO WHAT K. MICHELLE SAID HE DID. What type of proof is she looking for?? I like Toya, but she sounds really stupid in this interview. All she had to say is that my husband has not shown me any of those characteristics, but I can’t comment about what happened between him and her. AND, we don’t need to know if u have a gag order, just get it and shut up. These people need a publicist, because they doing interviews everywhere and sound ignorant.

    • Kayo

      “He is the man, let him be the man.” – Why would someone have to let another person be their gender?

      “These people need a publicist, because they doing interviews everywhere and sound ignorant.” – They don’t sound ignorant, because to be ignorant is to not have knowledge about something.

      • http://profile.yahoo.com/PHFUXMPNYZZDNBBPEGA4IYSFFY Christy

        she has no knowledge of the situation that she is speaking on. All she know is what people are telling her. When I say let him be a man, I am saying let him respond to the accusations. Let him defend himself. Let him handle the situation. Its regarding HIS PAST!!! She don’t know what happened between the two of them. He has more knowledge of HIS PAST than she does.

        • Kayo

          Okay, I understand, but responding to accusations, defending oneself and handling a personal situation has nothing to do with one’s gender. Would you say, “Let a woman be a woman” if the genders were reversed?

          • Dee

            Kayo, please stop splitting hairs. You know what it means when someone says “let a man be a man”, It means just that. Period.

            • Kayo

              So instead of you offering actual insight into the “Let a man be a man” trope amongst Black women and men, you decide for me as to whether or not I know the meaning. The meaning of “Let a man be a man” is nothing more than women and men pushing for patriarchy. No one has to ‘allow’ or ‘let’ anyone be their gender. Do you think a woman can allow a man to be otherwise? Instead of trying to brush me aside, answer the question.

              • sld

                please shut up. I see you are trying to come off very deep, but sorry its not working. Please stop!

                • Kayo

                  Do you think really that I am going to stop commenting simply because you only appreciate what is trivial? By the way, I noticed that you only had one comment, and it just so happens to be one that is directed to me, and not germane to the article. Did you create an account (or maybe a second) one just so you could harass me?

                  • sld

                    You are exactly right this was my first comment and I did indeed create an account (it’s new not secondary) to make a comment just to you (I’ll probably use it now that I have it though). To be clear you have no idea of what I appreciate, but people tent to ASSume and that is your right. Secondly, I commented to really let you know your attempts to SOUND deep or educated sadly missed the mark, but I never expected you to stop commenting because the ignorant usually simply don’t know when to stop. In ending many blessings and thank you for motivating me to open my account. Good luck on your quest fot knowledge.

                    • Kayo

                      Please explain how I was ‘attempting to sound deep or educated’ and how I ‘sadly missed the mark’. Also, please explain what I am ignorant about.

                    • sld

                      Case and point lol. Nothing more to be said you are very deep, educated, and far from ignorant. I will not hold your hand to explain the obvious. Enjoy your evening.

                    • Kayo

                      (1) It is CASE IN POINT, NOT CASE AND POINT.

                      (2) You had the gumption to say that I was ignorant, attempting to sound educated and failed and then turn around and NOT be able to explain your own words. You will not ‘hold my hand to explain the obvious’, because you CAN’T do it. You’re a sucker who is taking the easy way out by trying to dismiss me because you NEVER had an argument to begin with, much less one you could stand by. Now, YOU have a good night, Ms.

                    • sld

                      My apologies “case in point”. So I’ll say it again case and point…. It’s not that I can’t explain my words I’ve chosen not to. You are so “smart” already you only want me to do that so you can maybe check my spelling, for gramatical errors, or another “case in point” victory for your ego. You are not really concerened about the deep seeded ignorance you try to cover with a few well placed google “word of the day” words. When it’s time your ignorance will find you I’m simply a vessel stating my opinion. FYI I’m sure you noticed my misspelled word “grammatical”…. that was simply for kicks…lol. DISSMISSED ;-)

                    • Kayo

                      Okay, no. I did not ask you to explain yourself so that I could correct you. That was not my intention at all. I asked you to explain yourself because you called me ‘ignorant’. What was I being ignorant about?

                      So you see, again, I did not ask you to explain yourself because I wanted to correct you. I asked you because YOU created an account just so you could make an ad hominem attack against me. I mean, come on. You created an account to tell me to shut up and when I responded, you tried to back me down with a bunch of cliche sh*t and nothing of any real meaning.

                      Now, I am more than willing to bet that you STILL can’t tell me what I was being ignorant about or even how I was ‘trying to sound deep and failed’.

                      “It’s not that I can’t explain my words I’ve chosen not to.” – That is a straight up cop-out technique that you and other people have resorted to when I question them. You can’t make an argument out of repeating yourself.

                      Dismiss me if you want. Now, let’s see if you have enough self-control not to respond.

                  • sld

                    You are exactly right this was my first comment and I did indeed create an account (it’s new not secondary) to make a comment just to you (I’ll probably use it now that I have it though). To be clear you have no idea of what I appreciate, but people tent to ASSume and that is your right. Secondly, I commented to really let you know your attempts to SOUND deep or educated sadly missed the mark, but I never expected you to stop commenting because the ignorant usually simply don’t know when to stop. In ending many blessings and thank you for motivating me to open my account. Good luck on your quest fot knowledge.

  • helado31

    The only thing I have to say is, what do family members of murderers say? They say “he/she was so sweet. They would never hurt a fly. I can’t believe this happened”.

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  • Kay

    Toya was the one that put memphits name in it, k Michelle never said who she was talking about..

  • realadulttalk

    I wouldn’t do any interviews if I came off sounding as unintelligent as she just did. On the other hand-everytime I see a pic of this dude he’s wearing sunglasses. I never trust anyone who always has their eyes hidden. Anyway–I understand standing by your man, but most abusive men have different persona’s-the house and the street persona. Generally people outside of the household wouldn’t know anything about what’s going on inside. Trust me-I grew up dealing with this type BS and no one in my family knew. Toya seems (from all I’ve seen of her) to be quite submissive…K is quite aggressive. So is it that he’s not abusive or that Toya just doesn’t cross him?

    • Pivyque

      Exactly. Like K.Michelle said, different women bring out different things in men.

  • NaturalJem

    I think K. Michelle needs to heal from this, until then she’s not going to let it go. She needs to get to that point where she forgives so it doesn’t hold her as a bitter victim. I respect that she didn’t say his name at first but she shouldn’t have mentioned Memphitz father since that is his personal issue and she doesn’t need to retaliate at Toya’s comments unless it’s in a cordial manner. Toya also needs to keep the negative comments to herself and let Memphitz defend himself on this.

  • http://www.facebook.com/derique.marie Derique Fancy Marie

    I’m not saying K Michelle is liar, but I do think this may have happened years ago. If K. Michelle’s PR is telling her to speak on this situation a lot to sell records, then she should speak on it and not bash the other person. Toya should’ve stated a little something more of in support of her husband “perhaps Memphitz did do that, but thats not my husband and if it is true then he is a different’ person now”… or something of that matter and kept it pushing…But hey more drama and amusement for my life :-)

    • Kayo

      Okay. Even if it did happen years ago, what difference does it make?

  • Lana

    Why is everyone saying Toya shouldn’t speak on something she doesn’t know?! I agree she shouldn’t shade k Michelle but her and k Michelle both had/have a romantic relationship with the same person and considering that she has not been beaters I can see why she might feel the need to stand up for her man. No she can’t ride for anything but k Michelle has been doing all this talk and has not provided any concrete proof that this man beat her. No one really has a reason to take anyone’s side at this point. But saying that this woman is dumb and silly for standing by her husband doesn’t make since to me.

    • NaturalJem

      Toya has every right to stand by her husband but she should avoid making any negative comments so she can remain neutral and let her husband mainly deal with it. Although the words in Toya’s interview aren’t extremely harsh, some of her words are a bit rude.

    • diamond.pinkismycolor.beauty

      I don’t understand the reason why any woman needs proof that a man beat her. Every article I’ve read about this someone has made a similiar comment. If she really did have “proof” then what? It still makes Memphitz, a woman beater. I just don’t get it. I’m not picking at you, I’m really asking.

      • Lana

        I understand I only feel proof is needed because accusing someone of beating you is a serious accusation. And to falsely accuse someone is very detrimental to his livelihood. Some peole will ignore her and move on but it’s possible that some people will take accusations alone seriously and separate themselves from him and anything he tries to do in his career. Im not taking sides but I dont think she expects people to think she is lying so I think she obviously wants people to believe her story is real and without documented proof it makes it pretty hard.

        • diamond.pinkismycolor.beauty

          I get your point. I can’t say I agree with the fact that she needs documented proof for her story to be real. However, in the days where groupies can get million dollar deals and media attention after lying on someone, I see where people have become skeptical.

      • Treacle234

        Oh please, if you believe everything someone says you must be really gullible. Even in court you need proof to defend yourself. Most of us need proof because K.MIchelle seems unstable and untrustworthy.

        • diamond.pinkismycolor.beauty

          I don’t think it’s about being gullible. It’s about people being so quick to say what happened didn’t really happen. Who are we to say that Memphitz didn’t try to smother her or beat her? I don’t know. However, I don’t think it’s ever in good taste to tell someone something didn’t happen to them or they are lying. If she is lying the truth will come out soon enough. Look at Karlie Redd.

        • Trisha_B

          Agree! If someone threaten my child, you would be dead. You beat on me like k.Michelle said, you doing some jail time. & like toya said, your doing a reality show, your finally able to get your music out, do that instead of bringing up Memphitz & Toya every chance. Put all that anger into your music, it’ll sure be a hot record.
          & did someone say Toya sounded unintelligent? Has anyone heard how K.Michelle talk? She can’t have a proper conversation w/out being over-dramatic w/ little sly remarks.
          I’m sure Toya wouldn’t have her child around a crazy abuser. & i’m sure wayne checked up on memphitz when he heard Toya was dating him.
          Some relationships are toxic where the two parties can’t be together, but do so good w/ others & that’s exactly what k.Michelle & memphitz was. A toxic relationship, of two temper headed people.

        • Real Deal

          There is nothing hidden that will not be manifested god is going to show her real soon another side of him.Toya is blind and completely in denial. She thinks satan with sunglasses i all that . The boy is camouflaged and believe you will see this same evil soon. When i watch Toya and Tiny i never liked his personality He told her if she go to the police he will kill her that’s why there was no pictures HELLO

    • http://profile.yahoo.com/PHFUXMPNYZZDNBBPEGA4IYSFFY Christy

      Its nothing wrong with her standing by her husband, but she is not using any wisdom. Let your husband respond to this situation. K. Michelle is telling a story of a relationship that was before Toya. Why would u ask that woman for proof?? I am sure Toya is a smart lady but this interview makes her sound dumb. Does she have proof that her husband didn’t do it?? No, so shut up and stand by your man afar. Don’t try to address the media on his behalf, just stand next to him while he address these accusations. Let him defend himself. This situation was before her, and her only defense is everybody I talk to says my husband is a good person. Thats fine, but thats not really a defense. That man could have been a totally different person during that time. She needs to allow her husband and his team to respond to these acusations professionally. Dont u take it upon yourself to address a situation that u really have no clue on.

    • Kayo

      How do you know Toya hasn’t been beaten or ‘beaters’ as you say?

  • ijs

    Ok, how long ago did this abuse take place? I understand that if it happened it takes time to het over it BUT why drag his name through the mud now AFTER he is apparently happily married! I agree with Toya on this one use the platform you now have to fulfil the dream you say he stole! Don’t miss this moment trying to prove a point, live your dream…ijs

  • Yay

    Overall, both of these women need to be quite. I get each of their points, but the petty back and forth just overshadows any valid arguments they may have. I agree that K needs to move on. She has told her story numerous times. She has even spoken about Memphitz family and upbringing, which is truly not necessary at this point. Although I feel for her obvious pain, she should be an example of why woman/men must always go to authorities when they have been physically abused. That documentation can not only help protect from further abuse or slander, but is the best first step in healing. Clearly, K. is having a hard time moving on from her abuse. Perhaps had she spoken up the first time she wouldn’t be so inclined to respond to irrelevant people who don’t believe her.

  • iluvm

    Sounds like K. Michelle need to move on and let whatever happen to her and Memphitz die. He moved on. Why does the abuse matter if she is not with him anymore. I get it, tell your story if you feel like it can help somebody. I don’t understand why she is so mad that someone married him. If you ask me I think she mad that he spent the million dollars she claimed she had and married another woman.

    • Treacle234

      I agree, K.Michelle sounds bitter because Memphiz allegedly beat her, didn’t help her non-existent music career and she has no man. She really needs to take her own advice and focus on something positive other than what Toya and Mepmpiz is doing.

    • diamond.pinkismycolor.beauty

      I think the only people that need to move on is us. I think Toya and K. Michelle are continously asked about the situation which is what is causing the back and forth. One day someone will ask K. Michelle what she thinks and then the next day someone will ask Toya what she thinks. It’s like wth. Just leave it alone. Don’t get me wrong it makes for good entertainment but geez every day the same story.

      • realadulttalk

        I concur! Although I do find it a bit interesting that these two women have so much to say while the man they speak about remains virtually silent. I wouldn’t defend someone who wasn’t outwardly defending themselves.

    • FoundLove

      He’s moved because he’s the alleged “abuser” and he never got charged for it. hell I’d move on too if I beat the hell out of someone and never got repremanded for it. “Why does the abuse matter if she is not with him anymore”…really how ignorant can you be! when you are abused (and I’ll assume you never have been) it changes you..either for the better or worse. K.Michelle needs help in order for her to get the closure she needs so she can let go and let God. I really hope she finds it. And shame on Toya, you have no idea what your husband was like before you were with him, so please dont comment about things you know nothing about. Yes people change, but that still doesnt excuse the man he WAS. how many women are currently with ex-rapist, ex-abusers and down low brothers? Just because he doesnt show that side of him to you, doesnt mean its not in him. But bet, mess up a deal that’ll cost him money, see how fast he’ll go back to his old ways.
      Its clear Toya knew about these claims wayyy before the show if her friend Tamar was so quick to drop Memphitz name. Why are you waiting till now to get a gag order, unless what K.Michelle is saying is true and your just mad it go out!

  • Kamz_Mom

    “I promised myself that I wasn’t gonna talk about that bcuz she’s so irrelevant 2 me” yet yu OPENED ya mouth and spoke on her. The back n forth between yall is childish but let’s remember your girl Tamar told the world who she was talking about. Yu WERE NOT there so yu DONT NO!!! Deal with your husband and let K.Michelle be.

    • Maldrie

      EXACTLY! THEY WERE NOT THERE SO THEY SHOULDN’T BE SPEAKING ON IT! WHY WOULD A WOMAN CLAIM ABUSE IF SHE WASN’T? THAT’S JUST STUPID & NO MATTER HOW LONG AGO IT HAPPENED, MAYBE SHE DECIDED IT’S TIME TO LET EVERYONE KNOW SO THOSE IN THE SAME SITUATION WON’T BE AFRAID TO SPEAK UP! NENE & LISA FROM RHOA TOLD THEIR STORIES OF ABUSE EVEN THOUGH IT HAPPENED YEARS AGO, DID ANYONE DOUBT THEM?

  • dhgwen

    Sorry Toya, but giving voice to the issue of being beaten and abused is not “hating”. If you choose to keep the things that happened to YOU in YOUR relationship private then that is your choice, as K-Michelle has made her choice, and that’s to speak up. You are really the last person that can give credible commentary on HER previous relations with your now husband. It’s he who should defend himself against the accusations, if he has any defense. Hiding behind you is a chump and cowardly move and may prove K-Michelle’s point about the true nature of his manhood. If he is an abuser (mental or physical), time will surely tell. Thankfully for you, Weezy (and your brothers) may prevent Memphitz from ever showing the latter side of himself.

    • realadulttalk

      I wonder if it’s a choice or a gag order.

      • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=619747425 Lisa SimplySunshyne Jennings

        I think it was a gag, cause she would’ve been told.

    • Hey

      Can i ask you a question? Should Memphitz give you an account of his side of the story, would you believe him above K-Michelle? My reason for asking is not because i take side with either party, but as we all know in the case of allege abuse, society always side with the woman and no matter what the man’s says or lays claim to, he has been tried and found guilty by people’s court and the media; just as you have. No evidence but the words of an ex.

      • dhgwen

        I’ll accept his comment over Toya’s… Which by the way, the statement from his own mouth that he did choose to make just lends more credence to him having a thuggish, immature and volatile disposition. Never addressing the issue but stating, “f ya’ll n’s” and then sqwalked rudely (like a spoiled boy) about having paid for K-Michelle’s a$$ets. Is this the sweet, affectionate “man” that deserves the benefit of the doubt? Nope, I’ll err on the side of caution with this one…

      • MrsItisWhatitis!!!!

        Memphitz did do an interview with T T Torez about he situation.

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_TSRUNWKFBDGQBU3TICJHRE4YNQ Good Sam

      Where are her visible old scars? I believe they fought, but not to the extent that she is saying. Every week she ads a little more, then a little more to the story. She keeps adding on to it. He said they had an altercation and she started fighting him, in which she is well known for, and he grabbed her arms. He says that she began to scream and he put his hand over her mouth. He said the maid knocked on the door and he asked the maid to call the police. If he beat her so bad, why would he ask for the police to be called. She has never denied that he called the police. She never says that she called the police. The police did arrive. If she was battered, beaten and bleeding, as she has since added to the story, the police would have arrested him. They would not have left a beaten to the blood woman with her abuser, I’m sorry….

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_TSRUNWKFBDGQBU3TICJHRE4YNQ Good Sam

      Where are her visible old scars? I believe they fought, but not to the extent that she is saying. Every week she ads a little more, then a little more to the story. She keeps adding on to it. He said they had an altercation and she started fighting him, in which she is well known for, and he grabbed her arms. He says that she began to scream and he put his hand over her mouth. He said the maid knocked on the door and he asked the maid to call the police. If he beat her so bad, why would he ask for the police to be called. She has never denied that he called the police. She never says that she called the police. The police did arrive. If she was battered, beaten and bleeding, as she has since added to the story, the police would have arrested him. They would not have left a beaten to the blood woman with her abuser, I’m sorry….

      • lovelyjay

        I know I am a little late in posting this, but I must say that I do believe k. I was a person who was abused a very young age. If he never would have said I made you, spoken like a true abuser. That is the same thing my ex said to me, I made you the woman you are. No, no police was called out of fear of what he would do to me. It took me ten years to be at peace with what happened and to finally tell people what happened to me. I can now look back and laugh about certain things, but turned me into a very mad and violent person. If I never had my daughter I probably would still be that person.

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_TSRUNWKFBDGQBU3TICJHRE4YNQ Good Sam

      Where are her visible old scars? I believe they fought, but not to the extent that she is saying. Every week she ads a little more, then a little more to the story. She keeps adding on to it. He said they had an altercation and she started fighting him, in which she is well known for, and he grabbed her arms. He says that she began to scream and he put his hand over her mouth. He said the maid knocked on the door and he asked the maid to call the police. If he beat her so bad, why would he ask for the police to be called. She has never denied that he called the police. She never says that she called the police. The police did arrive. If she was battered, beaten and bleeding, as she has since added to the story, the police would have arrested him. They would not have left a beaten to the blood woman with her abuser, I’m sorry….

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_TSRUNWKFBDGQBU3TICJHRE4YNQ Good Sam

      Where are her visible old scars? I believe they fought, but not to the extent that she is saying. Every week she ads a little more, then a little more to the story. She keeps adding on to it. He said they had an altercation and she started fighting him, in which she is well known for, and he grabbed her arms. He says that she began to scream and he put his hand over her mouth. He said the maid knocked on the door and he asked the maid to call the police. If he beat her so bad, why would he ask for the police to be called. She has never denied that he called the police. She never says that she called the police. The police did arrive. If she was battered, beaten and bleeding, as she has since added to the story, the police would have arrested him. They would not have left a beaten to the blood woman with her abuser, I’m sorry….

  • bluekissess

    I agree with the K Michelle “Don’t ride with or for your man if you don’t know what you riding for.”she was in love with the man which isn’t an excuse to not press charges. Both of them need to shut it. It’s not cool two women bickering over a man while he sits back with his hands crossed. Let it go!

    • http://www.facebook.com/candice.desouza1 Candice Desouza

      Agreed. K.Michelle needs to let go, whether Memphiz beat her or not, she failed to act so shut up and let Toya and Memphiz live their lives. K.Michelle needs to let go of the pass and worry about raising her child and her stagnant music career.