Toya Speaks On K. Michelle: Please Stop Talking About Me and My Husband and Promote Your Music

August 8th, 2012 - By Brande Victorian

Source: Hiphopwired.com

For weeks we have only heard K. Michelle’s side of her beef with Toya and allegations that she has been talking stuff all along, but finally we get to hear her thoughts on the situation straight from her mouth. After witnessing K. Michelle’s endless rants about her and her husband Memphitz, and being asked about the situation repeatedly, Toya decided to speak her piece during an Atlanta bloggers brunch with Talking With Tami.

The Jasmine Brand caught the statement and here’s what she said:

“I promised myself that I wasn’t gonna talk about that because she’s so irrelevant to me, but I’m gonna say this: The picture she’s painting of my husband is not my husband. I’ve been knowing him for six years, I know several women that he has dated that never said anything about abuse. If somebody abuse you like that, where is the proof, where is the police report, where is the pictures, where is the messages that you said he sent threats to your kid and threatened to kill your child?…It don’t matter about love, you would be in jail if you threaten my kid…And she’s saying that I said all this stuff about her, pull it up, where is it?

“I never said anything about that situation, never addressed it…Memphitz father died years ago in Memphis. He comes from a family where it was always his mother and his father so he’s like a loving person, he’s very affectionate. Anybody that knows him for real just be like ‘what is wrong with this girl?’ And the crazy part about it is everybody say that you crazy and you hit them. You the abuser.

“I just wish that she would stop saying my name. I got a gag order that I just got. Pump your music up. You was given a platform, I was given a platform, I was here to tell my story. I been through a lot of things with my ex, yall don’t know about that. I’m not here to bash him, I’m not a hater. But please stop talking about me and my husband and my family and only promote your music and do what you gotta do on the show. God gave you a platform, use it.”

K. Michelle, your move.

Check out the video clip of her comment. What do you think about Toya’s statement?



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  • sunshine

    All men lie I have never met a man that didn’t lie u don’t know him as well as u think you do and I would keep KY comments about k.Michelle to yourself.! His mouth aint no prayer book and he damn sure aint God becarefu_l. What u say u might eat those words

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=619747425 Lisa SimplySunshyne Jennings

    Just look at the situation. Memphitz was a record executive who took advantage of K-Michelle, and thru litigation she was released from her contract. However he placed a 3 yr gag order on her. So, NO TOYA…YOU WOULDN’T HEAR ABOUT THE NEGATIVE THINGS HE DID! He had the chance to hook Toya Wright, and now that K-Michelle can talk, of course everyone is oblivious to the facts. I say, we weren’t there to see it. BUT…I do believe that it happened. Speaking the truth about a life situation is not “hating” it’s therapy.

  • #Mrs.Itiswhatitis!!!!!

    I feel that K. Michelle is not telling the truth about the extent of the abuse. Judging from the way she explodes on the reality show for the least little thing. K.. Michelle has gotten into an argument with almost everyone on he show. I like Toya statement, she never said her husband didn’t do it she said that not who she knows and based off of who she knows she can’t see him doing it. She also made a valid point, she know her husband but she does not know K. Michelle and as a wife she is suppose to stick by and support her husband. If K. Michelle has proof this happened and if Memphitz lawyers called and told them they could not mention his name on the show unless she had proof this happened and K. Michelle was so abused and wanted to move forward with her life why not submit her proof. It has been proven by her that she is violent, hot tempered and a bully. Everything she a has to say someone is negative just about. Karlie Red, inflated a$% cheek and turn of the century rapper; Rasheeda, puff bag eyes and Georgia Prune. If you try and find any interview were Toya said anything about her (besides the written ones that specified they are rumored to have heard), you will not find but one so far of her speaking out on this matter. K. Michelle threatens to hit everybody. This is stuff coming out of he mouth. I don’t believe he hit her I do believe he tried to restrain her and im judging this off the way she acts with others. I believe Toya did and said just what she was suppose to do as a wife and a mother. Sorry people it is what it is. You have to look at everybody actions and not just listen at what they are saying,

  • Wassup

    I feel There is NO REASON at all to lie about abuse. You would be surprised about how much you “think” you know about someone. I use to be in a abusive relationship and I’m only 17, so I know how that feels. YOU WERN’T THERE PERIOD. I love Toya and K Michelle, but if K Michelle is so irrelevant to you, it sure doesn’t show.

  • CoCoCola77

    Toya didn’t bash her ex (Lil Wayne) because up until a few years ago, he was her primary source of income. It would not have been beneficial to her to speak out against Wayne when he was paying all of her bills. So the statement that she made regarding that was irrelevant.
    Also, K. Michelle never said that Memphitz threatened her son via text message. She just said that he threatened to harm him so that particular threat could have been spoken verbally. Toya, her friends and many others down there in Atlanta GOSSIP AND SPREAD HEAR-SAY too much! Even during this interview Toya is talking about hear-say whereas K. Michelle only speaks on her personal experiences. And could somebody please explain to me why it is that none of Toyas so called “friends” have recommended that she brush up on her English prior to doing interviews? She speaks horribly.

  • Deliciamo

    K-Michelle is a NUT-CASE!! The only reason BLACK WOMEN agree with this is because it’s drama. We have been through so much with black men that anything negative about a black man is believable. Abuse is a serious accusation and K-Michelle in no way acts like an abused woman. She seems very bitter to me. Her eyes light up when she speaks of him and she is still in search of a man like him. I think he broke her heart and she can’t let it go. This was like 5 years ago. And she seems to be trying too hard to tarnish his name. Single-black female comes to mind. Very eager for revenge NOW, but what happened back then? She’s telling her story to the wrong people. She should have told the cops. She’s a coo-coo bird.

  • CarlaKah

    Ugh. Isn’t it K. Michelle’s business whether Memphitz hit her or not? I read between the lines that Toya is saying that K. is lying because of who her husbsnd is TODAY. Stop it! Toya would be wise to just state she doesn’t know, because she wasn’t there and his past (BEFORE she started dating Memphitz) really doesn’t affect her current relationship with him. Claiming that other exes and other people don’t believe K.’s story, therefore it’s a lie is so dumb. This attitude is why SO MAY WOMEN do not go to the police or eventheir close people to show and prove that they have been abused! I wasn’t there, I don’t lnow the story either but I do know that I will never claim to know who my current man was with his ex(es). And as a public figure, Toya should stay away from comments that make her seem like she believes that, women that say they have been abused by seemingly kind men, are crying wolf.

  • BARRAKA WYLIE

    WHY IS THIS IMPORTANT TO U K MICHELLE WORRY ABOUT MAKING YOUR ALBUM! !!!! IN OTHER WORDS DO YOU! !!

  • BARRAKA WYLIE

    WHY IS THIS IMPORTANT TO U K MICHELLE WORRY ABOUT MAKING YOUR ALBUM! !!!! IN OTHER WORDS DO YOU! !!

  • cub

    Your typical woman. He moves on get married now the ex wants 2 bash him. Y she doing it because she has no 1 like most women do. Most men don’t sweat it. Yes u will b missed but men don’t start rumors 2 make the new man 2nd guess his choice and cause confusion chaos and unhappiness.

    • http://www.facebook.com/christina.dagnello Christina D’agnello

      maybe she’s doing it because all the publicity he’s getting over his new marriage stirs up her inner resentment towards him………and no men do sometimes start rumours to prevent their ex’s from moving on and exalting themselves.

      • CarlaKah

        If you watch the show, you see she is asked about it a lot and she is telling WHAT happend to her and explaining WHY she went off back then. It is her story to tell. Let her! I am sorry but women need to support eachother on these things.

    • Me

      I get what you’re saying because some women are like that but not ALL women sit around and bash they ex because he’s with someone else, I never have and in fact I get along with the women because I moved on. Some men don’t bash they ex because it seems that these days the women just turn up dead somewhere not all men are that cool about the relationship ending either.

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