“My Girlfriend Did A 180:” Why Men Say Women Totally Change Once In A Relationship
So, you change
And this is when it happens. All the things you said you were “Totally fine!” with before—you’re tired of pretending to be fine with. All the time you said you were okay with being away from him, you’re actually not okay with that. And all the real life problems and stress you have in your life that you want to talk to him about, you finally spill out. And you go from being the “cool,” relaxed, non-demanding, no-drama girlfriend to “a total mess.” The last thing you wanted to be. You’re not really a ton of drama. You’re just a normal person. But in comparison to the easiest girlfriend in the world—the role you’ve been playing to get the man to commit to you—you now seem like “a total mess.”