“My Girlfriend Did A 180:” Why Men Say Women Totally Change Once In A Relationship
The first month (or few)
Since women are constantly fed the idea that men are terrified of commitment, and that any man you date is probably dating three other women, we’re already ultra aware that men might fly at the drop of a pin. Or a quirk. So, sometimes we try to be perfect. We don’t want to complain about work, show our insecurities or ever make it seem like we are having any problems. We want to make it seem that our lives are totally together. And that we’re not “a mess” (a term men often derogatorily assign to their exes.)