“My Girlfriend Did A 180:” Why Men Say Women Totally Change Once In A Relationship

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August 10, 2012 ‐ By Julia Austin
"Confused woman"

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“I miss the way we used to be.” “Where did the woman go that I fell in love with?” “You’ve changed.” These are painful things to hear from your partner, but many women do once a relationship has gotten serious. Have you ever noticed that often just as things are getting great, they fall apart? Just when you thought your love was solidified, it vanished? Well, bad news: it might be your own fault.

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  • Cattaco

    Before I address the “article” (and I use the term loosely), I want to say that this is the WORST website design evah! One or two sentences per page? Come on! That trick didn’t work in High School when you were assigned a five-page paper and it won’t work now. It’s obvious that this website is set up merely to hang ads onto it. The people who run it don’t really give a crap about the content displayed.
    As for the article: Really? Women who suppress their own needs and pretend to be something they’re not run into relationship problems? Who could have seen that coming? And I’m sure glad that someone took the time to copy most of an article that’s run in every issue of Cosmo, Elle, Ms, Good Housekeeping, Vogue…etc for the last 60 years or so. It’s so refreshing to see such hard-hitting writing on such an original topic.

  • http://blackonpurpose.blogspot.com/ gryph

    men say it because it is true. women are highly competitive. when they feel they’ve `won’ they slack off and or show their azz. not all though, but a lot.

  • Veratta Pegram-Floyd

    If you act fake in the beginning, and try to be perfect when we all know perfection does not exist, then you deserve unhappiness. I don’t know any woman (including myself) that is not real about her needs upfront.

  • Veratta Pegram-Floyd

    If you act fake in the beginning, and try to be perfect when we all know perfection does not exist, then you deserve unhappiness. I don’t know any woman (including myself) that is not real about her needs upfront.

  • Veratta Pegram-Floyd

    If you act fake in the beginning, and try to be perfect when we all know perfection does not exist, then you deserve unhappiness. I don’t know any woman (including myself) that is not real about her needs upfront.

  • jdmann

    Come too hard women submit, come too soft they compete or try to control. Pimp or not to pimp that is the question.

    • Herm Cain

      Only 1 way to go on these b*****s and that’s HARD

  • WhoMe

    Good one. Thankfully I have Reader on my phone, so i dont have to click.

  • http://www.facebook.com/barbara.codner Barbara Codner

    Things change after sex too but that’s life. I doubt men are willing to give that up because they fear a woman may change.

  • Marquis de Sade

    It’s called LOSS LEADER, i.e. BAIT n’ SWITCH, which eventually leads to CAVEAT EMPTOR: BUYERS BEWARE!

  • GalaxyEmpress

    Because you men drive the average woman CRAZY!!!!

    • Nicole

      lol…Real Talk….I thought I was sane til my ex did a number on me and I started questioning my sanity….SMH

      • JP

        and when that sh*t happens, its not a good feeling. At least you can say he is your ex I’m still going back and forth with my “fiance” and its just there. Love him to death we have alot of great times and we had the worst of the lows. It always seems the one you want aint the one for you.

  • MLS2698

    I didn’t click, but per psychology, personalities change every 10 years.