Til Death Did Them Part: Couple of 40 Years Dies Within 16 Hours Of Each Other

August 2nd, 2012 - By Brande Victorian

Source: Dailymail.co.uk

John Clark, 86, could barely speak above a whisper for the past two months after he was admitted to an assisted living facility in Tampa, FL, but when he saw his wife of 40 years laying on a hospital bed after suffering a heart attack July 22, John spoke loud and clear for the first time in a long time.

“Grace, I love you. Grace, I love you. I love you,” he said.

John had been brought to the hospital by his step-son Fred Hearns who wanted to see his parents reunited for what he knew could likely be the last time. His 81-year-old mother, Grace, had fed her husband every single meal since he was admitted to the home, and before then she had taken care of John for the past six years after he suffered a stroke. Fred had kept his mother’s deteriorating condition in the intensive care unit at Tampa General Hospital a secret but as her health continued to decline, he knew he had to take John to see her. It was then then that John took his wife’s hands in his and told her he loved her. Four hours later he was found unresponsive and taken to St. Joseph’s hospital where he was pronounced dead. The next morning, Grace was taken off of her ventilator and pronounced dead at noon, just 16 hours after her husband had passed.

According to ABC News, “much of the Clarks’ lives revolved around Allen Temple A.M.E. Church, where Mr. Clark served as a trustee.”

 He married Grace around 1970 after each had been married previously. For a number of years they summered in Maryland, where he worked as a chef in resort hotels. Mr. Clark also worked as an equipment operator at the Gardiner phosphate plant.

Grace Tillman graduated from Middleton High School and earned an associate’s degree at Gibbs Junior College. She worked at the segregated Clara Frye Memorial Hospital, then began a 35-year career in data processing with Hillsborough County.

Together, they helped found a Doug Williams fan club, which met weekly with the Buccaneers quarterback in a Wag’s restaurant, and a senior ministry at their church. John was the custodian, the chef, the painter and the plumber at the Allen Temple A.M.E. Church while Grace was a founding member of the Belmont Heights/Jackson Heights Civic Association and volunteered at Meals on Wheels.

Though losing one’s parents on the same day is a sad occasion, Fred takes comfort in knowing his parents moved on together.

“In my mind,” he said, “I could hear her telling him, ‘John, I’ll see you at 12 noon sharp.’ “

Brande Victorian is the news and operations editor for madamenoire.com. Follow her on twitter @Be_Vic.

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  • HOUSTON

    LOVE ALWAYS

  • Machelle Kwan

    Wow. That’s so touching. They had that rare thing that’s called Love. The sad part is..I know i’ll never have that. At least they lived a life worthwhile.

  • Mrs.D

    This is what true love is I’m in tears right now. What a love story. Its a long road and I will pray to get some wonderful years like that with my husband. Through thick,thin, sickness and health, rich or poor. They did that and couldn’t live a moment apart. I love love and real love is unconditional. May they rest in heaven partying it up together :)

  • http://www.facebook.com/Porsche.Waithera Porsche Waithera

    Tears***

  • Ms_Mara

    I want a love like that! Very touching. May they both rest in peace.

  • http://www.facebook.com/cecelia.williams.54 Cecelia Williams

    REAL LOVE.

  • honeybrown1976

    I am seriously tearing. This is everlasting love in this World and beyond.

  • La Shante’ McCray

    PRAISE GOD, THEY ARE STILL TOGETHER IN HEAVEN…AS GOD PLANNED.

  • Live_in_LDN

    A sweet wedding anniversary in the sky.

  • Trisha_B

    I’m a have this one day! Beautiful

  • Msmykimoto2u

    What a sad but absolutely beautiful ending to a real love story

  • http://www.facebook.com/APeachJ Ashley Jones

    I love reading about these types of stories…Real Love! Marriage is a gift that so many take for granted!!!!

  • Gimmeabreak78

    This story is definitely sad, but the beauty in it is undeniable. I know their loved ones are heartbroken to lose both of them in the same day, but I have the sense that somewhere deep inside they are both comforted and proud to know that they transitioned together after a lifetime of dedication to one another.

  • JustSayin

    Awe this reminds me of the movie, “The Notebook.” (Tear drop)…. True love is something everlasting and just beautiful.

    • Msmykimoto2u

      Omg it really does. How beautiful

    • Kenedy

      I think its safe to say Im the only person in this world who hasn’t watched that movie…..is it weird that i hate love story movies?

  • http://www.facebook.com/sherry.mickey Sherry Mickey

    Love!! This is beautiful!!

  • lalatarea

    this makes me want to cry out of joy and sadness that in this day and age i might not be able to find love like this anymore.

    • Msmykimoto2u

      Ikr? It’s so fairy tale like, you can’t even imagine of something so romantic happening this day and age

  • Yamini

    This brought tears to my eyes. I love it! This is marriage…this is what people have forgotten about these days. Just beautiful!

  • CA Pullen

    Now, this is what real marriage is all about, not all the foolishness and game playing that is going on now in some marriages. In sickness and in health, for better, for worse. This woman took care of her husband when he got sick. Marriage is not a cake walk and a bed of roses. I love to see couples who stay together, resolve their differences and learn to get along under the same roof with out no infidelity until death part them. Especially black couples. Unfortunately you don’t see a lot of that.

    • Live_in_LDN

      No offense…but you only assume there was no foolishness but for all you know they could have cheated and beat on each other several times?

  • sam

    Truly beautiful.

  • CocoaBabe

    awwwwwwww! God bless them.

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