Making The Grade: Do You Test Men?

2. The Jealousy Test

For some strange reason, men and women who try to make their significant other jealous seem to think that is a good way to validate their partner’s feelings or the relationship. While noticing that your man pokes out his chest a little more when other men are around is a bit flattering, TRYING to make him jealous is a sign of deep insecurity – and this can backfire on you if you’re not careful. Most men and women are transparent when doing this anyway, and it shows a lack of confidence – which isn’t Hot. If you are constantly BLATANTLY flirting with other people in front of your mate trying to see if you’ll get a rise out of him, all you’re really doing is disrespecting your partner while making yourself look like a fool – and possibly creating a scene. And if YOU are the jealous type and always asking him if he thinks the waitress is hot, then he may grow tired of always having to prove his love and adoration for you. If a man is into you, you’ll know it – because he’ll make sure that there is no room to doubt him.