Making The Grade: Do You Test Men?

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1. The Liar Test

No woman (or man for that matter) likes to be lied to. We look to partner up with people that we feel we can trust and who is open and honest about everything. When getting to know someone, we may feel vulnerable early on about whether or not this is someone we can open up to or give our hearts to, so we challenge him in little ways to see how forthright he is. Sometimes we ask him the same question over and over again, many different ways, just to see if he answers the same way every time. Our logic is that it’s easier to remember the truth than it is to keep up with a lie, so if he answers the same way every single time, chances are he’s telling the truth. We may even ask him questions we already know the answer to, just to see if he’ll be honest about it. For example, a friend of yours saw him out at the club Saturday night. He didn’t share that information with you, so you decide to ask him what he got into over the weekend. If he says he was out at the club with the fellas, he might be a pretty straight up guy. But if he says he tended to his sickly grandmother, then you know what kind of man you’re dealing with. A lying one. Just be careful, because no one likes to be questioned over and over again. He’ll pick up on the fact that you have trust issues – and who wants to deal with that?

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