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1. You Don’t Feel Worthy of Your Partner
If you constantly hear yourself saying to your partner, “I don’t deserve you,” then your confidence needs a real boost. Not only are you downplaying how great you really are, but you may be planting a seed in your partner’s head that screams, “Maybe he/she really DOESN’T deserve me”…and they’ll have second thoughts about their commitment to you. You have to ask yourself why you feel your boo is “better” than you are, or what it is about yourself that doesn’t measure up in the relationship. Do you not feel smart enough, pretty enough, funny enough? Trust me, if you keep pointing out all of your perceived flaws, your man will start imagining them as well – and any undesirable traits, whether real or imagined, will become glaring. If you truly feel you have several areas of your personality or life that need improving, put off dating while you work on yourself. This will boost your confidence, and eventually you will meet someone you feel compliments you as your equal, and they’ll be lucky to have YOU.
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