Listen Up Fellas! 7 Signs SHE’s Just Not That Into You

July 17th, 2012 - By Julia Austin
"Two people talking on balcony"

thyblackman.com

She’s talking up a friend

If a woman is telling you how wonderful, how gorgeous and how funny her friend is, she’s not into you. And she’s either doing this because it never even occurred to her that you were into her—which is no good because that means she felt no sexual vibes coming from you and she has friends zoned you—or, because she does know you’re into her and wants to deflect the attention. But, let it be known, if a woman is ever trying to set you up with somebody else, she has firmly made the decision that she does not and cannot see you as more than a friend. If a woman has any inkling she might be attracted to a guy at present, or in the future, she doesn’t go pimping him out.

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  • www.facebook.com/realdeeplove

    these are all facts… however some ladies turn back and start being into him… so what do you say about this?

  • Ally

    Madame Noire…the ads?? really?? very irritating and I won’t be in any hurry to click on an article because of it.

  • KamJos

    Ooh I’m guilty of some of these with a guy that’s into me. And yes I have told him I’m not interested but he keeps pursuing. I need to find a way to kindly tell him that not only do I not like him, but that there is no chance of us ever happening.

  • amansview

    Rather than playing these sophomoric games, it would be easier if women just clearly said that they were not interested. Men are not mind readers. There is such a thing as the gentle letdown. At least then, the man would not waste his time pursuing what is ultimately a dead end.

    • Morning Rain

      Some of us do and then we are told that we are lying.

      Nobody is a mind reader, but one would have to be pretty dense to not see when someone isn’t interested in them.

    • Angel

      I’ve said everything from no thank you, to you’ll find someone for you but I’m not that someone..& then I get annoyed & change my approach from nice to just really what more do I have to say or do to let you know that I don’t want you and never will…. & even then they’ll still pursue…a lot of men can’t handle the truth as they claim they can..

  • FAMURattler85

    I’ve done every last one of these.

  • FattyFatKimye

    Hey, my man doesn’t mind me going out in jeans and t-shirt with flip-flops because he goes casual too. He rather for me to be natural and be myself than be fake and have to dress to impress, he hates fakes.

    • randomtandem

      but he’s your man so he already knows you’re into him lol

  • Ladybug94

    I couldn’t get through this article. The page turning and the ad starting up every time you turn the page; it’s frustrating. Forget it.

    • FattyFatKimye

      If you got Google Chrome, get Adblock, it works.

  • louvwhine

    Great! A homosexual offering advice to hetero couples.

  • busty

    I’m sick of these types or articles! They are so recycled! I’m sick of clicking! I did not even bother clicking!!