NEVER STOP, NEVER GIVE UP: 7 Things You Should Never Stop Doing For A Woman

July 14, 2012 ‐ By Julia Austin


"Happy young couple"

In the beginning of a relationship, you do nice things for your partner to impress her, rather than to make her feel good—that’s just a bonus. You want to show her what the package includes, should she decide to buy it. And so, unfortunately, once you’ve wooed her and won her, it’s easy to get too comfortable and stop making the large and loving gestures you once made. You think, “She knows that I adore her/find her attractive/am happy with her. So I don’t have to show it.” And, while she probably does know, once the effort goes out the window, so can the excitement of a relationship. And once that goes, your girlfriend/wife can start to wonder, “Is there something else out there? Is this what I want my life to be like?” A few simple gestures could keep those thoughts at bay.

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  • talaktochoba

    aren’t we going a bit overboard? PDA perhaps, but i’m not running for President; her job is just a job, she doesn’t own the company…back rubs are the answer, not flyers or calls; since you’re all spoilt, you still have to be dated, but if i wanted a trophy, i’d have married a blonde like Eldrick Woods (please don’t insult tigers, or men), or a Kardashian; staying after her like a dog over 20 summers later seems to suffice for all your other “requirements”…

  • This is a great list! Such simple things every woman loves

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  • Nellie81

    I read this list to my husband and all 7 is what he does every week. I truly love this man & he definitely loves me too.

  • Seriously

    This is so off topic lol! But I know that guy in the 1st picture! Lol we went to the same high school!

    • NachoAverage


  • Just saying!!

    Wow. This…article…is…fricking…fantastic!!! My heart is fluttering! This author is in my head!!! Lol one of the best I’ve read on MN!!

  • Faith

    Great list for both gentlemen and ladies! It’s the little things that add up and keep the relationship special (and spicy).



    • theNewDanger

      Cluelessness is bred by incompetence on the other end.

  • blackbutterfly

    This is a great list…all 100% truth from a woman’s POV.

  • Big Mike

    #6 works like a CHARM!

    Brothas: DO THAT SH!T. She will love you for it.

    One of Big Mike’s Tricks:

    Whe you both are at home doing nuthin, gently stroke the ends of her hair. Don’t run your hands all up her head – just gently touch the very ends of her hair. Eeeeever so gently, just stroke the ends of it. And watch what happens.

    You can thank me later, fellas.

    • guest

      Does it matter if it’s hers or not?

      • Team nymphis

        Second funniest comment ever.

      • Big Mike

        Doesn’t matter

    • Aolani Kayo

      What would happen is me becoming highly annoyed. I don’t like for people to put their hands anywhere near my face or head.

    • talaktochoba

      time to grow up, Big Mike;
      that list is for girls, not women;
      the difference is the former are still looking for their confidence, so depend upon you to provide it for them–women, on the other hand, demand your self-confidence before they give you theirs (confidence, not self-confidence);

      girls are Beyonce and Condoleeza Rice;

      women are Dr. Mae Jemison and the First Lady;

  • amansview

    Men tend to be goal-oriented:
    (1) college degree – check
    (2) house – check
    (3) job – check
    (4) wife – check
    Only #4 does not apply. For men, the courtship never ends. FWIW, there are other ways to make a woman feel wanted.

  • Puff

    This list was fantastic. By far my favorite from you guys so far. Everything on it has the potential to brighten your partner’s day and keep the positive energy in a relationship. And it can all be done with very little time or money. I have to echo Sabrina. Every man (and woman really) needs to be up on these things.

  • sabrina

    (cc: my future husband)

  • sabrina

    (cc: my future husband)