Women put up with a lot of games. We’re told not to scare guys off, not to chase them or show too much interest. It leaves us re-wording every single text message just to make sure we’re not coming on too strong. And it also leaves us in a place where, if a guy comes in and wants to sweep us off our feet and give us his all, we’re so happy for the change of pace that we can fail to question it. But wait! Even though we wish more of the good guys would speed things up and commit, the fact is that most of them take it slow. It’s how they function. So, along with being grateful for the rare ones, be cautious and question why they’re not part of the status quo. They might just be too needy.