Do That Ish And Watch What Happens: 8 Things You Shouldn’t Do Without Consulting Your Husband

July 5th, 2012 - By Drenna Armstrong
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We know that friends and family run into hard times, but what you can’t do is welcome them with open arms into your home without talking to your man.  The bills increase, the food runs out quicker, the amount of space and alone time depletes, etc. Next thing you know it’s a pretty big argument. You don’t want your relationship to take a hit just because you were trying to do some good for someone else, so share your idea first before you wind up catching hell for it.

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  • http://www.facebook.com/minkysmom82 Alexis Morris

    my fiance does not want me to have braids. he won’t let up on it after years of talking about it either. he doesn’t think it would suit me at all, he would rather me have close cut short hair than braids, but if I were to get braids, it wouldn’t be a deal breaker, it just wouldn’t be the best look for me in his opinion.

  • DeLeon629

    It’s cool that you & ur husband have that kinda bond, Yet for some/many men, the sudden changes do two things:
    1. Indicate a woman’s lack of consideration for the importance of maintaining an apperance that’s worthy of keeping him attracted to her physically (be ‘Miss Independent’ if you wanna, but remember:”What you won’t do, sooomebody else is/will”)
    2, Give a signal (in reference to #1) that she’s doing the sudden changes because it’s SOMEBODY ELSE in her life that like’s it that way.

    • sweettea

      If he’ll leave or cheat because your hair is changed and he doesn’t like it what happens if you get cancer and chemo makes all your hair fall out or you get pregnant and your whole body changes. If he can’t handle something so small don’t marry him.

  • staci b

    Yeah, I didn’t appreciate the hairstyle thing being included either

  • dee

    WTF is this the 50′s? LMAO this list is ridiculous. I will change my hair drastically if i want to OR take an impromptu girls trip OR quit my job–hubby would have to build a bridge and get over it.

    • bigbootyjudy

      And you may not stayy married for long because you’re not compromising in your marriage you’re being selfish…there was just an article about women like you being selfish

      • KIR12

        That woman ain’t married. I doubt if she even has a man. lol

    • Mel

      If someone treated you like that, wouldn’t that be being inconsiderate?

    • MLS2698

      I agree! and this is NOT the fifties.

  • Nope

    Women don’t do things “on a whim”. They (over)think things too much for that to happen. Even if what they do makes no damn sense at all, she still thought about it beforehand and she just did what she felt at the time. And I’ve learned that women don’t ask hypothetical questions. If a woman ever asks a man, “What would you do if I …..?/Would you be mad if I……?”, that said event has already taken place.

    • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001191747625 Nina James Weber

      Ha-hahahahahahaHA! Soooooooo true!!! … especially your final sentence.