Do That Ish And Watch What Happens: 8 Things You Shouldn’t Do Without Consulting Your Husband

July 5th, 2012 - By Drenna Armstrong

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It’s been said that there are some things that people in a relationship just shouldn’t share with each other; you know, the idea that a little secret here and there won’t hurt anybody. There are also some things – and they come far and few between – that have to be done on a fly and you can’t tell your partner until the ball is already rolling.  In all likelihood, that might be true. But those things don’t come up often so before you do something crazy, here are a few things we think you should share with your husband before you act on it.  What do you think?

 

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  • http://www.facebook.com/minkysmom82 Alexis Morris

    my fiance does not want me to have braids. he won’t let up on it after years of talking about it either. he doesn’t think it would suit me at all, he would rather me have close cut short hair than braids, but if I were to get braids, it wouldn’t be a deal breaker, it just wouldn’t be the best look for me in his opinion.

  • DeLeon629

    It’s cool that you & ur husband have that kinda bond, Yet for some/many men, the sudden changes do two things:
    1. Indicate a woman’s lack of consideration for the importance of maintaining an apperance that’s worthy of keeping him attracted to her physically (be ‘Miss Independent’ if you wanna, but remember:”What you won’t do, sooomebody else is/will”)
    2, Give a signal (in reference to #1) that she’s doing the sudden changes because it’s SOMEBODY ELSE in her life that like’s it that way.

    • sweettea

      If he’ll leave or cheat because your hair is changed and he doesn’t like it what happens if you get cancer and chemo makes all your hair fall out or you get pregnant and your whole body changes. If he can’t handle something so small don’t marry him.

  • staci b

    Yeah, I didn’t appreciate the hairstyle thing being included either

  • dee

    WTF is this the 50′s? LMAO this list is ridiculous. I will change my hair drastically if i want to OR take an impromptu girls trip OR quit my job–hubby would have to build a bridge and get over it.

    • bigbootyjudy

      And you may not stayy married for long because you’re not compromising in your marriage you’re being selfish…there was just an article about women like you being selfish

      • KIR12

        That woman ain’t married. I doubt if she even has a man. lol

    • Mel

      If someone treated you like that, wouldn’t that be being inconsiderate?

    • MLS2698

      I agree! and this is NOT the fifties.

  • Nope

    Women don’t do things “on a whim”. They (over)think things too much for that to happen. Even if what they do makes no damn sense at all, she still thought about it beforehand and she just did what she felt at the time. And I’ve learned that women don’t ask hypothetical questions. If a woman ever asks a man, “What would you do if I …..?/Would you be mad if I……?”, that said event has already taken place.

    • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001191747625 Nina James Weber

      Ha-hahahahahahaHA! Soooooooo true!!! … especially your final sentence.