B**** Bad, Woman Good, Lady Better: Lupe Fiasco Gets the Bad Beyotch Meme Right

June 26th, 2012 - By MN Editor

Source: Vibe.com

By Tatianah Green

Chicago artist Lupe Fiasco has returned this summer to take on one of hip hop’s most controversial terms, but his new single “B**** Bad” is not the typical rap song we’ve been exposed to as of late.

One song that is you have probably heard blasted over the radio waves and Internet stations non-stop, “Ayy Ladies” by Lil Wayne’s artist Tyga featuring Travis Porter. The song’s hook and chorus calls the attention of “ladies” and then flips the script and proclaims “If you a top notch b**** let me hear you holler…” and then goes into misogynist instructions for the women who dance to this song. It’s one thing to be called “Miss Independent” (thanks Ne-Yo), and it’s another thing to be called a b****. But not just any b****, a top notch one at that because you make your own money and have your own car and home. I think Miss Independent had a better ring to it.

According to Urban Dictionary, a “bad b****” is a woman who is “Totally mentally gifted and usually also fine as hell” or “Beautiful and Determined.” On that same website, you remove “bad” and get an entirely different definition, perhaps the most popular being “a woman with a bad attitude; annoying and whining,” and the list goes on. Why in recent years is the title of b**** a good thing to be, especially a bad one? That I couldn’t tell you, but even female rappers like Nicki Minaj embrace the term openly in their music. It’s as if the music industry is selling a mentality that men and women are completely misunderstanding.

With kids and adults enjoying the summer weather in their cars, at parties, or listening at home, the question that comes to mind is what will come of those who listen to these types of lyrics? This is where Lupe’s new single comes in. Giving multiple scenarios, the lyricist with a reputation of going his own route and exposing societal ills in all categories, paints a picture of the long-term effects of children—both male and female—growing up listening to the aforementioned rap songs. In the first verse, Lupe describes what happens when a 4-year old boy listens to his mother sing along with a song claiming that she’s a bad b****.

“First he’s relating the word b**** with his mama, comma/And because she’s relating to herself, His most important source of help and mental health/ He may skew respect for dishonor” The chorus goes: “B**** bad, woman good, lady better, they misunderstood.”

In the second verse, he describes a scene of pre-teen girls watching rap videos online with that artist singing “All I want is a bad b****” in what seems all too similar too the sounds of rapper Drake, who has repeatedly sung and rapped about these kind of women. The girls see the video models’ image and that’s where the confusion comes in, according to Lupe.

“Now let’s say that they less concerned with him/And more with the video girl acquiescent to his whims/ Ah, the plot thickens/High heels, long hair, fat booty, slim/Reality check, I’m not trippin’/They don’t see a paid actress, just what makes a bad b****”

The philosophical rapper uses this song as what he refers to as a “psychological weapon” to open up the ears of those listening, especially women who have no choice but to try to block out these messages which the rap community seems all too keen on flooding the airwaves with. The illustration painted in the last verse is likely the most easily seen when we look at how black men and women relate to one another today. Lupe breaks down how these messages of what it is to be a “bad b****” cause a breakdown in relationships between men and women whose own definitions of the phrase influence the way they engage one another.

“He caught in the reality/she caught in the illusion…Bad mean good to her, She really nice and smart/But bad mean bad to him, B**** don’t play a part/But b**** still bad to her if he say it the wrong way/ But she think she a b****, what a double entendre.”

The lyrics are simple but expose the complication of the common trend of taking historically negative terms and trying to flip them into a term of endearment. Lupe Fiasco is known to speak his mind about the industry and society as a whole with songs like “Dumb it Down” and “Words I Never Said.” Now he’s trying to get listeners to think twice before they use the term “bad b****” again. Can this song garner the same popularity as the slew of songs out there that perpetuate the “bad b****” meme? We shall see.

Check out the song below. What do you think about Lupe’s message?

Tatianah Green is a writer and blogger from Chicago.  Follow her on twitter at @tfortrendsetta



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  • http://www.facebook.com/marcella.kelley Marcella Kelley

    This is going to be a common case of great song, great message, but very little airplay. We see it happen all the time. The general public doesn’t want to hear the concious rap they want that booty bump, call a girl a hoe, bling bling rap that get the people going. I can admit that i like these songs, and a lot of people do, but I can also admit that hip hop needs a change.

  • koffybrown

    Lupe is a super star…for the people…hip hop finest.

  • Aud2loveme

    the stream does not play for me :(

  • CocoB

    Lupe is A GREAT RAPPER then some out there.

  • IfUDontCareWhyYouReadingMe

    To be honest i highly doubt alot of the people on here saying preach Lupe have even purchased any of his albums. You ay down arrow my comment but you know must f yall may not even own anything by Lupe, some may but i highly doubt most of yall commenting do. so support him then-if you have the funds to

  • Gimmeabreak78

    I love Lupe and his message. If only someone would make the same type of song about the n-word. I ask God every day why black people seem to be the only ones intent on trying to make horrible words used against them (both male and female) and trick themselves into thinking they are affectionate terms of endearment.

  • MzDezy

    Ive been a Lupe fan for a long time! As usual though, there prob won’t be much “mainstream” attention to this song, but if someone hears it and changes then it’s worth it.

  • Na Na

    Yessss. We get so desensitized because it is constantly pounded into our heads. Not just in music but television and movies as well. NOT just Black or urban people either. I hope a lot of more conscious music begins to surface. I know we have a huge underground movement here in Chicago.

  • IfUDontCareWhyYouReadingMe

    I just wish people didnt label others at all-simple

  • Kashbmaryd

    Well it’s good someone out there keeps the world centered. I mean really, if it wasn’t for Lupe, what would we have left? A bunch of songs about drugs and sex with no clear inhibition. Now I will have to say this though, if it wasn’t for the songs that are out there, what would Lupe have to rap about? It is cool what he does, but (ironically) it does sound like a bunch of b****ing. But i still look forward to hearing it.

    • Trina

      Hip hop has a lot left. People need to seek out whats not in front of their face.

  • FamuRattler85

    I. Love.Lupe! Always have, always will. The man speaks the truth!

  • KamJos

    Wow, this is the first time I’ve agreed with every single comment (so far). Upvotes for you all. We need more men like Lupe speaking up.

  • Candacey Doris

    Love Lupe! I think this song should go to the top. But instead we’ll get the latest Drake song. SMH.

  • Ignorance is Bliss

    If black people only had enough brain cells to really ingest the truth and to denounce the hypocrisy, superficiality and immoral messages being sent to us through rap music.

    Lupe’s work is art, it will never be appreciated the way it should.

    • IfUDontCareWhyYouReadingMe

      well there is a lot of things superficial-you are being superficial for saying rap music is superficial because Lupe is a rapper-he is part of hip-hop. plus there are superficial people in the world and im sure people have superficial moments-plus there are people of many races that listen to rap not just black people.

      • Gimmeabreak78

        Just because there are pockets of positivity in hip-hop doesn’t mean that the genre as a whole isn’t superficial these days. I’m not sure how you can claim hip-hop in general isn’t superficial when the biggest artists in the genre right now are Lil’ Wayne, Drake, Kanye West, and Nicki Minaj. Your argument would be a lot more salient if record sales and radio plays reflected that Common and Mos Def (for example) were the most popular artists. Face it, hip-hop is superfical. There’s no way around it unless you are deliberately choosing to ignore the evidence all around you.

        • IfUDontCareWhyYouReadingMe

          im not basing hip-hop off of shine or airplay. hip-hop is hip-hop whether it gets shine or not, where u are basing it off popularity. people may turn to music to just have fun and people may turn on music to think which is what Lupe’s song does to ya. but society as a whole can be superficial. it depends what you get from it. what is superficial to you may be meaningful to someone else-just saying its a matter of perspective

          • Gimmeabreak78

            Well, if you aren’t basing hip-hop from “shine or airplay”, i.e. the two most important things in determining how relevant a contemporary music genre is, then, I reassert my previous point that you are delibertely choosing to ignore the evidence around you. When the majority of hip-hop music that actually sells spends a majority of the time referencing casual sex, drugs, alcohol, material things, and violence, don’t get mad when people ACCURATELY observe that the genre is superficial.

  • Nana Quaison-Sackey

    Maybe Madame Noire should have placed “recap of Love & Hip Hop ATL” as the title. Everyone would read this article. Preach Lupe.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ashley-Sykes/1065177536 Ashley Sykes

      you ain’t neva lied!!!! lol

  • MZB

    I LOVE LUPE AND HIS MUSIC IT IS SAD THAT THE INDUSTRY IS THE WAY IT IS..

  • http://twitter.com/LilMsJayMo Jasmine Moore

    I love lupe. people sleep on him

  • http://twitter.com/NewNaturalSista Royal

    It is a great song and I doubt that it wll gain attn! bc of the positivity smh!! how backwards!! But i lovvvve Lupe’s movement. He dont change for the money and thats too genuine

    • http://twitter.com/MadameGigglez chopped it off!

      SO true!!! That’s why I love him