You Thought Your Dad Was A Deadbeat: Three Men Father Nearly 80 Children

June 15th, 2012 - By Alissa Henry

Terry Turnage, Richard Colbert, Desmond Hatchett Source: http://hinterlandgazette.com/

“Deadbeat” isn’t even the right word.

In the great state of Tennessee, three men have provided sperm for 78 children by 46 different women.

How do they pay child support for all of those kids they “fathered”? They don’t.

In a story that just makes black people look bad, Mail Online records the “Deadbeat Dad Roundup:”

  • Desmond Hatchett, 33, of Knoxville, has 30 children by 11 different women. (You remember him, right?) He asked for his child support payments to be reduced – even though his paycheck stretched to just $1.49 per child per month. He holds a county record for his number of children and is currently in jail for aggravated assault. He told Fox2Now.com: “I had four kids in the same year. Twice.” He said he does manage to remember all their names, ages and birth dates. Hatchett first appeared in court on missing child support charges in 2009, when he had 21 children. He said he would not father any more – but has had nine more in the past three years. ”I didn’t intend to have this many, it just happened,” he said.
  • Richard M. Colbert from Memphis has 25 children by 18 different women. He claims he does not have to pay for any of them as they are all adults. He added, he feels lucky. “Everybody’s not able to have children.” Another man who shares his name said he regularly gets calls from women and children asking for money.
  • Terry Tyrone Turnage, also of Memphis, has 23 children by 17 women. He recently filed a petition in court to lower his child payments but never turned up for the hearing. One mother said he had been ordered to pay $279 a month – but the most she had ever seen was $9.

Of course, no woman in her right mind would have a kid with a man who already has children in the double digits. Latoya Shields, one of Turnage’s many babies’ mothers, told WREG in Memphis that she was “floored” when the prosecutor told her that Turnage had 20 children. She says that, though she spent eight years with him, she thought he only had four children.

Now, I can’t imagine what the warnings signs would have been, but I have to believe they were there. Her child was his twenty-first child and he had two more kids by other women after that! She had to know something. I think she was living in denial. LaToya said Turnage was supposed to pay her $259 a month, but the most she has seen is $9 as well.

Attorney Warren Campbell told Action News 5 if a person does not pay child support, the state ends up paying and there is no legal way to stop people from having children.

So many questions remain: Why did so many people choose to have unprotected sex with these men in such a short period of time? Are we going to hear about an AIDS epidemic in Tennessee and be able to track it back to these three men? Do Colbert’s 25 adult children know each other? Did the judge laugh in these men’s faces when they asked for a break on child support?

You would think in a day and age where condoms can be had easier than a stick of gum that people wouldn’t still be getting pregnant willy-nilly by men they barely know.

LaToya said all she wants is for her daughter to know her father. I’m sure the other mothers are telling her to get in line.

Alissa Henry is a freelance writer living in Columbus, OH. Follow her on Twitter @AlissaInPink 

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  • CA Pullen

    I just don’t understand it. Even it he tells you that he has lied to you if he had four children, if you see the signs that he is not taking care of them. Why do you think he will take of yours? You are not any special than the other women. It is just as much of the women’s fault as it is the men. If you don’t want any children, you need to use protection or NOT HAVE ANY SEX AT ALL. It is so foolish,stupid ignorant, and irresponsible. It is really sad these guys are working overtime helping to populate the country.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_JAI4SRENU2A5WKRTELXXYJPDSI Kayla

    *sigh*

  • Pivyque

    & THIS is the perfect example of why the “old school” rules were put into place. If we wait until marriage and only open those legs for our husband, this wouldn’t be happening….assuming no cheating is involved… :-/

  • let’s be real

    You have to be THE dumbest female on planet earth to be baby mama#3+! Call me whatever you wish, but i refuse to date a man with a child, let alone multiple kids. Ladies don’t sleep around and make sure you know more than a man’s name before you even begin to DATE him. Background checks (fb,twitter,will tell you everything you need to know!

  • MrEazyE

    This fool said “I didn’t intend to have this many. It just happened.” Oh, really? Having unsafe sex without any methods of preventing pregnancy ( which is the responsibility of BOTH parties) doesn’t “just happen.”

  • monique

    this is outrageous!!!! at least what these fools should do is make sure these kids know each other. I would sure hate to hear that they ended up dating one another. Just Ratchett!!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/Uuxaul Майкл Хабскый

    IS DISEASE OF WESTERN FILTH. CHINESE TOVARISHCHI HAVE GLORIOUS ONE CHILD ONLY POLICY THAT PREVENT GYPSIE FILTH FROM HAVING MANY CHILDREN. IS GOOD WAY TO PREVENT REPORDUCTION FROM UNDESIREABLE INDIVIDUAL. IN SOVIET RUSSIA, IS POLICY TO TAKE ALL TUNEAIDSTVO, AND PLACE IN FORCED LABOUR PRISON, WHERE ARE FORCED TO WORK UNTIL DROP DEAD. IF RESILLIANT, AND NOT DROP DEAD, IS SHOT DEAD BY GLORIOUS MILITSIYA TOVARISHCHI. IS FUNNY TO SEE WESTERN GYPSIE MONKEY RUN WILD, AND GOVERNMENT NOT KILL HIM. IS NOT SUPRISE COUNTRY ON VERGE OF COLLAPSE.

  • charlieshine1

    3 men and 46 women. I hope no one was HIV+

  • Tagirl

    I’m sure there’s a way to check to see if a guy has a judgement for child support with that many kids. People need to investigate before they invest.

  • FromUR2UB

    Clearly, Tennessee’s not the place to be. Didn’t those women know those men had children all over town who’d want to be part of that???

  • RedButterfly81

    These 3 dumbnuts are pure examples why hitting it raw is never a good idea, unless you’re married. It takes 2 do make a baby but it takes 2 to protect themselves from becoming a baby mama/daddy. I mean clinics and community centers give out condoms for free, every time I go to a drugstore I see box of condoms collecting dust, even in one of those locked cases.

    • lalatarea

      not really a great idea if ur married either,u can NEVER be 100% sure what’s going on when ur not arnd. i have a married friend and they still use condoms and get tested every 6 mos

  • IJS

    I’m an intelligent women; however recently I found out recently that a guy I dated for two years has a six year old daughter! I’ve known him all my life and I was aware of two while we were in college AND I NEVER KNEW! Until this year and only because the child almost drowned.

    • applepie

      Im not trying to judge you. I certainly dont know you. But if you dont have children then it is wise to not date men with kids. Especially if you are in college / in your 20s. Most men cannot afford to pay to support multiple children. But more importantly, how can he properly date you without taking time away from his children?

      • ijs

        This was 20 years ago when I was in college! We are still friends (I found out about the six year old last month)

  • Jane Doe

    These are the times I hope these black men impregnated and tricked white and hispanic women. I hope my good black sistas didn’t let this happen to them.

    • Chanda

      What does it matter what races the mothers were? It’s still ignorant and disgusting. I agree that black women need to wake up, but really ALL women shouldn’t fall for this BS. This isn’t a “let the white woman deal with it” type of situation. This is about the children.

    • BlueRoseATL

      it shouldn’t happen to no woman period!

  • Truth

    $1.49, $9!!!! Oh lawd jesus!!

    • Chanda

      A pack of Newports! smh..

  • bluekissess

    The new word should be jackA$$. That’s embarrassing and a shame. I’m lost for words. What ever happened to wrapping it up?

  • victoria

    LADIES – We have to examine why so many women not only had sex with these men, but had unprotected sex=baby. What does it take to become intimate with another person? Clearly not commitment nor an assurance of future stability. Im a strong believer that sex doesnt mean creating a baby. And where is the attraction to men with multiple babies with multiple women?. Men like this should be avoided. The mother is this story stated that she thought he only had 4 kids. Do the math. Not that many men nor women can afford 4 kids.
    MEN – Can a man please explain to me how it feels to have children that you dont financially nor emotionally support. As a mom, I CANT IMAGINE not being there 100% for my little one. Also, for the hard working, non baby daddy black men who will read this…can you see how it’s the fellow black man who is making others look bad. Black men are looked upon as jokes…can you see why? It’s appalling that so man men in our community have chosen to live lives that will amount to little.
    why, why, why are we doing this to our kids?
    And these women are wasting time fighting for child support. Instead of going to the courthouse, use that time to talk to your children about not falling for dispicable men/women..

  • TRUTH IS

    Where is the white man in all this?!?9

    • gwdt

      Sitting back wondering why his hard earned tax money is going towards this foolishness. Cursing Obama for letting this happen.

    • BlueRoseATL

      It’s true – black men are not the only ones that do this messed up sh*t, but for some reason they are continuously highlighted for this type of behaviour…

      • liawade89

        There continuously highlighted cause their the main ones who do it

  • sammi_lu

    gaah daaayuummm man! (chris tucker voice) I saw an episode of Law and Order SVU where the perp had some addiction/disorder/fetish for impregnating women..can’t think of what it’s called right now..but I am curious if these men could too?? Who in their right mind???

    • Lenny_Boo

      The episode with John Stamos

    • Candacey Doris

      That’s true. There are men all over craigslist and just about any chat room asking women if they need a donor.

  • 30thoughts

    Why haven’t these BOYS at least been brought up on charges for their failure to pay what little child support they were ORDERED to pay? At the very least, they’d be off the street and unable to father children while they’re in the slammer. Someone’s got to do something! This is disgusting and ridiculous. They’re not men, they’re savages and need to be neutered.

    • SMHgurl24

      Thats what I thought what happens when people fail to pay child support! Is this what they usually do and for some idiotic reason are not, or was that just something you hear around??

      • 30thoughts

        They DEFINITELY do it. I had a friend who stopped paying because the mom wasn’t allowing him to see his daughter, she filed charges and he was detained in an airport for it. I wonder why this hasn’t occurred with them.

        • MLS2698

          Men have rights, too. Your friend could have petitioned the courts for visitation, rather than stop paying. It would look better to the courts if he paid, and also demanded his rights.

          • 30thoughts

            It’s a complicated story, but his daughter was taken overseas at the age of 5 where the laws are quite different. She was able to avoid service of process because she lived outside of the country. He had an attorney “fighting” for his “rights” to see her for many years, but to little avail. He has only been allowed to see her within the last 3 years. She is now 18. He had been paying child support ever since his daughter was taken away. The system does not work in men’s favor at times, especially if the mother is adamant about being vindictive and not allowing him to see her.

  • Gimmeabreak78

    This is what happens in our community when our people believe that sex equals love or sex equals manhood/womanhood. Though the men are certainly ratchet beyond belief, the women need to take some responsibility as well. For example, the woman who thought Turnage only had four children by the time he impregnanted her, probably should have done some due dilligence. If I met a man who told me he had four children, I would first find out a couple of basic facts like 1)Do all the children have the same mother? 2) If they do have the same mother, was he married to the mother? 3) If he wasn’t married to the mother(s) I would say my goodbyes. 4)If the children have different mothers, I would quickly say my goodbyes, because that man clearly has more on his plate than I want to eat off of.
    Wow!

    • bluekissess

      Exactly!! Nobody cares to ask questions? It seems like the only question they have an answer to is “Will you sleep with me?”

    • 30thoughts

      Maybe they did ask questions…if they have over 80 children combined, I’m sure they’ve told a lie or 2 in their time. But, knowing that a man has 4 children period would have me saying my goodbyes, no questions necessary!

    • DoinMe

      Some men are master manipulators and liars no matter how many questions you ask. Some even live double lives that go undetected for years by their significant others. I’m inclined to believe that these guys fall into these categories because I don’t think a woman in her right, sane mind would have a baby by boys like this, if they knew the truth.

      • let’s be real

        I’m sorry but you can’t have me believe that these guys didn’t have any type of bm drama… those girls knew. They were just careless.

        • DoinMe

          I’m sure they did. But, like one of the women said, she thought he only 4 kids, NOT 20! Apparently he did a damn good job of hiding the other 16. That’s the kind of lying and manipulation I’m talking about.

      • MLS2698

        They put a spell on them. Ooo eee oo ah ah, chang chang, whalla whall, bing bang!

    • MLS2698

      Am I the only one who thinks that Hatchet looks a little like R. Kelly?

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Eliza-Beth/100003391668904 Eliza Beth

      You don’t know if they asked questions or not! Men lie about it all the time. Heck they might not have even known they had all of those kids. And no, the only person responsible are the men. Those women are responsible for what they did but the men are the ones with multiple children they knew they couldn’t pay for and continued to do so. they had the option to say no and they didn’t. If you know you already have kids you can’t take care of don’t keep having sex. They only have themselves to blame.