Gabrielle Union: Taking The High Road With D. Wade’s Estranged Wife Sucks

June 14th, 2012 - By Brande Victorian

Source: USMagazine.com

I can hear the shade typing away already because even though it has to be tough to be blamed for psychologically ruining someone else’s kids with false accusations, considering Gabs was messing with another woman’s husband at the time, Dwyane Wade’s estranged wife, Siohvaughn Funches, deserves just a little leeway for her craziness.

In an interview with Yahoo’s A-Line: Celebrity Style blog, Gabrielle Union was asked how she handled the lawsuit Siovaughn filed against her in 2010 alleging that she had “engaged in sexual foreplay” with D. Wade in front of the couple’s sons, and she told them:

“Taking the high road sucks,” although she added that it was definitely worth it to protect her boo’s 10- and 4-year old sons.

“The biggest lesson [I learned] is that when there are children involved who can’t speak for themselves, no matter how tempted you are to just tell someone else’s truth … you just have to shut your mouth and make sure that they are protected at all times — even if you sacrifice yourself. People will still believe what they want.”

Sort of how people still view her as a homewrecker despite the circumstances surrounding the couple’s union. In 2006, she filed for divorce from NFL star Chris Howard and in 2007 Dwyane drafted papers with his wife, Siohvaughn. Granted he was still married when these two started dating but to say she took him from his wife would be just a bit inaccurate.

Despite how strong the couple appears to be standing throughout all the messiness of his marriage and the media, many still question their potential longevity considering they are two high-profile celebrities. Gabrielle says that’s not an issue.

“We both understand the schedule and the sacrifice and the demand,” she said. “He understands my appeal and I understand his.”

She also pointed out the difference between Dwyane and her ex-husband and other men she dated who couldn’t handle her career as an actress. She said:

“With [Dwyane], we don’t have those issues.”

Since Gabrielle was one of several actors to star in the box office hit, “Think Like a Man,” the reporter had to ask her if thinking like a man is what’s allowed her to have such a successful relationship with D. She said not exactly.

“I think when people say ‘think like a man,’ they really mean use common sense. Just like when they say, you’re thinking like a woman, they mean you are being too emotional. I’m reasonable, you know? I’m not a nut bag!”

We hope not.

How do you feel about Gabrielle Union and D. Wade’s relationship after all this time. Do you think he’ll put a ring on it?

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  • MP

    First of all the courts do not own our children. The ex-wife needs to do research and reclaim her children lawfully. She may be in disarray now, but she does have recourse and can turn all her hurt in to joy. We allow these courts to think they can control us. It’s not fair and people throughout this country need to know these are courts of equity. Most courts could care less about how these cases are determined. The lawyers, judges, bailiffs, and court reporters all get paid part of the money received from the way in which the court is securitized and the value of the court proceeding, regardless of the outcome, they get paid. Usually the plantiff and defendant are unaware this monetary situation. People get out and educate yourselves!!!!

  • disqus

    The bible says what God put together let no man put apart. if gabrielle union had any part to do with D wade and his wife not being together today. their relationship will not last and am sure miss union knows that.

  • Joia

    How in the heck is stealing a woman’s husband, with small children especially, taking the “high road/”

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Mary-Marshall-Johnson/100000440819225 Mary Marshall Johnson

    MAYBE HE NEED TO BE GETTING YOUR COOKIES****WHO CARES*****PEACE**

  • JaneDoe

    Bottom line if they didn’t want to be judged they should have kept it discreet until the divorce was final. Gabby is and forever will be labled bc she dated a still married man. Gabby was with him before he even filed (believe that). They are no saint but neither is his wife. But in the end you reap what you sew hunnies…

    • Jada

      First of all we don’t no what happen with them.Gabby and Dwayne has money that’s all. He made his expire crazy if anything. She wasn’t crazy when she was down for him. He is wrong for missing with Gabby. It’s lot more to the story. So we just need to stay out of it.

  • Rah Truth

    Gabby should know better than to get involved a married man, whether he’s divorcing or not. She lost a lot of my respect for that.

    • Yvette

      You talk as if you two are friends. She could care less about losing respect from someone she doesn’t even know. Just stop it!

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Mary-Marshall-Johnson/100000440819225 Mary Marshall Johnson

      TRUE THAT****

  • Hrdblkman

    Blk will always be replaced…. That’s how life is, there’s always prettier women than blk woman

    • “GODZ GURL”

      Soft blk man ignorance is such a curse…..#JESUSISYHEANSWER#

  • colliz6

    From what i’ve heard D Wade’s marriage was over by the time Gabrielle got on the scene. He filed for divorce just before dating Gabby and was out of the matrimonial home that is my understanding of the situation. However it went down who are any of us to judge. Let he without sin cast the first stone. Leave these people alone they are obviously in love and happy and even if he doesn’t put a ring on it that’s no indication that he doesn’t love her. I know these two are a heck of a lot happier than many married couples.

  • http://www.facebook.com/shanii.scott Shanii Islovingme Scott

    As long as the kids r happy no one should trip….the ex wife needs to get over it and move on with her life and be happy…

  • des

    The trick to staying out a married couples drama is to not be involved in the first place. The high road should have been to WAIT until the divorce was final and the ink dry BEFORE you start dating.

    • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1290448484 Kenji Thrash-Correia

      Yes exactly they were dating already while he was not available they kept it on the low till it was final that he was divorced. But what goes around comes around becaues if he does marry her he will cheat on her too.

      • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000097278440 Rebecca Christiansen

        Completely true.

    • Mia

      While I definitely agree that you shouldn’t date a married man, because even if he’s legally separated,he’s still married, I feel like the wife was playing dirty. I’d be mad too, but she was the one who was being messy. And can I say, Gabrielle Union kind of irks me with her goody goody attitude?

  • boybye

    I do feel that D. Wade and his wife were on the outs. Not certain if I want to coin Gabby a home wrecker. For some reason I think these two will do what it takes to make their union work. Not certain if that involves marriage but at least a long term relationship.

  • JustSayin

    I really dislike it when people assume that EVERYONE has to think the same as they do. Considering that they BOTH got out of a very stressful marriage I highly doubt the next thing that they want to do is jump into another marriage. They are happy and that is what is most important. It is not as if Gabrielle Union is “riding” his coat-tail to fame or she is really struggling over keeping her self relevant. They are happy. Period. She started dating him after he filed for divorce. Its not the same like with Alicia Keys dating Swizz Beats while Mashonda was pregnant with his child and they were still married (no divorce in sight.) The most important thing I think people forget while they are steady gossiping in their work cubicles or at home on their phone is that these are celebrities… and they have some how found some one real and someone who makes them happy… that is hard especially for them. I’m glad!

    • Rayven

      I was with you til you mention Alicia Keys & Swizz Beats…From the interview Keys & Beats did with Essence he fathered a daughter while married to Mashonda (what a name)! So, its clear he wasnt in love with her before Keys entered the picture. Mashonda should have dumped him then…but she sounds like the typical woman who allows her man to have his cake and eat it to. I cant say Keys was screwing Beats while he was still married ’cause I wasnt there and neither was you!!

      • JustSayin

        Okay; Soooo If Mashonda and Alicia Keys babies are less than one year apart… and he was married less than 3 months after he divorced her… there is no need to be there. The facts are obvious. and the fact that was the ONLY information that you commented on lets me know you were not sticking to the subject. That was one sentence out of the entire paragraph. Like I said… As long as they are happy then it’s all good.

        • Rayven

          Thats not true the kids your are referring to is the DAUGHTER he made on Mashonda and Keys son!!!
          So your FACTS are WRONG!!

          • JustSayin

            Lmao. R u upset? Like seriously. I’m not wrong and once again you are off topic. Have a nice day

            • Rayven

              Im not upset…I just shut you up, so why would I be up upset??? So next time you state something as fact much sure u do your homework first!

              • JustSayin

                Lmao… U have problems. Clearly. You are clearly immature and steady convinced you’re correct. And it is so sad. I guess you feel big and bad because you “told” someone off on a blog site? You feel good cuz you went all CAPS on someone on a topic that literally has nothing to do with this article? Girl… I guess some people are just destined to have immature tendencies. No matter their age.

        • Ay

          Your facts are wrong. Mashonda’s son is 5, his daughter is 4, and Alicia’s son is 1.

      • Mia

        If you can add, you know Keys was messing with Beats while he was still married. If they didn’t have that baby, maybe we could fudge the truth but all you have to do is simple addition.

  • Angela

    Time will tell all. But I’ll say that I hope everything works out well for everyone. And in the event that Gabi was infact a “homewrecker”, Karma’s sure to give her a does of her own medicine.

    • Bobby

      Nobody can “wreck” something that is already broken…it says a lot the his ex doesnt even have custody of there children, what does that say about her?!?!

  • Rayven

    Its clear he loves her the way he ran to her and kissed her after they won game 7, i hope they do get married and have a huge wedding they both deserve to be happy!

  • bluerobin

    It’s hard to comment on this story because I don’t know her or D Wade but from what’s been already out there in the media, it seems like DW’s wife had a very hard time dealing in the beginning especially since it involved the kids. I don’t judge people and it seems G and DW (and kids) have moved on and maybe (?!) they’ll be officially married soon. It’s probably hard with his career and her career and them being all over the place then having to make sure the kids are ok with everything…most people couldn’t do that and survive relationships or marriage. DW seems to one of a few bb players that doesn’t have that drama surrounding them even GU–you don’t see them in the media with pics of them in the club or the dreaded po-po pics or even pics of them woozy/drunk throwing punches! LOL I applaud them for that alone!! I couldn’t image myself having to deal with all that.
    I’d like to say to each of them: Stay true to each other, handle the family and great job!!
    PS: I love GU and wish she’d make more movies! She’s a very good actress! and DW: I don’t normally watch sports (yucky!) but my husband watches the playoffs and I must say you are very fierce!! BAM!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Mary-Marshall-Johnson/100000440819225 Mary Marshall Johnson

    PLEASE//// THERE MORE TO THIS STORY THAN WHAT SHE IS SAYING*****DID NOT CARE 4 THE WAY THE WIFE WAS TREATED****AND I DON’T CARE 4 THIS SELFISH MAN***MISS G. JUST WAIT UNTIL HE TURNS ON YOU 4 THE NEXT BEST THING**WHERE ‘S YOUR RING** YOU GIVING UP THE COOKIES***SAD**

    • D

      so true.

    • Natasha

      You might want to READ the evidence from the divorce hearing. Wifey was NO SAINT, so I don’t no why you feeling sorry for someone that slashed her husbands 4 tires when he tried to go console a teammate after his son died of crib death!(Lamar Odom). Rented an apartment and gave her boo thang a TMOBILE cell phone all with her HUSBAND’s $$$…but of course all we hear about is Dwade’s relationship with Gabrielle! He dated other women before Gabrielle. You don’t just lose custody of your children because you were treated unfairly in your marriage. The woman was spiraling out of control she was losing her husband and she used the next best thing that she knows he LOVE and that was his kids…that didn’t work out to well for her because now she has no husband and she’s a part time mother! God knows best and He makes NO MISTAKES. Be Blessed in Jesus Name, he is the one and only Judge and Jury. If DnG did dirty, he will handle them until then let the folks BE…..

      • http://www.facebook.com/people/Mary-Marshall-Johnson/100000440819225 Mary Marshall Johnson

        AND THAT IS YOUR OPINION****BLESSED*BE*GOD!!!!!!

  • Pluto

    What’s next? Gabby is the 2nd coming of mother theresa? There is her truth, dwade’s truth & the ex-wife’s truth.

    • Bobby

      Her & DWade are still together so Im sure he is going to co-sign what ever she says…

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