You’re Not The Only One: 7 Surprisingly Common Sexual Fantasies

June 14th, 2012 - By Julia Austin
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Are you a freak? Kinky? Twisted in the brain? Honestly, you’re probably not. The odd thing about these words is that they’re usually applied to fantasies and desires that nearly every woman has. The real “freak”—the odd man out—is the woman who thinks of nothing but monogamy and missionary. We’re animals. Society conditioned us to be conservative. But our natural tastes are something else entirely…

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Many women fantasize about grabbing that nervous bus boy at a restaurant, or steamy bartender at a dive bar, by the tie and dragging them to a dingy motel for a wild night of sex. Many women say they feel the only way they can completely let loose is with a total stranger who they will never see again.

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  • Justmoi

    i know i’m late to this conversation coz i just discovered this site (thanks to my best friend)…but…i think i have a problem…these fantasies are kinda spoiled by the fact that in real life there are things like STDs, the worst being HIV…and that’s all i’m thinking of when i see that group picture. if just one of those people has something everyone’s in trouble…the problem with working in the health sector, i guess :(

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  • http://www.facebook.com/kaisha.stockard Kaisha Stockard

    ll

  • jackieOsassin

    no S&M? : ( now i just feel weird….lol

  • beancounter13

    Mine is a threesome with two guys & I guess I’m a little surprised it wasn’t on there. First of all, I have no desire for women – I know, I’ve tried it – I like men: their touch, smell, their feel (as in not feminine softness?), and most of all their d*cks. I love the way I can pleasure my man orally, it makes me so hot to hear him gasp and moan. And its the only time he will focus on his pleasure – the rest of the time he is completely into pleasuring me. I think maybe the two guys thing is partly being the focus of double the manly attention and partly wanting to do more to pleasure him while I’m still being fully tended to.
    Jeez now I’m all hot & bothered and I have to go to work. I guess I’m not getting anything done today…

    • Brittany

      lol….It’s ok. I have that exact same fantasy. Go fulfill it! Just be safe though.

  • psylocke_2001

    hells yeah it is! LOL, a frequent fantasy of mine, as well as DP.

  • Starr

    If you practise safe sex and make sure your partner(s) knows what you want and most importantly what you don’t want, I don’t see any harm in making your fantasies a reality. Why base your opinion on the bad scenarios that may possibly happen, when so many positive things can come from it. For me personally it did: 1. I had a great time 2. my man had a great time and 3. we felt extra connected afterwards. We shouldn’t be all that negative about “kinky” sex.

  • DUMBBEACHPLEASE

    IM LIVING MY FANTASIES! SSSHHH! MY VICI’S ARENT MY ONLY SECRETS

  • cellyb2000

    Uhhh I would just like to know where are they getting this info? There are no stats in this article so how do we know these fantasies are as common as they claim?….journalism you say smh

    • http://www.facebook.com/marceia.adams Marceia Adams

      You know what? That was my very 1st thought by the time I got to the 3rd page! Makes me wonder if the author just wanted to talk about her own sexual fantasies, because how do you say “most or many women” have these fantasies without providing the stats to back it up?????

  • Miss Anonymous

    SMH I can’t imagine that, I have to bath or else I will feel sick.

    • status quo

      thats straight disgusting, to not wash the coochie is just absurd and unclean.

  • chocolate

    be with a white guy mmmmmmhhhhhmmmmmm

    • Chanda

      you read my mind or a mixed one. with a bangin’ body!

    • yep yep

      Done that 3 times.lol

    • Boom

      I white dude with locks

  • Starr

    I am missing the rape-fantasy or is that considered too kinky? Real rape is ofcourse an awful thing and shouldn’t be romanticized in any way, but I can see the arousement in my mans eyes when I tell him ‘no’ instead of ‘yes’ (during sex). I just feel like taking it to a next level and do roleplay or something.

    • yep yep

      Lol. To me it’s not.lol nor is the the dominant roles or dominated…or the glamorized prostitution. I’m more shocked at myself for actually posting!

  • Numero Uno

    I have at least 3 of these fantasies :)

  • TiffL

    I want to try DP but I am scared!!

    • quest

      Looks good but I’m with on being scared. I know a few guys but I don’t know how to even ask them to participate in that….lol! and it don’t have to be DP but a 3some period….ummmmm!

  • Jane Doe

    I’m fantasizing about getting a “cream pie.” As for for fantsizing about another woman ”
    Let’s face it: women are Hot. We are hairless, soft, sweat less, wear perfume. We just feel, taste and smell gooooood.” I don’t know which women you know but everyday women are gross. I had bytches tell me they don’t wash their koochies when they have their periods and don’t bathe on the weekend. I could never go down on another woman. Men don’t know any of this stuff because this is a “girl talk.”

    • Candacey Doris

      Agreed! I know so many women that fin hygiene to be a bother after getting home from work. I understand they’re tired but…ew. As much as i love women (we’re still smart, soft, and feel good) i don’t think i could be with one.

      The whole creampie thing….you’re not alone. But birth control isn’t foolproof and std’s are everywhere. I can’t bring myself to do it.

    • quest

      Gross, what grown a$$ woman don’t was her a$$. Period or not. Disgusting!

      • quest

        *WASH

    • Dani

      What type of females was u fu**ing with first of all!

      • dee

        I know!! Most of the women I happen to know, and every woman I’ve been with, minus one, does take great care of her body. Just saying…..