Don’t Be His Fool, or His Doormat: Excuses Women Need to Stop Making For Men

June 12th, 2012 - By Julia Austin
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It’s a good thing he’s gotten comfortable with me

So comfortable that he doesn’t feel the need to put on a whole song and dance of planning dates for you. Now, all you do is order takeout and watch TV, and have sex in your usual positions, finishing in your usual time, every single night. UM…planning dates and special activities for you isn’t supposed to be so that he can impress you. It’s supposed to be so that he can do something that will make you happy! It’s about him doing something completely selfless, so that you can enjoy yourself. Thirty years into marriage you should still be occasionally planning special surprises and activities for one another. And you sure as heck should still be doing it only a few years or months into dating.

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  • Jayme

    It’s YOU’RE his girlfriend, not your. Now I can’t take any of YOUR articles seriously.

  • Tiki Barber

    LADIES LISTEN TO ME IF YOU WANT TO BE OUR DOORMATS IT’S PERFECTLY FINE WITH US DO NOT LET SOME SELF RIGHTEOUS MAGAZINE ARTICLE STOP YOU TOO ! IT’S YOUR RIGHTS WERE TALKING ABOUT ! NOW GET YOUR MAN HIS SLIPPERS AND MY GLASS OF WATER !

    • cake211

      LOLOL you are so wrong for posting as tiki barber! haha!

  • http://twitter.com/WilkChristopher Christopher Wilk

    Awesome article however, many of the women know how the person they choose to date treats them and that’s the kind of brothers they want,but when a real man steps to them he has to hear your not my type. I wonder is this article a prime example why we brothers are losing so many Beautiful women to the Lesbians hmmm…That just maybe the case! Hey fellows, I think we need to tighten up and give these women what they really want on a regular basis love, and affection. I know speaking from my own experience, I feel good when I’m able to take my lady out to dinner and foot the bill. However, if we go out let’s say too a movie she would have no problem footing the bill however, I would still offer I think that this is a two way street because we like to feel appreciated as well, but to be honest fellows I lost a few good ones for being Selfish so I totally understand this article Ya Heard M3!

    • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=630566866 Titiya Ams

      Gd for you,hopefully you learn from your mistakes….

  • Nope

    Make sure he’s really your man to being with, like in real life and not just in your head. IMO a lot of these scenarios take place when it’s just for pretend.

  • victoria

    Stop making excuses for deadbeat dads

  • Elle

    Great article and very timely for me. Thanks.

  • http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=ntt_athr_dp_sr_1?_encoding=UTF8&search-alias=digital-text&field-author=Peaches%20The%20Writer PeachesTheWriter

    “He’s just going through something right now.”