Don’t Be His Fool, or His Doormat: Excuses Women Need to Stop Making For Men

June 12th, 2012 - By Julia Austin
"Man stressed out at work"

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He’s just crazy busy

So he goes all day, or even a couple of days, without contacting you. Did the guy not sit down on a toilet any time over the last two days? Because that’s a perfectly good time to send a text. Look, if a man wants to be in a relationship he can’t just get in that one track zone where he forgets about anything and everyone but himself. If you regularly don’t talk for a couple of days at a time, over time, you just won’t be as connected as you could be. More importantly, I’m sorry but you’re not a priority to this man. There is no excuse for why in 24 hours or more (screw it, even 12 hours) a person couldn’t find 30 seconds to send a text message to someone they allegedly really care about. Even heart surgeons text, and they save lives! What exactly is your man doing again?

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  • Jayme

    It’s YOU’RE his girlfriend, not your. Now I can’t take any of YOUR articles seriously.

  • Tiki Barber

    LADIES LISTEN TO ME IF YOU WANT TO BE OUR DOORMATS IT’S PERFECTLY FINE WITH US DO NOT LET SOME SELF RIGHTEOUS MAGAZINE ARTICLE STOP YOU TOO ! IT’S YOUR RIGHTS WERE TALKING ABOUT ! NOW GET YOUR MAN HIS SLIPPERS AND MY GLASS OF WATER !

    • cake211

      LOLOL you are so wrong for posting as tiki barber! haha!

  • http://twitter.com/WilkChristopher Christopher Wilk

    Awesome article however, many of the women know how the person they choose to date treats them and that’s the kind of brothers they want,but when a real man steps to them he has to hear your not my type. I wonder is this article a prime example why we brothers are losing so many Beautiful women to the Lesbians hmmm…That just maybe the case! Hey fellows, I think we need to tighten up and give these women what they really want on a regular basis love, and affection. I know speaking from my own experience, I feel good when I’m able to take my lady out to dinner and foot the bill. However, if we go out let’s say too a movie she would have no problem footing the bill however, I would still offer I think that this is a two way street because we like to feel appreciated as well, but to be honest fellows I lost a few good ones for being Selfish so I totally understand this article Ya Heard M3!

    • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=630566866 Titiya Ams

      Gd for you,hopefully you learn from your mistakes….

  • Nope

    Make sure he’s really your man to being with, like in real life and not just in your head. IMO a lot of these scenarios take place when it’s just for pretend.

  • victoria

    Stop making excuses for deadbeat dads

  • Elle

    Great article and very timely for me. Thanks.

  • http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=ntt_athr_dp_sr_1?_encoding=UTF8&search-alias=digital-text&field-author=Peaches%20The%20Writer PeachesTheWriter

    “He’s just going through something right now.”