There are few things as strong as a woman’s love and loyalty for her man…except for maybe her denial. Call her a ratchet, ride or die chick, down A$$ chick or whatever clever hip-hop lyric label she may have for the moment, but she’ll be the one driving the getaway car when the heat is coming down on her boo, putting money on his books and taking his momma to church while he’s doing a bid. Is she faithful or a fool?
Love can make people do foolish things, but unfortunately that love crosses a line into crazy town when you are investing way more into a relationship than what you are receiving. You may find that you need to pull over and question why you continue to place yourself in a situation where you have to constantly switch the lanes of love to avoid all of the potholes and pitfalls your partner keeps allowing to come your way. If you’re dating any of the following eight men, it’s time to cut your losses and roll out:
1. Mr. AARP MC
You’re pulling 80 hours a week at work to keep the electricity on so your man can spend his days in his makeshift studio, in the basement of your house, with his Casio and “Beats By Dre.” Oh, did we mention said boo is pushing 45? When in a relationship, partners have a responsibility to support one another’s dreams. But there’s a difference between dreams and delusions, especially when you’re the one pulling all the weight. It’s your responsibility to be honest and there’s no reason he can’t pick up a part-time job and save the MC’in for after-hours.