Belittling his manhood
Never, ever, should you belittle the amount of money a man makes or how he is in bed: these are the two things he associates big time with his manhood. Again, if you’re unhappy about something in your relationship, you should aim to get what you want and do so with the least amount of damage. You should never aim to make your man feel small, just so that you can feel empowered. You should have a grownup conversation where you find out how you can fairly receive what you need and what part you play in all that.