Uncle Russ Wants To School Us On The N-Word and Why It’s Cool For White People To Use It

June 6th, 2012 - By Brande Victorian

Source: newyorkgossipgal.com

I figured Russell Simmons would make a statement about this sooner or later, and sure enough the Global Grind founder wrote a post on his site yesterday asking, “Why Is Everyone So Cray About Gwyneth’s Tweet?” Uncle Rush essentially defends the use of the n-word by anybody—black artist, white fan, etc.—and starts with a little anecdote about white folks in Carnegie Hall singing “Ain’t No N*gga” in harmony with the black people in the audience like it was the 1900s and they were singing “Lift Every Voice and Sing” while holding hands. For someone who was around at the start of rap’s entry into the mainstream I guess it might have been the equivalent of that to him, but anyway, here’s the full letter:

A few months ago, I went to the Jay-Z charity concert at Carnegie Hall. It was pretty exciting to watch hip-hop’s biggest star play the world’s most prestigious venue. However, there was nothing more exciting than him donating 100 percent of the proceeds to charity, including my $25,000 donation.

The third song that came on during the show was “Ain’t No N*gga”… the song I signed Jay to Def Jam on. Everyone in the hall was singing every word to the song. Every white girl (and there were a lot of them) was singing it to their man…“Ain’t no n*gga like the one I got!” EVERYONE was singing every word of every song for the entire set, which ended with “N*ggas In Paris.” White, black – everyone was singing along.

But a couple of nights ago, a similar milestone occurred in Paris with Jay and Kanye’s Watch The Throne Tour.  It was at this show that my friend Gwyneth Paltrow tweeted something that got me a little twisted. I follow Gwyneth on Twitter and when I saw her tweet about the “N*ggas in Paris” show in PARIS, I said ‘Damn everybody is there but me.’ I’m a bit older and I don’t get to jet-set to concerts like I used to, but when I saw Gwyneth was there, I must admit, I got a little jealous. The tweet she sent has since angered some in the black community, since she used the n-word. But when I saw it, it didn’t faze me – not even one bit.

I have to throw my hand up and stand up for Gwyneth. I know her intentions were not to be offensive … she was just proud of her friend, Jay-Z. My words are in defense of her.

I don’t have a permanent answer to the n-word controversy that appeases everyone. I remember when I tried to fix it and said we should maybe beep that word and a few others on the radio, Oprah quoted me as if I said not to use the n-word. However, for the record, I have NEVER told any artist not to use that word or any word in my life and I never will; a poet can choose their own words to describe whatever they want in their art.

And in the case of “N*ggas in Paris,” it is clear that these two poets are celebrating the fact that they now travel the world and are literally ballin’ in Paris … it started as a badge of honor, something to be proud of, something to poke their chests out at. Because for them, when they were kids, Paris was a million miles away and now it’s a private jet ride. The idea of being in Paris with a movie star, whether she’s black or white, is incredible!

There is something truly inspiring about black culture and black music, hip-hop culture and hip-hop music.  No matter what color skin you might have, there is an overriding good effect that this music has on you. It is contagious. It was this explosive expression that spread out of the inner cities of America into the walkmans of kids like Gwyneth Paltrow during their childhoods in 1980s and 1990s. It allowed white kids to begin to sympathize with the plight of many in black America. And these kids have overwhelmingly become progressive in their politics and their social concerns. Having any Hollywood starlet at your concert was unimaginable, and having her quote your lyrics as a badge of honor that she was hanging out with you, you never would have dreamed of that – until your poetry hit the market and changed the world.

So, for Gwyneth to tweet out her excitement about hip-hop taking over the planet is a good thing. She didn’t mean any harm, she just was trying to ball so hard, and like Jay-Z says, “motherf***ers can’t fine” her.

You can tell what era of rap Russ grew up in because he’s quite nostalgic about a time when the music was progressive and aired social and political concerns. You can’t deny rap is still contagious and explosive but white people are hardly sympathizing with any black plight these days. They just want to be n*ggas for as long as the three- or four-minute song their singing lasts and then go back to their inherently privileged realities.

What’s interesting about this whole thing is that it’s come out that The Dream is actually the one who sent the tweet from Gwen’s phone that night and had he spent more time explaining that from jump instead of that “context is everything” statement, this would have died out. But apparently he wanted to make a point like Russell Simmons: The n-word is fair game for any and everybody. I guess (not.)

What do you think about Russell Simmon’s post?

Brande Victorian is a blogger and culture writer in New York City. Follower her on Twitter at @be_vic.

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  • Realness

    How much does Russell get paid to slob? I know them knees are old.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Aaron-John/529713686 Aaron John

    why do some people of color work hard to be ingorant? anyway why black folks try to own the word in the first place?

  • Nina Dashotta

    Captivity and slavery: 400+ years

    Civil rights movement and Jim Crow laws: 50+ years

    Having to listen to your husband repeat the N word in sentences in public like a drunk thug on the store corner: priceless! It’s even worse when you try to remove yourself from this stereotype and you have people in your circle who constantly use it because “it’s how they’ve talked for so long and refuse to change”

  • Ona2684

    Was it in poor taste? Yes. It was an unnecessary tweet that of course was going to garner negative attention but I also dont think she meant any harm. White ppl have grown increasingly comfortable using that kind of language because black folks have allowed it and in some cases encourage it. The fact that we say It so freely in front of them and that its so prevelent in pop culture gives them license to use it and all they need is an excuse. I for one dont say it often and when I do its never in front of them. Anytime a white friend uses it I remind them that its NOT ok and that it makes them look and sound tacky and foolish.

  • jackieOsassin

    a word is a word, no matter the context behind it. it’s only offensive if you allow it to hold that much power over how you identify yourself as an individual. if someone were to call me a n*gger, i’d laugh and think it foolish that a) they really think it STILL means something negative, and b) they think my skin color is so beautiful they HAD to hate on it. : )

  • Coco Black

    I think it’s been blown out of proportion…all this “it’s ok for black people to use but not white people” is LAME!! So if a white person is singing along to a song where n***** is repeated throughout, they must not say or sing the word!! When black people STOP using the N word, then we can start condemning others! I don’t use the word, and have never used the word…all that ownership of the word is complete and utter nonsense!! So if Jay Z, Kanye and numerous other rappers use it..im not gonna be mad at her without being mad at them!!!!

  • Kimster

    I will never claim that word or consider it “cool”. It’s all fun, games and rap songs until a group drives by you walking on the sidewalk shouting it while simultaneously spitting at you. Yeah.

  • Nicki11

    Jayz, kanye west , the dream or russell simmons are not the spokespeople for the whole black community in regards to wether white or other ethnic groups should be using the N-word so the fact that people think it is okay to use the N-word because of a hit song or because a couple people in the Hip Hop community say it is okay and this therefore represents the opinions of the entire black community is just crazy to me. Nobody should be using the word in my opinion. The N-word should only be in text books to remind us all of the horrible history and meaning of the word.

  • Leela

    Russell is delusional. What’s more delusional is the fact that Kanye and
    Jay Z made that the name of their song. Why is it acceptable at all?
    The N word is meant for belittlement, hate, and ignorance from any race. I
    wish a Black person would come up to me and say N word your shoes look
    nice, N word your hair is hot. You’ll get popped in the mouth with my
    nice looking shoes! I don’t care how much you try to dress up the word
    and make it nice, it’s not and will warrant a beat down in any form
    deemed necessary. Isn’t it easier just to say, Girl your shoes
    like
    nice?

    • Kells

      Right, thats what I said.. Then turn around and demand respect for Blue Ivy when he has non for his own damn race.. He completely disgusts me

  • CHATTYPATTY

    It wasn’t the N word that got me because that is the name of the song, it was the FOR REAL part with ONLY the black people in the picture. I mean the for real part turned it into a derogatory tweet. She could’ve left it at the title of the song and eluded to the song being performed at that moment in Paris. People always have to take things a step further, just because you hang out w/black people does not give you a pass, if anything you should want to choose your words a little more wisely for the sake of keeping your “friends”.

    • Jane Doe

      She should have choosen her words more wisely.. I agree. Who doens’t these days ayway? People especially those of other cultures can be so easily offended. Being around a bunch of blacks you would have thought she would have just said, “best concert ever.. The rock in here fo real”.. Lol

  • Guest1234

    It’s not illegal to use the “n” word. White people can do it all they want. That’s not the issue. The issue is that some white people want to call us the “n” word, and they want us to like it, accept it as our place, and cheer for them. Well, I ain’t the one.

    Gwyneth Paltrow can act like an animal if she wants to. But it’s trashy, and low class. Thus, she’s trashy and low class. I’m not going to say it’s anything else for her to hurl derogatory racist terms around. It isn’t. And I’m sure as hell not going to listen to Russell Simmons, Jay Z, Kanye West, or any other uncle tom who’s willing to degrade themselves and the black community to entertain white people and be accepted into their spheres as pets. Nope. Not ever. Pathetic.

    • Naija81

      Thank you

    • http://twitter.com/jennaparks11 Jennifer Parks

      Preach then!

    • anony

      so tired about hearing “the black community” yet everyone in the black community doesn’t want to be separated from other communities. make me equal but keep me separate. ohhhok. get over it.

      • http://twitter.com/MauMau1067 Mau67

        seperate n equal seems to work for asians.

    • stephanie

      U cldnt have said it any better

  • http://twitter.com/MsRedboneBrite Tee Elyse

    I’ll admit, I get HEATED whenever I hear or see anyone of another race using it, and I’ll even admit that I use the word DAILY (not proud of that fact, but I’m so used to saying it that it has pretty much become a part of my everyday vocabulary and I don’t even notice, which, I know, is sad). I’m honestly going to TRY (keyword: because I know it won’t happen overnight) to stop saying it, but the point is, if we don’t want them to say it, then we shouldn’t say it, either.

    • Ladybug94

      It’s good that you are trying. That’s the first step.

  • J A SASSY aka salon22w

    Sorry. Russ.. I dont accept your explaination.. Gwenyth had no right using it .. song or no song,, if white people hadnt done so much bad things , killed , raped , stereotyped and low rated black folks by the use of the wod then it wouldnt be bad..Jayz and Kanye never did any of those things to blacks,, yes, i have a problem with her and you are wrong,, how does a white get that comfortable with the use of the word when racism is at a high level and in fact never went away.. they started it and have no reason to justify still using it .. rap song or not..worng!!!!

  • dores

    We deserve respect ! It’s sad to see so many of our people throw respect right out of the window. How could we not only accept but encourage such behavior from white’s ? The same ones writing such non-sense Dream, Russ, average comments…. I bet if a white person, or one of their fans walk up and said ” what up my n i g a ” you can’t tell me they or anyone else wouldn’t be offended.

    We have been demanding respect for so long, only to have losers throw it all away. Guess what ? I want and deserve my respect and it’s not ok for any white person or black to use the word in my presence.

    I dare one of their white fans to walk up to them and say “n i g a what’s up”. I dare one of my white friends to do it to me. They would never because they have respect. GP disrespected them and our entire race. The only thing these fools could do was smile and tap dance. Dream even tried to lie. Sorry but their poetry don’t impress me. I sit and write poetically all day…AND.

    It’s not the cure for cancer or anything else of that caliber. I’m not impress with N’s being in Paris. Jay & Beyonce been chilling in Paris since the 90′s it’s 2012. It’s time for them to start making moon landings !

  • cocochanel31

    DREAM knows good and well he didn’t send that tweet bc Gwyneth said “What its in the song” right after not I did not send it! Either way she does not need to tweet the word at all, and one of her “down” friends needs to explain why its offensive smh

  • Love_Sexy

    Sorry I will never accept or give any kind of rationalization of using the “N” word…..Bottom line the word is derogatory and offensive…..No one should be using it regardless if you black, white, yellow, purple, or gold……………End of story!

    • Mrsadkiah

      THANK YOU! I don’t care what race you are; you call me that word and you’re getting snapped on.

    • http://www.facebook.com/kaisha.stockard Kaisha Stockard

      I agree wholeheartedly! The word itself is grossly offensive; no human being should even want to use it.

  • aBeautifulMess

    my problem with this whole “controvery” is multifold 1. you either are offended by the word or not. black people have said the word and I found it extremly offensive 2. Why make it a title of a “song” want to sell records but don’t want people to say it? Is it not at that point a lyric and not an attack? 3. the minute you say there is a difference between black and white people; the minute you give that difference power to be used against you; ie white people can do this or black people can’t do that 4. If a black person is holding a gun to your head, or robbing you and is using the word is it not more offensive than someone reciting a hit song?

  • http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=ntt_athr_dp_sr_1?_encoding=UTF8&search-alias=digital-text&field-author=Peaches%20The%20Writer PeachesTheWriter

    It’s not that she “can’t” say it, it’s just not a good look. We have to do better, folks.

  • TRUTH

    Whose Uncle? This is coming from a man who cannot/would not date a black woman. I wonder if he even like his mother for being black?!?

    • Love_Sexy

      I agree with you 100%

    • J A SASSY aka salon22w

      I AGREE 1000%.. F uncle Russ.. he dates his beckys and now he is trying to be the defender for black people and telling us not to be upset.. go find your white women Russ.

    • Guest1234

      Perhaps she meant to say, Uncle Tom. Cuz’ that’s what these white worshipping, black community-degrading clowns are.

    • http://twitter.com/jennaparks11 Jennifer Parks

      I thought the exact same thing! Like you have NEEVEERRR been seen with a black woman so who on MADAMENOIRE.COM is surprised that you take up for Gwen…seriously!

  • sammi_lu

    I’d rather hear the opinion of or defense of an unbiased party instead of Gwyneth’s “friends”. Regardless of intent or who actually tweeted it was in bad taste.

    • Ladybug94

      I wonder if Gwyneth refers to Blue Ivy as “Aunties lil Blue N*gga”..and if Bey is okay with it. I’ve been at this computer too long. lol

      • sammi_lu

        LMAO!! I can’t take it..hush it!