BrokeΦBroke: Are You Living A Luxury Life You Can’t Afford?

May 30th, 2012 - By Alissa Henry
"Woman in Debt"

Cnn.com

For 20-somethings, being broke is nearly a fad. We trade war stories about our under-or-unemployed status, dream up creative ways to evade our astronomical student loan payments, and show little shame about moving back in with our parents after college graduation. But once that Twitter hashtag #TeamiPhone or #TeamDroid pops up on our respective timelines, we’re all taking sides and writing dissertations in 140 characters or less about why one is better than the other.

Why?

Because despite having one of the highest unemployment rates in the country right now, studies have shown that millennials are the fastest-growing segment of luxury goods and services purchasers.

MSN.com recently reported that “although some millennials – people between the ages of 18 and 34 — are launching promising careers, most are burdened with large student loans, and thousands are unemployed. Despite all this, they are making luxury purchases a priority.”

Jason Dorsey, a millennials expert and the chief strategy officer for The Center for Generational Kinetics told MSN that he believes social media is a driving force in getting young people to prioritize spending money on high-end items. In his opinion, we are buying things so that we can say we did on Twitter, Facebook, or some other social media site. That in turn makes others want to say they did as well. The constant stream of conversation works as a way to sort-of peer pressure virtual strangers into owning non-essentials like flat screens, iPads, luxury cars (along with luxury car notes) and Android cell phones.

There is nothing wrong with wanting nice things, but can we afford those things on top of necessities and debilitating debt from a degree that has yet to result in a real salary? For many, the answer is a resounding no. A survey by WSL/Strategic Retail found that nearly a quarter of millennials are unable to make ends meet. We’re creating lives for ourselves that we cannot afford.

The good news is, studies show that we are less likely to use a credit card to bridge the gap between the money we have and the money we need to buy something. We are charging less and therefore paying off our credit card debt at a faster rate than other age groups. Low bank balances have also morphed us into super frugal shoppers, always finding the lowest price.

The bad news is that even a $250 iPhone from Craigslist is still $250 for a phone.

Of course, a phone isn’t standing in the way of anyone wanting to reach total financial independence, but the mindset that goes into making these costly purchases can be problematic — especially if you’re making these purchases in lieu of saving and investing your money.

Many phone companies are touting $100 a month for a cell phone plan. That seems reasonable for “unlimited everything,” but still that’s $1200 dollars a year. I looked up some numbers on personal finance website, The Motley Fool and it turns out – If you invested that $1200 yearly at a 9 percent interest rate instead of handing it over to Verizon for the next decade, you’d have 22-thousand dollars in 10 years and a whopping 480-thousand dollars in 40 years. $208 a month is $2,500 a year and investing that at the same rate will net you a million dollars in 40 years.

Here’s the thing, in our 20’s, being broke is still something to joke about with friends; but there isn’t anything funny about working our entire lives and then joining the legions of senior citizens who can’t write a five thousand dollar check because we squandered what little disposable income we had while we were young.

Luxury items are great and quality of life is important, but I hope we are more #TeamInvestingInOurselves instead of just #TeamPaddingThePocketsOfThoseWhoAreInTheBusinessOfKeepingUsBroke.

Which side are you on?

Alissa Henry is a freelance writer living in Columbus, Ohio. Follow her on Twitter: @AlissaInPink or check out her blog This Cannot Be My Life

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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=559657799 Andrea Calloway Mackey

    I know this article is geared towards the 20+ years old, but it is advise everyone can use.  My question is where can I get the 9% interest rate on my $1,200.00 investment.   For that rate of return I am willing to turn in my phone and cut my internet bill. (the only luxuries I have)  Currently my IRA is only getting .045%, I want that 9% interest rate.  Who is offering that!

  • http://www.facebook.com/RosarioRed Rosario Stefania Scarsci

    I’m 22. I work 6 days a week. I don’t have the latest shoes or the nicest clothes. I’m trying to secure that my future is financially safe. I do enjoy life, though. I just see how so many adults in my fam wasted their life and finances and are still not going anywhere. I do not want to end up that way. 

  • Amiternlieb

    Please tell me where i can get 9% interest rate

  • http://www.facebook.com/nnenna.lovette Nnenna Lovette Graphic-webdesi

    This has been the JUICIEST read :)  

  • JusSayin

    I am in that 20 something section and I can agree. I don’t have the best credit because I don’t like credit cards. Never get something I can’t afford. But; I am different. I learned young that being the greek frat “broke phi broke” is not the business. I work at a job where I invest in my retirement, my son’s 504 and my savings first. Then I have a separate account for play money. That takes care of my nails, hair, clothes and I can make the choice to separate more for a big trip or splurge on clothes. I don’t put updated profile pictures on facebook or gloat about what I have.. leave that to the Rachetes of society. I purchase things because I have some materialistic tendencies and that is just who I am. But! I am will let it interfere with my plan to save and I will never be one who just doesn’t splurge on anything. How I am… Proud of it. :-)  

    • Kristina Tramel

      I also have a savings account from my son.

      Even though I’m a military wife I use coupons, I only buy my son gifts for his birthday or Christmas, we live on a budget and honestly I don’t really understand the expensive purse fad. I have a XOXO purse that is 3 years old and is still in good shape. I do my own nails and I’m starting to make my own laundry detergent to help save money.

  • Afrohairdontcare

    We do not live in a “live within your means” society. We live in a ostentatious, greedy, show ur a$$ society. Everyone wants to be better than everyone. More importantly, everyone wants to show everyone else that they have the best this or that. We will likey never get to a point in society where we can be appreciative of what we have because we are awarded with more for being greedy, showy, materialistic, fame wh*res.

    • Chile please

      Ok u Betta say that!!! I can’t count the number of people I know that brag endlessly about designer this and that and don’t have a pot to piss in and a window to throw it out of… Girls with several pairs of louboutins In a ratchet apartment hopping out of a ford focus… And the list goes on!! Our society as a whole looks more favorably on the outside appearannce and what it LOOKS like we can afford. Look at half of what we watch on television, these reality shows that make people seem like they living these glamorous lives and half of them can’t pay the next car note..

      • JusSayin

        Okay; So another thing people have to remember is that some people’s values are different. A girl can have tons of Louboutins, spend her money traveling around the world or making it rain in the club. It is about what people value. Some people don’t want a house… they don’t want to pay the maintenance and much rather have an apartment. Others are fine with living their life in the wind… they like that drama effect. I personally think that each person will have the life they live and it will be awesome. There is a reason for everything. If u always paid your bills.. what job would replace those mean ole bill collectors? Or; if you always paid your car note on time… Oh snap! Who would hire the greasy repo guy? lol. There is a reason for everything and sometimes those people (the carefree ones) are the reason that the super savers have so much fun. :-)  

        • http://www.facebook.com/RosarioRed Rosario Stefania Scarsci

          I actually agree. I think we need to be responsible, but some people simply don’t want that big house, fancy car. They value other things. What I might spend on something I like/value another might spend it on what they value. Personally, I never see myself owning a home. I’m more of a renter. Coming from NYC, I would rather rent a brownstone apartment than have to deal with being the owner of a home.

          • StrawberryLove

            Now this is some good old hood-rat thinking right here!……. Of course a hood-rat wouldn’t want to own a home one day. You sound mighty stupid hood-rat, lol!!!

            • LaLaLaMeansILoveYou

              So what does that make the caucasians ala Carrie from SATC and the thousands of other wealthy Manhattan residents of ALL colors who prefer to live their life (fabulously) in a NYC brownstone or high-rise?
               
              Please don’t put others down who don’t share the same life goals as you do, it only makes YOU look like the ignorant “hoodrat” you’re calling her.

              • StrawberryLove

                Oops…I guess just offended another hood-rat…smh..

                • LaLaLaMeansILoveYou

                  lol I see you didn’t answer my question though…probably because your small-minded self doesn’t have an answer or explanation for your own ignorance? Hmmmm….

                  • StrawberryLove

                    I didn’t answer your question because it’s “IRRELEVANT”. Seriously, what does your question have to do with anything? So you’re saying people shouldn’t want to have better themselves? Instead they should, “just look at how Carrie from SATC and the thousands of other wealthy Manhattan residents of ALL colors who prefer to live their life (fabulously) in a NYC brownstone or high-rise?” . As I stated earlier, only hood-rats would think like this, lol. Stop trying to justify your ignorant behavior and do better! Bottom-line people should strive towards, wanting to have their own one day. Just saying……..

                    • Melyssa

                      Ha!The question is still not answered…

                    • DoBetterPlease

                      Ha! Damn, another rat, lol! Apparently, there’s a colony of hood-rats scurrying around on MN…   

                  • Love

                    ummmm, you’re the ignorant one sweetie!

            • RoyalQueen

               I agree,that’s some hood-rat stuff and you can own an house in NY,but some people are trifling and are NOT doing good financial department. As a GROWN man or female,you should want to have a house and a car….

              • Love

                100% Co-sign!!!!!

              • JusSayin

                Again; I really do believe it is about values. Just because your grown does not necessarily mean you HAVE to own a house and a car. Not true. If you live in frisco, la or any other big city it is no use in owning a car. Period. It isn’t economical. Someone may not want to own a house because they don’t want to own a home… they prefer to have a loft, a studio or a town home. it is all a preference. And; are you implying that if someone doesn’t choose to own a house or a car that they may not be a “grown” man/woman? 

        • Strawberrylove

          I swear you can always tell when a hood-rat or an immature person is trying to make a point, lol! So which one are you? Hood-rat or an immature person?…..Just saying…

          • JusSayin

            I am reviewing your statements throughout this comment listing and it is truly clear to me that you are an immature person and a hood rat. You are so busy in other people’s business… constantly worrying about checking up on this article only to make some ridiculous comment so you can feel better about yourself. Everyone else read the article and gave their own personal opinion while you? You decided to take it upon yourself to go out your way and critique how other people live their lives. At the end of the day… these people are going to live how they want to live… and as long as they are happy and they are enjoying the present, past and future I have no problem. But you? You are clearly living an unhappy life and I feel sorry for you. Because; anyone that goes out their way to consistently make comments that have no clear justification or any POSITIVE criticism is just bitter… no matter how they spend their money. Good Day! :-)   

      • Kmallard

        What’s wrong with a Ford Focus? It’s inexpensive and gets you from point A to point B. It also allows you to afford other pricey items instead of having a $500 a month car payment. Someone else may prefer the expensive car instead of expensive shoes. To each his own.

      • Chanda

        Especially true in hip hop videos: rented cars, rented mansion, rented girls.

    • Chanda

      “Everyone wants to be better than everyone. More importantly, everyone wants to show everyone else that they have the best this or that.”

      Especially towards people we don’t like or don’t like us. Real friends don’t care how broke you really are.

      • LaLaLaMeansILoveYou

        Exactly…reminds me of that episode of “Different World” where Whitley buys the very expensive piece of jewelry just to show the snooty saleswoman that treated her badly that she could afford it…and didn’t realize until later that she was only hurting herself (and her wallet), and actually helping the saleswoman (the commission she earned from the sale) just to prove a silly point that didn’t need proving.