Things I Learned While Rocking Relaxed Hair, Natural Hair, and No Hair At All

May 28th, 2012 - By Clarke Gail Baines

Singer Sheryl Crow once said that “A change would do you good,” and when it comes to hair, she was probably talking about me. I don’t really believe in rocking one style for too long because I’m one of those people who will get antsy really fast, see other people’s styles and think, “Now THAT would look great on me!” In the time that I’ve gone all chameleon with my hair, I’ve done many a thing that have caused me to lose some hair, as well as have it grow like weeds on an unkempt lawn. Thought I’d share a few of those hair lessons with you as you go on your own hair journeys.

Confidence Is Everything

Back when I went to the salon and allowed the beautician to put clippers to hair I had been trying to have grow long for years, when it was all over and I looked in the mirror, I didn’t like what I saw. You could see my scalp! And as a woman with a larger head, the results weren’t as fabulous immediately like I thought they would be. But one day I went to work and a co-worker told me the look fit me well, and after some thought, I agreed that it wasn’t so bad after all. Little did I know that being confident about the look would inspire other people. Customers used to walk in the store I worked at and tell me they loved my hair, and after a while I was walking past mirrors thinking, “Yeah, I love it too…”

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  • Belize

    that last one is so true, about putting your hair away and just allowing it to grow.

  • Eyeconic1

    Could not agree with the “every product is not for everyone”.  I tried to stay clear of being  a product junky.  But, had to find the right ocmbos.  At least I knew whatever didn’t work on my hair seemed to always work on my 7 yr old daughter hair.  So the products wasn’t a waste.  My hair screams for mositure.

  • Deda

    I didnt get ads maybe the author listened

  • Margo

    The ads are so annoying! “They” already know this, but at least they will know why I won’t be returning to this site. The sad part is that I wanted to support Madame Noire. :(

  • Guest

    Well…. the first page was interesting. I refuse to click 7 times to read a short paragraph each time!

  • http://g00.me/7k < Online job, make $60/h, link

     Learn to be pleased with everything; with wealth,
    so far as it makes us beneficial to others; with poverty, for not having
    much to care for; and with obscurity, for being unenvied.

  • KNB1

    I’ve gone from natural hair to relaxed to natural to texturized and back to natural. I would have loved to read the entire article, but I refuse to click through all those different pages. Can everything PLEASE be put on 1 page or 2 at the most? I’d then be more inclined to read the entire thing.

  • SILENT BUT DEADLY!

    I used these same techniques for the hair on my, “NUT SACK”!

    • L-Boogie

      LOL! That is funny.

    • Lsmith

      You’re an axxhole

      • SILENT BUT DEADLY!

        I have hair in that too, it’s permed!

  • http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=ntt_athr_dp_sr_1?_encoding=UTF8&search-alias=digital-text&field-author=Peaches%20The%20Writer PeachesTheWriter

    I remember how my aunts used to rock their afros, halter tops, shorts, and stacks! I am so in love with natural Black beauty.

  • lala

    couldn’t go beyond the first page. i’m not clicking through 7 pages for an essay that could probably fit on 1 or 2 pages. what a pathetic ploy for page clicks

    • NTG

      Same thing I said…well that’s how they make they’re money.

      • NTG

        *their

        • Kgirl

          Completely agree, the more pages, the more ads they can put on their site.

    • Pfeiffer87

       You’re complaining about clicking 7 times?! Do you know how little energy is required to click? I guess the same thing goes for smiling? using the loo? standing up? getting out of bed? You guys need to stop complainin about the clicking, makes you sound like a bunch of couch potatoes.

      • Smacks_hoes

        Pages take super long to load sometimes! This crap could have all been put on 1 or 2 pages

        • repaermirgeht

          This website is a business. The more clicks the more ad revenue. It sucks but telling someone how to run their site when you can just get off it, is insanity.

      • Stay in your lane boo ……

        I wish I could click your stupid comment away! Click click ………………