True Life: Have You Gotten Over Your First Love?

May 17th, 2012 - By MN Editor


Dana:  I’m not the same girl I used to be, so my attractions are completely different.

Brandi: Finally did. It’s all an illusion once you get real with yourself.

Tonya: Yes. Took me 3 years & FINALLY! Yes. Glad it happened, learned lots & happy we are still cool.

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  • Msgonzo10

    My older sister once told me, “once you love someone, you’ll always love them even if you’re no longer together” and I remember thinking that was one of the dumbest things I’d ever heard. But as a woman, I understand that she’s right – my first love and I dated from 13-19 and though I’m happily married to the man who I know was always meant to be mine, my teenage heart will always belong to that young man and I embrace the love I feel for that teenage couple as a beautiful part of my childhood. For years I struggled with the concept of “letting go” but I finally realized that my resistance was to letting go of who we were as those two love struck teenagers. I now understand that I didn’t and don’t have to let go of that in order to move on. I would not change anything, including the hurt because there were valuable lessons attached to those experiences and frankly I’m not sure I wouldn’t gotten the message otherwise!

  • Seera

    I am with my first true love, obviously other’s weren’t it as i am over them, this love knows exactly how i want to be treated whilst i just enjoy it, even if it ended it will always be special.

  • Njgal81

    Yes…I got completely over him about a year after we broke up. (A 3.5 year relationship that started when I was 21 and he was 25.) He even wanted to get back together after almost 2 years apart. He’s a real good man, who’s married now, and I couldn’t be happier for him.

  • Jacqui Daley

    Nope I never did. We split for a few  years. He went his way got married and had a few children. But he eventually came to his senses. Lol. We ended up getting married and have a blended family. Of course all the children are grown. We are semi-retired now and loving our life together.

  • Newmomma0972

    My first love is deceased but he wil forever have that ” special place in my heart”. RIP C.H.

  • DJ

    I was in a relationship for nearly four years, I’ve moved on but I know behind it all I will always, always love that woman and only wish her the best in life

  • http://www.facebook.com/barbara.codner Barbara Codner

    :-(

  • liz

    So I noticed that all the comments and statements are coming from women. So, what does that say??.. We as women must learn to be like guys. STOP ATTACHING TOO MUCH MEANING TO THINGS!!. If you investigate, you might realize that in 99% of these situations the guys have moved on to other girls (and counting), and probably have no recollection of the one girl crying and calling them their first love. My point is, a relationship is just that — A RELATIONSHIP!.. When it’s over pull out all the plugs. Don’t live in self pity under the pretext of “he was my first”. There is a second, third, fourth,….etc! The fact that he was your first does not mean you have to think of him your whole life. Stop giving people more value in your life than they deserve, because obviously if they deserved it they would still be in your life.
    “Love is just an illusion”

    • mysterykills.

      I love your perspective on this bc although its tough getting over a first love, you have to love yourself more. I need to remember this.

  • Joy

    It’s been many many moons (8yrs).  I’m over it, he on the other hand……not so much. 

  • Cutiepie

    Nevermind I meant that type of hair and styled that way.

  • Cutiepie

    This is random but the girl in the first pic is so stunning wow, and I usually don’t think deadlocks look good on a woman lol.

  • Ss_beaufort

    My first love taught me a lot but he was just not meant for me. I will always have love for him though!

  • TWO SOCKS!

    I married my first love!

  • Bb-unit

    It’s been four Yrs or 5 still luv her to death lol just remember every word I whispered in her ear n web I promised we wud be together for ever :,( guess I was wrong init

  • justme

    Honestly my first love just happened a couple of years ago.. and though we are not together, I do still think of him often. However there will be definitely no going back as he has tarnished any type of a friendship with him, since he decided to spread rumors about me b/c he thought i cheated….so done..and trust me I was head over heels for that fool…

  • Angelb_33

    human nature, don’t faults us gurls who knows there a piece of good guy around. some of these men or pose to be men now SMH, mmmmmmmmmmmmmm  :(, plea the 5th

    • Shannonalexia

      Whoa

  • wveronica7

    nope, still love his behind 10 years later. So sad I know, but gosh I’m still attracted to him. doesn’t help that he lives across the street from my grandma :(