Why Isn’t He Calling You After The First Date?

May 25th, 2012 - By Julia Austin
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Nothing went wrong, per-say. The night was enjoyable enough and you’re hot enough. So, how come he didn’t call you back after the first date? Unless you did something crazy you can probably chalk it up to nerves–men sense insecurities and a lack of sense of self. While you may not be insecure in general, everyone’s prone to freezing up on a first date and acting awkward, strange and even desperate when they’re just trying to impress someone. You just might not be aware how you’re coming off. Here are 7 common things women do on a first date to influence the non-second date.

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  • Deda

    Maybe you are too expensive…Why is this not on the list some women come on dates with fendi bags gucci glasses, real diamonds on, oh yeah he asks u what perfume you are wearing and its prada.. And he asks how was your day and you reply oh i had a great time shopping at neiman marcus the fashions are fab this season..

  • nickwoods

    you probably not getting a call because he has plans with another chick the next day. wait your turn

  • HDAKL

     

    This
    article hit the nail on the head, I am guilty of every one of these especially,
    “Unfortunately, for fear of feeling rejected, we often act cold towards
    someone we’re actually interested in’ I have a hard time showing my true
    emotions that I end up ruining things and offending the other person and I thought they were wonderful. Going
    on dates in which I wasn’t relaxed that it showed-didn’t even crack a smile.
    Let the date do all the talking and
    when asked about myself, I’d hardly answer and become disassociated. My tactics
    resulted in not my being dateless, and not receiving a call. I’m trying
    something new, when asking a date a question, await their response and then respond pertaining to what was
    stated or from personal experience. It’s
    working out thus far, although my old habits are arising-hope I didn’t ruin
    things.

     

    This
    article hit the nail on the head, I am guilty of every one of these especially,
    “Unfortunately, for fear of feeling rejected, we often act cold towards
    someone we’re actually interested in’ I have a hard time showing my true
    emotions that I end up ruining things and offending the other person and I thought they were wonderful. Going
    on dates in which I wasn’t relaxed that it showed-didn’t even crack a smile.
    Let the date do all the talking and
    when asked about myself, I’d hardly answer and become disassociated. My tactics
    resulted in not my being dateless, and not receiving a call. I’m trying
    something new, when asking a date a question, await their response and then respond pertaining to what was
    stated or from personal experience. It’s
    working out thus far, although my old habits are arising-hope I didn’t ruin
    things.

     

  • http://www.facebook.com/Alizzle87 Aly

    Seriously, why cant everything be on one page..mn, and bossip are killing me…time for new sites. lol

    • cecee

      I read this site and bossip less and less because of all these tabs to go through. Too much work for so little information.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_CSPTEKAYXATWLEZJAYMIZHEYOA Kananga

    Just wasn’t feeling it.

  • November Rain

    I found one they left off the list:  Maybe YOU didn’t do anything at all and the guy is a complete turd.

  • http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=ntt_athr_dp_sr_1?_encoding=UTF8&search-alias=digital-text&field-author=Peaches%20The%20Writer PeachesTheWriter

    Sometimes men are looking for something to do that one night. They are not looking for anything beyond that. No matter how amazing you are, if he just had one evening to kill, he is not going to call you for more. Sometimes it’s better that way. You don’t want someone stringing you along that doesn’t have any long-term intentions.

  • shelshel

    This was a great article….kudos jaustin! Hopefully I can use this information in the near future ;-)