Once a Bully, Always a Bully? The Issue With Mitt Romney’s Past & Present

May 15th, 2012 - By Charing Ball

Source: 2012.talkingpointsmemo.com

While President Obama was solidifying his support of the  LGBT community’s quest for equal rights including the right to marry, his opponent was raising eyebrows over allegations of aggressive behavior with a former gay classmate.

Mormon millionaire and Republican challenger Mitt Romney, has been accused of bullying a former classmate, who just so happened to be gay.  The incident allegedly took place at the prestigious boarding Cranbrook School, where Romney attended high school.

According to the Washington Post, Romney, then a senior, spotted: “something he thought did not belong at a school where the boys wore ties and carried briefcases. John Lauber, a soft-spoken new student one year behind Romney, was perpetually teased for his nonconformity and presumed homosexuality. Now he was walking around the all-boys school with bleached-blond hair that draped over one eye, and Romney wasn’t having it. “He can’t look like that. That’s wrong. Just look at him!” an incensed Romney said.

A few days later, Romney allegedly lead a briefcase-carrying posse into Lauber’s room, tackled and pinned him to the ground and cut his hair with a pair of scissors as Lauber, cried and screamed for help.  While originally thought as an isolated incident, another former (and anonymous) high-school classmate of Romney’s has stepped forward to claim that other fellow students have “really negative memories” of the Republican presidential candidate, and that his behavior during those years bordered on the lines of “Lord of the Flies.”

This has set off a firestorm of controversy in which many folks are questioning whether or not this story is an indication of the man Romney is today. And in an interview with Fox Radio, Romney laughed off the incident saying that he didn’t remember it happening and didn’t know the kid was gay. He did admit to participating in a lot of “hijinks and pranks” during his time at the boarding school. He also apologized, well he kind of apologized: “…and if anybody was hurt by that or offended by it, obviously I apologize.”  Obviously.

Yet it was the ’60′s and a half-century later, we can all assume that he has grown beyond his formative years. I mean, he went on graduate college, recommitted himself to his Mormon faith, got married and raised a boatload of children. He also founded a successful business and ran a state. Lots of people are pretty horrible as teenagers. And surely a mistake we made when we were young – when we are still trying to decipher between what’s right and what’s wrong – should not have any bearing on what kind of person we are today.

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  • Imelda405

    I dont think he has forgotten about that incident. An incident like that (cutting a kids hair because he’s gay) is not easily forgotten. Maybe he forgot the kids name but that’s about it. His apology was weak, but maybe he’s the type of person who is too proud to apologize even when he knows he did something wrong.

    • Just asking

      Actually the victim’s parents said it never happened. Hard to remember something that didn’t happen.

  • Caroneisha

    Okay let’s be honest when you are running for president, or hell jus being in the spotlight people bring things from your past to the future. I mean that’s life, it’s been happening and really I don’t see why everyone is so up in arms over the fact that this is being exposed. And the same ones that are saying ” it happened so long ago, why should it matter.” Are the the same ones that when the media puts something out about someone else in the public eye they are quick to judge/dislike that person over passed actions. So why is this any different? Another thing criminal reacords, tickets, traffic stops, hell jus your attitude period follows you through life. And when you do a background check they pop up, every last one of them. So again I ask why does this matter if it happened 40 years ago, the problem is that it happened period. I know people change but some don’t, they jus pretend to. So it’s better to know what your dealing with right off top then to be misled. I’m jus saying.

  • ElvisWasAHero2Most

    Ehhh… I can foresee this back firing on the Obama camp.  

    First off, I already know Mitt Romney is an out of touch rich guy who has no clue what it’s like to be in the bottom 99% of the economic population.  So I’m not surprised when I hear he beat up some kid back in… high school?  Second, this was ages ago.  Incidents that took place decades ago should not be a reflection of anyone.  Finally, doesn’t this open the door for finding petty things Obama has done in his past?  Reverend Wright?  Eating dog?  Et cetera.  

  • AKA1908

     Romney is a 1950s backwards, cold, callous opportunist.  He disses the president, blacks, and all women to become POTUS.  Moneybags Romney will never become POTUS because of his negative attack ADs and opportunistic ways.  He wants to cut medicare, fire all teachers, and honest Americans workers to get rich off of it.  I will never call him President Romney.

    • Just Asking

      I am so glad Obama isn’t using attack ads. But even if he did they would be true and not made up. But even if he did attack ads, and they were true, then you know the Liberal media he used as a source would just up and turn on him and say his ads were untrue like the Washington Post did.

      On another note, if Obama couldn’t fix the mess Bush left for him in only one term, then how can he fix the even worse mess he has us in in the next 4 years?

  • Ljmdwolfpack33

    The alleged victims family denied the story being true…. In addition they said he wasn’t gay nor were they interviewed about the event. This is just another media attempt at keeping the focus off of Obamas record and on insignificant issues.

    • guest

      Preach!!! Why let the facts get in the way.  Talk about reaching for straws.  It’s so absurd, it’s stupid just like the folks making it an issue now.  If this does it for you, then you were never for Romney in the first place.  Please stop the madness and pretense.

  • Cuetojess

    Please don’t vote for him otherwise he will be bullying the other countries and then we will be back at war like how bush did. DO NOT VOTE FOR HIM WE WILL BE AT WAR AGAIN.

  • Ladybug94

    I’m not a fan of Romney, however, are we really bringing up stuff from over 40 years ago as relevent.  Plus the family of the alleged victim is stating that the incident didn’t happen and that he was not gay at the time they went to school together.  This is just some other distraction just like everything else to take our minds off of the real issues.  Alot of people did stupid stuff in high school so what.

    • sweettea

      Yeah because 40 years ago every gay person came out to their family in high-school *sarcasm *

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  • Jolie

    This article would have blown over quickly if he would have said: “I was a mischeivous kid at times, and I’ve played some good pranks and a few bad ones too. I apologize to those who I’ve hurt. I also want everyone to know that my high school persona is not who is running for president in 2012. I’ve proven myself as a leader and I want America to join me in focusing on the future of this country.”

    This way, he hasn’t confessed to something that he “doesn’t remember”, he remedied this issue with an apology, and pivoted the conversation toward a more comfortable topic! Either he needs new handlers or he needs to start listening to the ones he has.

    That’s ALL the advice his campaign will get from me.

    Obama 2012!!!

    • Ladybug94

      Well it was over 40 years ago.  How many people remember every single thing that happened over 40 years ago.  Not many.

      • guest

        Agreed.  Who remembers what happened 40 years ago.  On a side note, Obama 2012!!! What a joke.  Frankly, the country can’t afford him.  Can you say lack of jobs and the deficit? 

      • Annoyed

        You remember physically holding someone down and altering their appearance.  I call BS.  Either he is lying about remembering, or he has done so many things he can’t remember a specific incident.  Most of us have done pranks.  Few of us have cut the hair of others. 

  • Mls2698

    I know he doesn’t think we are going for those hijinks and pranks in the White House?

    • guest

      And what were Obama’s hijinks and pranks around the same time since he most likely engaged in them also?  Crickets…..that’s right, it won’t get reported.  That is why Rev. Wright went un-reported, but somehow this is a bigger deal?  Right.

      • Mls2698

        Loser says What?

        • guest

          Ur an idiot….again, where’s Obama’s hijinks and pranks?  You’re desparate and it shows.  50 years ago?  Really?

          • Mls2698

            If a ninja sh*t in his pants wrong as a baby white folk will bring it up! Loser!

            • Just Asking

              @Mis2698, And all that matters to you seems to be race. Not the fact Obama sucks as a president, not the fact that Obama has done even worse than what so upsets you about Romney. All the matters is race.

  • gues

    How old is Romney?  About 65?  Yet, the media would have us believe something he did almost 50 years ago is relevant?  Yeah, right….makes perfect sense!  I think we have all attended enough high school reunions to see changes in folk.  This is just a stupid distraction from the real issues such as the high unemployment rates among blacks, reduced home ownership, etc.  Focus on real issues why don’t you.

  • Guest18

    This is very well-written.  Great job.

  • Ms. Spring

    Why is he wearing the same hair from high school?

    • Mls2698

      It’s in the Republican Handbook Rules.