If Given a Choice: Would You Stay in America or Leave?

May 14th, 2012 - By Charing Ball

If you couldn’t tell by now, I am infatuated by race and identity in this country, particularly how we as black folks relate to both race and identity.

My general belief is that our inability to reconcile with or even denounce one or the other is the main causation for why our community struggles to progress in this country. In short, we are serving two masters: We are trying to buy/work our way into the American dream while also trying to fix and build the community. I have found that those two concepts are often in opposition to each other, which is often demonstrated by our reluctance at times to unify and work together. And sometimes I wonder if Abraham Lincoln had followed through on his plans to resettle recently freed blacks back in Africa, where would be now?  However, the way in which some of us refuse to act in our own self-interest, especially politically, I wonder if emancipation and self-determination is what we really want?

Those questions are very important to answer if we are ever going to properly educate children, build economic infrastructures and generally move the community ahead. However, those questions are as old as our history in this country itself. And many great leaders, from the likes of Frederick Douglass, Booker T. Washington, W.E.B. Du Bois, and both Malcolm and Martin, have all been debating for hundreds of years and yet have failed to reach a consensus. So in an effort to once and for all settle this debate, let’s put our thinking caps on and consider this hypothetical situation. Keyword: hypothetical.

Before I get to the actual theoretical situation, let me tell you first about the inspiration. Last week, I was re-watching “Cosmic Slop,” an early 90s television special, which originally aired on HBO. The series is like Twilight Zone but with an anthology of stories about race relations. One such story is called Space Traders, a 30-minute short about a U.S. President faced with the dilemma of having a clean environment, and living in world peace and prosperity in exchange for giving all the black people on the planet away to bartering aliens, who offer no assurance of their intention with them.  The story first appeared in Faces at the Bottom of the Well: The Permanence of Racism, a book written by scholar and Critical Race Theorist Professor Derrick Bell.  And while I won’t give away the story, I’ll just say that people shouldn’t be surprised how that story ended.

But in that situation, the black community didn’t have a choice.  SO in the spirit of the late great scholar Professor Derrick Bell, mixed with a little John Quinones of the “20/20″’ show “What Would You Do?” fame, I’ll give us one.

Let’s pretend that it is the year 2013. President Obama has won his second term as President of the United States. He is standing at the podium, in front of a live audience, giving the first State of the Union Address of his second term. He spells out his goal for fixing the economy, he talks about immigration, he gives his plan for gay, lesbian and transgendered equality and now, for the first time in his presidency, he speaks about a black agenda.

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  • philip kofie

    i am a student who wants to study at u.s.a. and at the age of 13 years .please can u help me .Even i cant afford money to do passport

  • Chocolateliss

    Nobody has mentionned Canada. I grew up in Florida (not far from where Travyon Martin was killed) and i moved to Montreal about 5 years ago. While it is true that we have our issues, including certain cases of racism, it is nowhere near as bad as the USA. If you’re not afraid of snow and have an open mind to learn another language, well c’mon then!

  • Kaylan Sutton

    There are some HUGE and unfortunate generalizations being made by the sister below about the “problems” facing African nations today.  The continent is too diverse to make blanket statements about it.  I live in Namibia which is VERY stable.  Don’t fall for the misconceptions/stereotypes that are spinning around African American communities – just VISIT and see for yourself.  There is also a growing middle class in many nations on the continent and MAJOR investment opportunities (don’t let China have it all!) that you will not find in the U.S.  THIS is how we should be thinking – step outside of the 9-5 comfort zone of living in the U.S.  Many people here are living WELL – happy and enjoying comfortable lifestyles – not stressed out and dealing w/racism and corporate America…often much better standards of living than the ghettos of the States.  There is SO much more to life in Africa today than what the media portrays. 

    • Anonns

       I agree, Africa is doing much more than what the media shows or what people think is going on there. And, people who still judge Africa based on what they see on TV, and not do their research are simply foolish. For example, Nigeria, Ghana, Tanzania now that you mentioned Namibia are stepping  up. The biggest problem in Africa is the corrupt leaders in the government, who are there embezzling money and not doing much to develop the continent. I’m coming from the perspective of, we can do so much more especially with the natural resources Africa is blessed with. Nigeria has oil, yet it looks like we don’t have anything because the billions of dollars that comes in every year is stolen by these corrupt leaders instead of using it to develop the economy. Of course, there are MANY people who are living well but what about the majority that don’t have access to basic necessities. We are not utilizing our resources well. The truth is, Africa is the oldest continent, where civilization started, has so much potentials and should be doing much better than that. Unfortunately, tribal/religious war or conflict, is dividing the continent further. The success of a country is the result of how well people come together to build it up, so everyone can enjoy it.

  • Anonns

    Interesting article. America is a land of freedom and opportunities. Does that mean every single person will get a shot at the American Dream? No. What it means is, you are guaranteed a good life if you work hard for it. Good life is not perfect life, it’s access to basic necessities and living in a developed democratic country. No country is perfect, every country has its good and bad, some the bad outweighs the good. You just have to make the best of it.  When there’s a powerful country like America, it influences others and sets the tone. Everybody wants to be part of it and be like it. Immigrants made America the country it is today. From Black Americans who built this country to Asians, Jews to latin people, it’s a melting pot where everybody have their share in it. It’s easy to point to Africa, and say nobody wants to live in a poor continent. What people don’t also understand is, not everybody want to live in an excess freedom, fast pace technology driven, anything goes pressured country either. Some people prefer a much simpler life. With having everything also comes problems. It makes sense why U.S.A, U.K or France ranked low when it came to the happiest people in the world. I’m Nigerian, lived in the U.S, France and Nigeria, I can live anywhere in the world except for the strict Muslim countries. I hope we Nigerians can come together to build the country up, because it has a lot of potentials. The reason black people are the most underdeveloped people in the world is because we don’t have a mindset of togetherness and building a powerful nation. Whites understood that, conquered and did what they had to do to get to where they are now. 

    • Love_Sexy

      I agree with you 100% and you summed it up perfectly.

  • KamJos

    The “American Dream” eh? What an absolute joke. I can understand the argument for staying because of ancestors who worked hard, but not the argument that it’s because America is the best country on earth. I used to say that too before I traveled and lived abroad.

  • KamJos

    If you gave me 50,000 I’d live on 20k and invest 30k in business in a country like Ghana or Rwanda. Ghana also has a program for Blacks to return but I recall it you have to work there for something like 7 years. 

  • L-Boogie

    Interesting question.  I would need more information.  

  • L-Boogie

    Interesting question.  I would need more information.  

  • Ebonydiva82

    i would stay because thus is my homeland. I would not mind visiting Africa though.

  • Rah Truth

    I visit other countries for a hobby, and love it.But, I would not rather be a citizen of any country other than the U.S. of A.

  • Jamesa White

    To answer this question under these circumstances, I would not go to Africa. The article mentioned something about the the rooted corporations and people being forced to turn their business over, as well  leave the land, their land. That is the same way this country was “founded”. The Native Americans were forced off the land by not only weapons, but disease, and drugs. Slaves were exploited in many ways, one tremendous one is the free labor. How is “giving” African Americans this “opportunity” any different from the basis of the foundation of this country? I believe some, but not all African Americans want to go back to Africa. I would love to live in Africa, but on my own circumstances. I want to be a Psychologist, and travel the world. I am going to get my education right here in the United States before I go anywhere. People come from all over the world to get an American Education, so why would anyone go somewhere they do not speak the language, or know and understand the culture. Its just common sense. The article also mentioned wanting to get “blacks” out of the country, if they so choose. I understand this is all theoretical, so under these circumstances this proposition, if you will is a theoretical slap in the African American face that is America. The funniest part to me was the price tag, leave it to the ways of the world to put a price tag on any and everything.

  • FromUR2UB

    There’s a lot wrong in this country, but I’d stay.  For one thing, I like creature comforts.  Not trying to live anywhere rural, not even in the States.  When I daydream, I think how I’d like to buy a small town or several city blocks near a body of water or somewhere scenic, and create a nice predominantly black community with clean tree-lined streets, where everyone would have a well kept home and yard – because citizenship would require them to keep them that way – a quaint town square of black-owned businesses, shops and restaurants, an arts district, great schools where the curriculum would include entrepreneurship, and our children could walk about freely and feel safe, from everyone.  No mega churches welcome because most do nothing to uplift their surrounding communities.  They usually exist only as monuments unto themselves.  But the churches in the community would be expected to instill a sense of ownership and community pride in their congregations.

  • My Truth

    Wow, this is def a hard one.
    I’m a mom, now with two little ones, this would make the decision all that much harder because of the unknown. If it was just me then, oh yeah!
    In theory with as much of my racial pride I have I would say yes to that proposition, but in reality I would go there, find a sound investment to put 5% to 10% of the money in and then move to another nation similar to the US in the (western sense) with a black/ African population; for example, the UK, France, Brazil, Canada.
    I feel ashamed, but that’s the truth.
    I love my people and I’m proud to be black by culturally, I’m American – a Westerner and this is what I know.

  • UKlovein

    Im going to the UK…

  • Muscasa

    Im going back to my original roots lol to either Africa, or Cuba I go!!!.  The reason why i would leave is because we are so lost as a country. and if this makes any sense, i feel as if America has “Too much freedom”.  That statement is hard for me to describe accuratly. but one more reason, Look at our systems here people?  Just like the comedian said, “You can get arrested for throwing flour or any other non dangerous substance at a celebrity, but you can walk free for taking someone’s life” I dont know about you guys but i dont want to live in that lol Or i could go to the UK. Where everything is great. no taxes, higher salary, free healthcare.  Oh yeah. Im going to the UK lol.  Prepare for American Immigrants England!!! Because here I come!!! 

    • Love_Sexy

      I believe I understand when you say the US has “too much freedom” and you are right…They focus on and allow too much of the wrong things (which some should not really be acceptable)…… They are not addressing and resolving issues which are important……I think ihat is why society is not moving forward and people are getting tired.

  • Jimmy Swaggerd

    America!!  Fucc Yeah!!!

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