Don’t rush to meet her if you just started dating, even if he suggests it. While most men have no problem introducing you to friends, their dog or even their favorite uncle, meeting his mother should be a big deal – not something done on a whim. His mother’s opinion of you may shape how he feels about you down the line, so make sure YOU’RE ready to go there if you truly care about him. Get to know him, ask questions about his family and cultivate a strong relationship first. You both should mutually agree when a good time to meet the parents should be – both of your parents if they’re still alive. If you feel rushed, tell him you’re not comfortable meeting her yet. If he pressures you, something is off – so reevaluate the relationship.