1. THINGS CAN GET MESSY
You finally hooked up with your office crush, but the next day when you are full of smiles, he gives you that nonchalant head nod. The, “Hey, FRIEND” nod. On the outside, nothing has changed in your relationship, despite what happened behind closed doors. And of course, that’s how he wants to keep it. You are full of all these emotions that you can’t express because you have to keep everything on the hush, and the last thing you want to do is make a scene at work about someone acknowledging you or being more affectionate because of a relationship folks would say you shouldn’t be having.