Up Out My Face, Boy: 6 Signs You’ve Checked Out Of Your Relationship

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May 10, 2012 ‐ By Jazmine Denise Rogers

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A wise man once said that if you take the amount of time a couple has been together and divide it by two, you’ll get the amount of time that they’ve been breaking up. A relationship never just ends the moment both parties agree to go their separate ways. Just as it takes time for a bond to be formed, it also takes time for a bond to be broken. Women are infamous for holding onto relationships well after they’ve started falling apart, even if they themselves have checked out of the relationship. Here are a few signs that you’ve done just that.

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  • lakayla

    The fact that I clicked on this article, speaks volumes, I put myself in a very complicated relationship. Its long distance, and I don’t know if i should end things over phone or in person. I know deep down ending it in person will be so hard for me because my partner has a strong reaction to the littlest of things. The point the writer made about not caring anymore is me. I do not know how to begin and delaying this is making it worse , sigh

  • lakayla

    The fact that I clicked on this article, speaks volumes, I put myself in a very complicated relationship. Its long distance, and I don’t know if i should end things over phone or in person. I know deep down ending it in person will be so hard for me because my partner has a strong reaction to the littlest of things. The point the writer made about not caring anymore is me. I do not know how to begin and delaying this is making it worse , sigh

  • TbeeZ

    OMG! I’m going thru this! And I feel and have done all of this and still! My man even say I don’t care! I’ve checked out.

  • Ayedwards1

    Wow, this article is dead on!! I’m lmao @ the last 1!! Everytime my ex get 2 screamin n yellin @ me on the phone, I jus hang up now!! Lol, I remember the days i use 2 b screamin n yellin back!! Now i jus hang up!!

  • Breezy

    This where I am now!! #ITSOVER

    • TbeeZ

      Me too Breezy! Damn this is some true ish!

  • ItsmeNeysha!

    yup i agree with this article 100% going thru it now i just dont know how to end a four year relationship especially now that we have a two year old kid

    • guest

      I’m going through the same exact thing.

      • Mimi

        9 years marriage and three kids here and I wish i could just walk out of the house or kick him out and start new with my kids, but he is not willing to admit that he is not into me anymore. All just to make me miserable and never give up the house, etc.  

      • Mimi

        9 years marriage and three kids here and I wish i could just walk out of the house or kick him out and start new with my kids, but he is not willing to admit that he is not into me anymore. All just to make me miserable and never give up the house, etc.  

    • guest

      I’m going through the same exact thing.

  • Andre Dre Cotten

    6 signs of checking out is a very good read. I thought it was well put together and looking forward for  more good reads from Jazmine Rogers. Just simply loved it!!!!

  • http://kimster-thatswhatshesaid.blogspot.com/ Kimster

    These are also good points to look out for on the flip side. Being able to tell early on when your partner has checked out of the relationship can save you a lot of wasted time, tears, and unnecessary grief.

  • justme

    Wow after reading this I can see that now I was really on the verge of checking out of my last relationship…wish i had done it sooner instead of holding on to something that was never truly there…..humm food for thought.

  • Noni

    I have experienced this for sure… its not the best feeling

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