Bullied Gay Teen Facing Expulsion After Mother Sent Him To School With Stun Gun

May 8th, 2012 - By Brande Victorian

Source:thetowntalk.com

After months of harassment, an Indianapolis mother says she had no choice but to send her gay 17-year-old son Darnell “Dynasty” Young to school with a stun gun to defend himself. Now Darnell is facing possible expulsion for discharging the weapon at school.

I do not promote violence – not at all – but what is a parent to do when she has done everything that she felt she was supposed to do … at the school?” Chelisa Grimes told CNN. “I did feel like there was nothing else left for me to do, but protect my child.

“I think that the self-protection device is what’s making the news, but the big picture is that my child is not the only one who does not feel safe at our school.”

On April 16, Darnell says six students surrounded him at Arsenal Technical High school, calling him names and threatening to beat him up. He then pulled the stun gun from his backpack and raised it in the air which set off an electric charge and sent the group of bullies running. CNN points out that unlike a Taser, which fires barbs attached to long wires at a target, a stun gun has to be near or pressed against a person to shock them. No one was harmed in this incident, but according to the Indianapolis Star, school police officers arrested Darnell a short time after he pulled out the weapon and took him away in handcuffs.

“I got kicked out of school for me bringing the weapon to school, but I honestly don’t think that that was fair,” Darnell said. “I didn’t use it on nobody. … All I did was raise it up in the air and went back to my class.”

Though Darnell and his family say the school hasn’t done much to stop the harassment, Larry Yarrell, the Tech principal, said school staff had been trying to get the teen to “tone down” his accessories.

“If you wear female apparel, then kids are kids and they’re going to say whatever it is that they want to say,” Yarrell told The Star. “Because you want to be different and because you choose to wear female apparel, it may happen. In the idealistic society, it shouldn’t matter. People should be able to wear what they want to wear.”

For Darnell, the clothing taunts weren’t the worst of the bullying, it was rumors that suggested he was “doing nasty stuff” with teachers.

“I was at my wit’s end. I didn’t know what to do and I thought about suicide,” he said. “I hate saying that word because God blessed me with this life. I love life. I love my education. I would never … but this bullying got so bad that I thought about that.”

Last week the school district held an expulsion hearing for Darnell but a decision has yet to be announced.

Do you think Darnell should be expelled for bringing the stun gun to school?

Brande Victorian is a blogger and culture writer in New York City. Follower her on Twitter at @be_vic.

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  • Olivia Wall

    The boy absolutely had a right to bring a stun gun to school. The school violated the social contract: students trade in their right to bear arms for safety ensured by the school. The school didn’t provide him safety; he was fearing for his life! He had the right to take the matter into his own hands. The school, by not preventing the bullying, endangered the bullies as well, what if the boy had aimed the taser at the bullies and not in the air? 

  • Amija James

    People call gays minorities when in reality gay white men have more power than black men.  

    • Nehemiah53

      They always have gay or straight!

    • Nehemiah53

      I don’t think that is a question white men gay or straight always had more power than black men!

      • Amija James

        Ummmmm, that’s what I said.  Some people don’t know that.

    • Nehemiah53

      I don’t think that is a question white men gay or straight always had more power than black men!

  • StopBullying

    It wouldn’t matter if he was gay or straight in my opinion. If my son was going to school , being bullied, and no one was doing anything about it after countless efforts, I would have my son protect himself as well. Children are being bullied to the point of suicide everywhere. I recently saw the preview of the new documentary “Bully” and it broke my heart to see what that young boy was going through, even after the mother told school officials. The bottom line is, bullying is very serious and everyone has the right to protect themselves from it.

  • jackieOsassin

    i would only think he would have to be expelled if he were bringing it to school before exhausting all efforts to try and get the bullies from pestering him. he was going to use it for protection, if NECESSARY. the mother already saw the security wasn’t doing much, so why not? plus, it’s a STUN GUN, not a gun. he wasn’t trying to kill them, just shock the ever-loving sh*t out of them.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_JAI4SRENU2A5WKRTELXXYJPDSI Kayla

    This is a sad world we live in where people are afraid for their lives and can’t be themselves. Whether people think it’s a choice or born that way. Doesn’t mean people need to feel unsafe for being who they are. While I don’t agree with bringing a stun gun to school. He had to do what he had to do. And I don’t blame him one bit. Maybe now this is a blessing in disguise and he can go to another school where he feels safer.

  • Jnxcat

    the ones making the law, steady breaking the law!

  • Jnxcat

    last time i checked in the maternity ward there were boys and girls, not boys and girls and gays…no one is BORN that way…someone said that long ago and people have been drinking the kool aid ever since! he CHOSE to wear that mess…and i bet he has a SLICK MOUTH too…what gay u dont know always have some mess to spit?

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_JAI4SRENU2A5WKRTELXXYJPDSI Kayla

      gays can be boys or girls…. there isn’t a third… Even if he chose to wear that outfit, his life shouldn’t be threatened by 6 people. smh