Access Denied: 7 Things That Will Get A Guy Fake Digits

May 9th, 2012 - By Erica Renee

Let’s face it. It has to be pretty tough being a guy when it comes to approaching a woman. I barely like calling a guy for the first time, even if he’s initially shown interest in me, so imagine approaching someone not knowing anything about them. This is the dilemma a man is faced with when he musters up enough courage to approach a woman in hopes of walking away with her number.

He has to consider, is she married or single? Does she even like men? Is she going to be rude and standoffish? I’m sure these are only some of the thoughts that run through a man’s mind before he goes in for the digits. So while I attempt to cut guys that approach me some slack and remain cordial despite a possible lack of interest, the fact still remains that most of them won’t get anything but a simple wave before I proceed to keep it moving.

So while I don’t always know the circumstances in which I will exchange numbers with a guy who approaches me, I do know the instances when I won’t. There are often times when I can simply say, ‘I’m not interested’ or ‘I have a man’ and the guy will immediately back off; then there are other times when I may shamefully give fake digits to get him to leave me alone.

Check out this list of seven things that a guy can do that result in either no number of fake digits.

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  • Rah Truth

    What about the aggressive man? My friend had a gun pulled on her when she wouldn’t give a guy her number and he got offended….. I always try saying “I’d rather not”, “I don’t give out my number”, etc… But, sometimes none of that makes a difference to him. Then what?

  • Kris Renee

    Okay, seeing as the main topic of the article is not whether adults give out fake numbers, I’m pretty sure the discussion should not be such either. Furthermore, I must agree with much of what was said in this article. I also hated getting hit on at work. I was a server at a popular joint in town, and I absolutely loathed being flirted with by guys who had no class or even a hint of game. Fellas, not saying any if you’d do this, but remember: NEVER approach a lady with the question of ”How old are you?” That’s a surefire way to get dismissed immediately.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=536872959 Aaron T. Starks

    Giving out a fake number is something children do. So-called adults should not behave in this manner. If you don’t want to give a guy your number you can simply say: The Nice Method: “I don’t give out my number to anyone. Why don’t you give me your card or your number and I’ll give you a call.” Or The Fair-But-Firm Method: “Sorry, I’m just not attracted to/feeling you, so no.” Then walk away.

  • RedButterfly81

    I’m guilty of giving fake numbers. I gave numbers of Comcast, my old cell number, my ex-boyfriend, and my fave pizza parlor along with a fake name to thirsty acting dogs. 

  • TROOFTELLA

    Why on earth would any grown woman still be giving out a fake number to a man–especially in the digital age in which the man can call the fake number right in front of you to see if your phone rings? 

  • http://www.noneedforastinkingwebsite.com dow daytrader

    asking for an email address is nonthreatening;  she can ignore your mail and nobody has egg on their face;  In my single days I usually get the gal to volunteer giving me her #;  that’s the best way!  I still like sending an email 1st, even if she gives her phone #;  shows patience and class. 

  • Janee

    I don’t know about fake numbers, but cat calling will definitely get you a quick lecture. Team Feminist! 

  • Nitty

    Fake numbers?
    What are we 12?
    Be straight up with the men.
    Stop the foolishness.
    Thank you

  • http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=ntt_athr_dp_sr_1?_encoding=UTF8&search-alias=digital-text&field-author=Peaches%20The%20Writer PeachesTheWriter

    People still give out fake numbers? Dang, I feel so old.