The Attack On Derrick Rose’s “Basketball Wife”: Should She Step Her Game Up?

May 5th, 2012 - By Drenna Armstrong
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If you follow sports or just like to follow up on cute athletes, you know by now that Chicago Bulls guard Derrick Rose was injured last week and is out for the remainder of the playoffs.  Well earlier this week he was spotted in a sky box watching his teammates and spotted in the row in front of him was his rumored girlfriend (and unconfirmed expectant mother of his child), Mieka.  As I scoured the comments of various sites that posted the pictures (she’s in the row in front of him on his right side), there was one consistent question: “Why does she look so rough?”  The questions that followed wondered why she wasn’t dressed to the “9s” and why she couldn’t “really” get her hair done.  Hmm.  I looked at the pictures again and noticed that she likely wasn’t wearing any makeup and yes, she had on rain boots but other than that, she looked like she was genuinely there to show support for the game.

The follow-up comment to that question was almost always, “If you’re going to be an athlete’s girl, you need to step your game up.” So although Mieka’s look might be fine for a woman dating an “average Joe” and may have been okay when they first met, it is unacceptable for  her to have such a casual appearance (in public) when she is dating a man who is not only rich but is also a superstar.  Essentially, being yourself – and we don’t know this is how she looks everyday as this is only one set of pictures – is not as clear cut when your status has been elevated because of your relationship.

Check out the full set of pictures on Mediatakeout.

What’s your take? If you find yourself dating a celebrity, are you obligated to step up your appearance?  If you do, are you wrong for changing? If you don’t, are you asking for him to move on to a woman who will “step it up?”

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  • Mr Evans

    She is still beautiful without (ALL) of that! It already shows allot about what type of Woman she is to be able to support her Man with nothing on but Natural Beauty, and no, that’s nothing these booszy women can buy off the shelf, and be comfortable as well as confident in that! And if pregnant, she ain’t got nothing to prove or no one to satisfy but the Man who has her heart! Y’all kill me! Find something else worth!printing go to sleep!

  • MsBfromPhilly

    I think that it’s insane that people would think that she doesn’t look appropriate.  She is obviously chilling with her man and his family at a BB game.  Why would she be “dressed up” to sit at an event where everyone else is “relaxed” as well.  She looks great to me…and believe it or not, that’s how most Black women carry themselves on a daily basis (no makeup, neat hair and casual but nice).  I think that it’s admirable that he’s dating a Black women who is real and seeing him with her gives me hope that I natural brown sister can still date/marry a Black man.  I really am a fan of this couple!!!

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