True Life: I Was Dating a Man With a Secret…

May 3rd, 2012 - By madamenoire

Tamara: He had borderline personality disorder.

Erica: That he was previously married 2x. He lied and said he was married once and that he was in a live-in relationship with the other. He slipped up and said “ex wife B” and I was like “Wait a minute. I thought You were only married to A?”

I didn’t leave but I should have because that was the start of the lies and the never ending drama that I had in that relationship.

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  • Rondachambers

    Men are swine.  I hate them and they are not even worth the trouble.

  • Rondachambers

    Men are swine.  I hate them and they are not even worth the trouble.

  • Rondachambers

    Men are swine.  I hate them and they are not even worth the trouble.

  • Pivyque

    You know Zerriyan, some people are on the Sex Offenders list for things they did when they were younger. My friend was on there because he turned 18 literally 2 weeks before he and his girlfriend were caught having sex. Her mom charged him with statutory rape and they had been together about a year. She was only 2 months to 17. He only had to be on that list for a few years, but it definitely made people look at him like he was some perverted sicko because of the charge. The guy you were talking to could have been in a completely different situation, but i’m just saying, sometimes it’s good to listen to the details.

  • wonders

    Was he a kitchen sink too?

  • MissDiva05

    I once dated a guy who was in a consensual sexual relationship with his cousin before we got together — And I mean cousin, cousin… like mamas were blood sisters. I had no idea (and neither did the rest of the family) until the cousin declared her love for him at a barbeque and tried to fight me over him…. Triflin’ a$$es!!!

    • Sha Sha

      Now that wild!!

      • Sha sha

        *that”s*

    • Mrsadkiah

      Lmao! You’re misfortune isn’t funny but DAMN. That’s crazy as hell. I think I would have died of laughter after that barbecue. 

  • Lawlitig8

    I was married to a possible sociopath & pathological liar who preyed on his students and his patients.  I found out about the patients after he had kids with one of them.  Notice I said WAS married!

  • http://twitter.com/lilideedee Dahlia Beckford

    just wow

  • GUEST12345

    ‘Dated’ a shady guy in college, I had no idea what I was thinking.  He was a weedhead but I didn’t think anything of it because he was sweet to me. After getting to know him, I learned that he belonged to a gang (yes in college….wtf) but said it was because it was tradition in his family. Also learned that he had shot and injured someone before…Didn’t matter if he was in college, he was still a damn thug. I eventually came to my senses and realized that he was no good, and that year, he got kicked out of college.   One day I decided to google his name and guess what I found? He was a registered sex offender. One of his family members found pedophilliac videos on his laptop that he
    filmed (they heard his voice during the tape) and turned him in.The story was reported a year or two after we last spoke, but all of this nastiness could have happened while we were involved.  MY GOD!!!!! Absolutely disgusting!!!! I can’t believe I ever dealt with someone that sick!!!!

    Needless to say, I don’t deal with secretive men anymore!

  • Galenafiel

    Psychopath that lied about being married and liked to sleep with other men. However, I was pregnant before I by the time I found out.

  • Snuffleupagus29

    I had a woman tell me after dating for three months that she was a college grad turned she was still attending and she lied about having been married to a drug dealer

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  • Still Waters

    GNATS! This guy I was dating told me I couldn’t come to his house because he just had a gnat infestation and the fumes from the exterminator visit were still in the air. Done. :/

    • Mls2698

      Lol. He knew if he said roaches, you would think he was dirty. Are gnats related to fruit flies? Maybe that’s what he meant. Anyway………

      • Still Waters

         No need to even TRY and explain that man’s mind. Wherever he is, I hope he’s enjoying his gnat-free life!

        • Mls2698

          True!

        • Mls2698

          True!

  • Still Waters

    I used to work with teen girls, and I actually showed them how to look up convictions on the county court website. (It’s public information.) It’s great to have trust in a relationship. But….he’s still human, and so am I.

  • Mls2698

    Man I was married to thought he could cheat on me with some scallywag, and that I would accept it. Now he is paying racks on racks of alimony!

  • Krg78

    Wow! After reading these stories I feel so much better about my break up. I think to myself it could’ve been worse…

    • wonders

       I know all of these comments talk about some sad men. But why so many DL(not 100% bad), psychopathic and sex offending men? Its Strange.