Ask a Very Smart Brotha Live : Ready for Kids & Clingy Types

May 2, 2012  |  

Kandice: I’m seeing a great guy but the emotional and physical chemistry are not there. I tried to explain it to him but he’s convinced that he can change my mind. Should I go ahead and end it or should i give it a shot to see what happens?

D.Y. How long have you been seeing him?

Kandice:  ‎6 months. When we first met he was going thru a divorce so I purposely withheld feelings and told him there would be nothing physical. The divorce was finalized about 3 weeks ago and my feelings haven’t changed.

D.Y. Yeah, you need to leave that one alone. I mean, even if you were attracted to him, he doesn’t need to be seeing anyone right now anyway.

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  • Guest

    I used to love reading Ask A Very Smart Brotha because the answers were intelligent, funny and insightful. Now? I don’t even waste my time because the VSB only has a sentence or two! Go back to the old format. I’d rather read one or two well-thought out answers than 6 or 7 one-liners.

    • vwells1

      We’ve heard that complaint before. We’ve tried to get people to send in letters all to no avail. People seem to be more interested in participating in the live chat. Furthermore, these answers, though shorter are still insightful, intelligent and entertaining.  

      • Goofylaughh

        No, they’re not.

        • vwells1

          Then I suggest you write him a letter…

      • Jacqxz

        My letter never got answered though, and it was months ago 🙁