You Don’t Want To Go Out With The Girls Unless Guys Are Involved
I have a friend who in the past would automatically ask “Who’s going to be there?” if she was asked to go on an outing. Although to some this question may appear harmless, as her friend I knew exactly what she meant. She really wanted to know if there would be any guys (that she would find attractive) there, and would they be single.
While there is nothing wrong with wanting to be in the ‘right place at the right time’ with a few eligible bachelors, it is something wrong with you declining every invitation that doesn’t involve your personal Idris Elba’s and Boris Kodjoe’s. Your outings with the girls should not always consist of personal manhunts. You may find that once you stop looking so hard, voila! He may appear.