Relationship Reflections: Things To Think About After The Breakup

April 22nd, 2012 - By Julia Austin
"Couple in an argument"

nwso.net

The breakup before

Talk about your breakup before this one. Explain what the problems were of that relationship, out loud. Now, do the same thing for this most recent one. If you find yourself describing almost the same breakup, with many of the same basic problems, be grateful this recent relationship ended. It was just another one on the list of the wrong (and the same) men you’ve been choosing. You want to be moving forward. If your last two (or more) breakups are the same in their essence, you need to have a talk with yourself (or a therapist) about why you choose those men.

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  • justme

    Totally agree with this article due to the fact that all apply to my last relationship…

  • IntercourseIsPainful

    Think about going to a clinic  to check for STDs.

  • http://g00.me/7k << Work at home, $60/h, link

    He is free knows how to keep in his own hands the power to decide.

  • just_kellz

    The best article I’ve read on MN…..I saw myself in so many of those reasons when I was comtemplating getting back with my BD….now I realize I can do better for myself and I’m happy. Great job.

  • Womanifesto

    I agree with ALL of this… It all applies to my last relationship.

  • Dee

    bravo!!

  • Coco Black

    I especially like the final point…very true!

    • MIssK

       I agree.