WOMAN TO WOMAN: Image is Everything….

April 7th, 2012 - By Rashana A. Hooks

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You can call it shallow or superficial but the reality is image is everything and people will always judge you by your appearance first. Regardless if this is right or wrong, how you present yourself to the world will dictate how the world will ultimately treat you. If you show little effort in putting yourself together and carry yourself with a careless attitude, then the world will treat you as such. However, if you put your best foot forward everyday – looking and feeling good, then the world is sure to stop and pay attention.

This is not a call to look like a runway model every day of the week, but it is a reminder that perception is reality and how others perceive you is a direct correlation on how they will treat you. Just in case you did not know, let me also remind you that it’s your job to teach people how to treat you. By holding your standards high, you are dictating to others to do the same when they interact with you. So if your appearance is sloppy and sluggish, guess what folks will think about you?

Take pride in your appearance. Let your personality shine through with your own style of fashion. When we look good, we feel good and our confidence speaks volumes.  The best thing about being a woman is that we don’t have to spend a lot of money to look fabulous! (especially if you know how to shop for a sale). Let’s stop being lazy and take an extra 10 minutes to put on that makeup; or get a little bold and add some color to our dark wardrobes. Whatever it is, make sure it allows who you are to shine through. Don’t let your personality hide behind anything, the world deserves to know who you are!

 

Want to talk to me Woman to Woman or have a topic you would like addressed? Email me at rhooks@madamenoire.com or you can follow me on twitter @rashanahooks

 

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  • Wow

    This is part of our problem, we’re too busy playing the part while everybody else is making it happen.

  • http://profiles.yahoo.com/u/V6O2EBOSDDIC3EESW3JS22OYWA Vic

    Because it’s better to look good than to be accomplished and intelligent! Yay women! -_-

  • Lisa

    This is article is an example of the kind of foolishness that black people waste their time on. 

  • http://www.facebook.com/RosarioRed Rosario Stefania Scarsci

    I don’t like wearing makeup. 

  • Right on the money

    Amen 

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  • Lmao

    THE ONLY PEOPLE WORRIED ABOUT IF YOU’RE ROCKING THE LATEST TREND OFF THE RUNWAY OR LATEST MAKEUP TRENDS ARE CHICKENHEADS WITH LOW IQ’S. I’VE SEEN BEAUTY QUEENS AT SCHOOL IN COVERALLS. JUST SAYING.

  • Lmao

    DONT FORGET SOME MEN LIKE “NATURAL” BEAUTY, SOME LIKE “INNER” BEAUTY, AND SOME LIKE “EFFORTLESS” BEAUTY.

  • Lmao

    MEN DON’T CARE ABOUT MAKEUP AND FASHION. YOU EITHER HAVE IT OR YOU DON’T. IF YOU DON’T, I GUESS THOSE THINGS WILL HELP. I SEE PEOPLE EVERDAY DRESSED UP WITH NO PLACE TO GO.

  • MixedUpInVegas

    Knowing that you are looking good makes you feel better and boosts your confidence. Since our beauty is part of our gender identity, as women we owe it to ourselves to live up to our feminine reputation.

  • Chanda

    This is especially important when you’re looking for a job or have an interview.

    Men need to take note too, some them look like hot garbage and they could care less.

  • coppertone

    Sometimes people may be going through certain situations and their appearance may not be at the top of their to do list……we just have to encourage others no matter what……u just never know….

  • Business406

    Yes I agree 100% and when you feel your worst, always make sure you look your best. I don’t understand how women leave the house with head scarves and rollers in their hair. So many tacky women out here!

  • Babee

    I agree, because a lot of people let me get away with some bad behavior because they say I’m young and beautiful.

  • Babee

    I agree, people let me get away with a lot of s**t because they say I’m beautiful and young.

  • Kunte sister

    I dress like a bum so I won’t attract people that think like this. 

  • Guest

    Note to self:  ”stop being lazy and take an extra 10 minutes to put on that makeup”

    • Pharaoh Corner

      Make up doesn’t do something for every man , I just like to see that a woman took the time to look presentable and clean. Throwing on a whole new face of make up is a turn off  lol , but I guess some men love it ………

  • http://caramelboots.blogspot.in/ Jaspe

    So true !