“Ask A Black Man” Episode 2: The Dating Episode [EXTENDED CUT]

April 4th, 2012 - By Madame Noire

Here is the extended cut of Episode 2 from Ask A Black Man, just like we promised! You can expect to see more questions asked, as well as more discussion between panelists. We had a good time during the shooting of this series, so we hope you will enjoy the entire conversations as much as we did!

 

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  • Maryline

    Disappointed to see that the intimidation discussion revolved around looks. What about being intimidated by a woman who is smarter, better well rounded, makes more money than you, and or opinionated.

  • lol wow

    you know beyonce’s past?? wtf? who are these people? lol..I think they picked michelle for 2 reasons….she’s FLOTUS, now ask if it was between condaleeza and beyonce.

  • tayo

    idk…I just can’t take these “new school” cats seriously. just my thoughts.

  • Magg

    I actually loved the answer Demetrius gave about interracial relationship, it was absolutely well said.

    • Demetrius

      Peace Magg and thanx love: )!!!

  • http://twitter.com/Josi_121 Josi

    Demetrius, thanks for standing up for the sisters on this interracial dating thing.  I believe in ‘love who you love’ but some guys be breakin they necks to get to Becky, and dogging us sisters out. Guess we are better off without them.  I rarely hear brothers speak with understanding on this issue. Thanks again.

    • Demetrius

      My pleasure Queen. Just speakin’ how i feel on some realness !!!

  • newshead12

    This video is everything that is wrong with Black men and American men in general! 

  • theghost917

    where did yall get that silly ninja on the far right???

  • Peaches

    Although Dimitrius gave the best answers and I applaud him on that, I wasn’t tuning in to hear the best answers I was tuning in to hear the truth. This really opened my eyes to alot of things. I learned that men and women are always on different pages. Unless you are blessed to have big brothers you never get an opportunity to hear these conversations. I really appreciate the honesty. Funny thing is that women are on here calling these men “boys” but I have many male friends that speak just like this amongst themselves, then shout a totally different tune when women are around. These same men you are calling “boys” are the same ones that know exactly what to say to get you right where they want you when the time is right. lol. At least we know what they are really thinking now. Thanx MN

  • motorfingaz

    Ugh!!! No wonder the divorce rate is so high and babies born our of wedlock has sky rocketed. Sad listening to these “boys”. Demetrius is the only gentleman on that panel and I would hope my daughter would date.

  • L-Boogie

    This is true. 

  • MzMaryPie2U

    Lol @ First Lady of iHop! But nice episode I enjoyed how the men were open and honest with Kela and came across genuine….Demetrius gave the most well rounded answers but that may be attributed to age difference…good show you all!

  • BCBG_GRL

    yeah i was bein sarcastic! y ask about W.F. tho? =)

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000560378182 Nicole Harris

    Can we get some MEN on this panel and dump these little BOYS?

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  • cocochanel31

    Thank you DeVale for your very honest response!! I think its important that men have that time to “do them” outside of a relationship before getting married and us women can’t be mad at that! Your blessed to have had a supportive wife who was there for you when you came back to her ready to be the man she needed and wanted you to be.

     I also really really agreed w ith your points that the times have changed whether we want
    to accept them or not. With the womens liberations movement and birth control
    women have more options and can and do think/act like men. Every woman is not
    the same nor does she want the same things anymore ie.  Husband with 2.5 kids and a white picket
    fence. The sooner people get real with that the better it will be. Not saying
    its right or wrong but it just is. The dating paradigm has definetly shifted
    and that’s why it is important to know how men and women think because one can
    no longer assume whats good for the goose is good for the gandor. I applaud you
    brothas for being transparent and don’t let the haters discourage you for your
    opnions. Most of them are not even worth you wasting your keystroke responding
    to.

    • Devale

      It was my pleasure Coco. My wife is my rock. We’ve loved each other, hated each other, liked each other, and despised each other all at the same time. lol. But at the end of the day I would choose no one else to come home to every night. You can tell by my answers and my candor that I at times may not be the easiest person to deal with. YEAH I KNOW I’M A PAIN ;-) . But as a man I needed to find a woman that is strong enough to deal with my frankness, encourage me when I can’t find it in myself, and tell me to shut up when she’s tired of hearing me. LMAO. For that I needed a black woman. Black women may come across as angry to some, but men who are looking for a partner in life that will push them toward greatness and be honest at all times when it comes to the family’s well being, find and undeniable strength in black women. It is THE MAN that has to be strong enough to own his place and responsibility in his family and THE WOMAN that has to let him be the man.

      • http://twitter.com/Womenabusersuck JT

        Your wife is probably a trohpy wife. She probably doesn’t do anything but have sex with you. I bet she doesn’t work, doesn’t speak, take care of the kids or even cook. You only married her for her looks and the sex. You’re that shallow, and anyone who marries you has to be shallow too. She can’t be worth much if you’d leave her for being barren after all. Let’s no bs here, Deval.

  • Philicia

    I wish there were more Demetrius’ in my age group, but overall I love the honesty of the whole panel. Like Kela said I got a lot of good notes.

  • Just Lissen

    “She’s not gonna be the First Lady if she gets with you… what’s she gonna be the “First Lady of IHOP?”"— iDied for real! 
    I think after all of the episodes in the series have finished. There should be a live chat with the panelists and the commentors. That would be interesting.

    • http://twitter.com/POWTV Birch

      wanna go to IHop

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=749593947 Candida Love

    Devale, keeps it real and I love that. It is his opinion and whether you hate it or love it, agree or disagree you cannot deny that he keeps it real.

  • BCBG_GRL

    * my bad this l8 posting!) Birch,- Waka Flocka? naw :} they still around?! lol.

    • http://twitter.com/POWTV Birch

      Waka is on tour with Drake o_O

  • http://twitter.com/POWTV Birch

    Demetrius had to get some panties this weekend because of this show…….

    • Demetrius

      Lol lol lol !!!

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