Is He Dating Other People? 7 Signs You’re One Of Many

March 20, 2012 ‐ By Julia Austin
"Man shrugging his shoulders"


Answer is always “maybe”

Whenever you invite him to do something far in advance, his answer is always “maybe.” He doesn’t say, “Because I may have a work thing” or give an excuse. He just clearly doesn’t want to commit. If this only happens occasionally, you may not have to worry. But if it happens every time, he probably wants to see who else is available to go out that night, and choose based on favorites.

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  • Anon

    Thank you so much! These were the same things I was really questioning about my guy. While we both started out casually seeing other people we had decided to be exclusive by this point in time but he clearly hasn’t stopped. Time for a conversation.

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  • Well you can always just ask too, but these are interesting tips too.

  • Benz

    What is wrong with a man dating multiple women when there is no relationship. At the end of the day, you two are not in a relationship, so why put all your eggs in one basket. I am a woman and I am not going to complain if a guy I am dating is seeing other women because he is probably not the only guy I am seeing either. Now, once we are in a defined relationship, seeing others is a no no, but dating is dating.

  • Nope

    Or the #1 reason….. he’s not in a relationship with you, therefore owes you nothing.

  • Now single and looking

    Wow. This is spot effin on. 

  • ……

    Sorry, I can’t buy half this crap. This sounds like a insecure woman blabbing on about if this and if that. If you suspect he is cheating, then more than likely he is. These are not ‘clues’ or ‘signs’. These are insecure games SOME/MOST women play. Stop making things harder than they are. Geesh…….


    Ok so some men feel guilty sleeping with multiple women and some men get confused. Believe that and I have some oceanfront property in Arizona that I want you to consider buying.

  • Anon

    So wait we don’t all date more than 1 person at a time, weed them out, and get serious with the one we like most? I thought everyone did that, male and female.

    • Diso98

      No we don’t. I never have been able to do that neither do I desire to date multiple men at the same time. Then again I’m really picky.

  • Lapandalove

    This was really on point and accurate.

  • I hate to say it, but until you two get serious and he shows no shady signals, always assume there’s another woman until he proves otherwise. Keep your dating options open until you know it’s for real. I had to learn the hard way.

    • You are definitely right, most women wouldn’t dare say what you just said.

    • tyler

       just goes to prove the old saying… never put all your eggs in 1 basket. Don’t be no fool…

  • Galenafiel

    Hmmmmm…  explains a few things. Thanks, jaustin.