Chemistry Clash! Couples Whose Love Seems Lost…

March 17th, 2012 - By Drenna Armstrong
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Carmelo & LaLa

A lot of people have been talking about these two lately because there have been a couple of stories leaking about Melo’s infidelity.  Some say Lala is crazy because she wants people to believe that everything is good in their lives and that she loves him more than he even cares about her.  I don’t think I agree with the latter in full but it does seem like they both have so much going on in their separate lives that when they’re together, it can look a little forced.

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  • Jacquiline Perkins

    Jay Z – Bey looks forced

  • mik bailey

    I think LaLa saw a gold mine and latched on to it, like Shaq’s wife and countless others…..

  • http://twitter.com/DearLeader10 Gogo Ubari

    I think Chad cares about Evelyn, but not enough to change his ways. She doesn’t inspire that in him. She probably cares about Chad too, but appearances are way too important to her. Lala is just plain boring, and Carmelo seems like he has the most uptight handlers in place keeping him from being too hood. I have never heard him say anything remotely profound, unlike Amare Stoudemire or Dwyane Wade.

  • Life

    Luda and his wife Eudoxie chemistry isn’t there because of the culture difference.  She is not an African American woman nor does she understand the social experience of being black.  

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  • Deahcocroft

    It’s funny how they are at the Think Like A Man premier. I hope she took notes.

  • jm73

    idk I think for anyone in front of a camera there’s and extent of awkwardness, especially at those events, unless you just love the camera….then again Kimmy K loves the camera and there was 0 chemistry with Kris Humphries. go figure.

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  • obamagal

    You can’t judge a book by its cover. Look at couples who show affection every second yet divorced. Seal and heidi klum, Eva longoria and Tony, Will and Jada(I think they are separated). Let me take my parent for example, been married for 25 years now. My dad is reserved, somewhat shy. My mom is the outgoing one, always talking about how much she loves my dad, people from outside will think she’s more into my dad than him into her. When they go out, my dad barely shows any affection. But, at home, I see how my dad makes my mom feel special even after six children. He still surprises her with little notes or cards saying how much he loves her, appreciates her and how beautiful she is. A lot of time, couples who are not all over each other are the real couples because they don’t need to prove anything.

    • breezin

       Good examples.  I also think that Rebecca Romijn and Jerry O’Connell fall into that category.  It’s interesting that the author noted how RR seemed more concerned about her poses than paying attention to Jerry.  As a model/actress, her livelihood literally depends on how she presents herself to the audience.  I actually get the feeling that she returns more of her husband’s attention when the cameras are away.

  • DoinMe

    Beyonce and Jay-Z. Every time they are photographed together, he looks bored and she looks over it. But Jay is ALWAYS cheesing and smiling in picts without Beyonce.

  • Mhmm

    I know they are young, but you forgot Chris and Karrueche. They seem more like buddies than an actual couple. Moving on, I like Lala but she definitely seems to be in love with Melo (I hate when she calls him Mel too as someone else stated) while he seems as if he barely likes her. I like Emily too, but she definitely in it alone. Fab should just let her go and stop stringing her along, getting her hopes up. I honestly forgot about Luda and his boo until seeing this list. E and Chad just need to hang it up already!

  • SHERYL

    She looks like Fab’s mom in that picture…

  • Dee

    I’ve seen Niecy Nash and her family on a few reality tv shows, and I definitely see the disconnect between her husband and the rest of her family. He seems to be pretty into her, but not their overall situation. When you’re entering a blended family, I believe it’s up to the adult to put forth the effort and show interest in the family as a whole, especially when it comes to older children like Niecy’s. And I just don’t see her husband putting forth that effort. It’s almost like he thinks, I’ve got the mom, so my work here is done. No, it’s more to it than that, bruh.

  • nativefloridagirl

    Where are Chrissy and Jim Jones?

    • <3

      nah, they definitely DON’T belong on the list (in my opinion)… from the way Chrissy acted on the show, she looooves herself some Jimmy! it seems like he wasn’t expressing his love just to act tough on camera tho

      • nativefloridagirl

        LOL, that’s exactly why I think they should be on the list. I wonder if he’s just keeping this going to keep the show going sometimes.

  • Clarosa

    what about john legend and his boo?

  • Grits8686

    IJS how many of you bloggers/”journalist “have found true love? Worry about the chemistry in your relationship -if you have one.

  • LiiSH

    I agree with Chad and Evelyn. She needs to be a kept woman and he is the kind of man who loves to keep his women. Chad has a history of extravagance with women. (Remember when he was on Dancing with the stars? He bought his partner an expensive a** piece of jewelery just because). I don’t know if the way Chad treats her is tied up in some kind of feelings. I believe he likes her and he might even love her in a way, but there is no denying that he is the kind of man who loves to spoil the women around him. Ev strikes me as the type who who trade that in lieu of love. The look good together though.

    Emily B is a cute girl but the fact remains that if you ask a man if he is involved and he adamantly states that he is Solo Dolo, y’all are not in a relationship. It has to be mutual.If he was some broke dude from up the street not claiming her, I BET this situation would not be acceptable.

  • Fiona

    Uhm… I don’t know, people express love in different
    ways and some choose not to place their love and affection on display.  I can only use my relationship as an example
    because that is the only relationship I intimately familiar with.  Many people would say I am a cute girl.  Most people would say he is a very attractive
    guy.  I am very affectionate (even with
    friends and family) and am often seen kissing, hugging and doting on my guy.  He is an introvert and is not into displaying
    affection.  So if you saw us you’d assume
    I’m way more into him than he is into me or maybe he’s not into me at all.  Those are the assumptions.  Now here are the facts.  This man pursued me heavily for a year before
    I committed to a relationship with him… flowers, trips, gifts, etc… real old
    school courtship… he even sends my mom gifts, flowers, etc.  He pays a substantial portion of my bills and
    has recently started discussing marriage, children and a future together.  He always tells me I am beautiful, smart, funny,
    etc.  He takes time out of busy schedule
    for multiple weekly date nights and pretty much tries to make me happy in every
    way possible.  So what I am saying is, don’t
    judge a book (or in this case a relationship) by its cover.    

    • emily

      wow you lucky lady:)

  • skylark149

    We don’t know what goes on with these couples behind closed doors. Just because “we think” they don’t look right together doesn’t mean they aren’t meant to be. Some people are uncomfortable having their picture taken when they know it’s because people will be judging them as a couple.
    Body language only reflects how we are feeling at the moment. It may have absolutely nothing to do with who we are with. It may just be a reaction to the situation we are in at the moment.

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