Raising Your Kids Right or Raising Them Wealthy? A Billionaire’s Conundrum

March 15th, 2012 - By MN Editor

by Marissa Ellis

One of the most emailed stories on The Wall Street Journal in the past few days has been “Billionaire Says Her Kids Aren’t Fit For Inheritance.” You can pretty much tease out the essence of the story just from the title, but for information’s sake, the article is about Australian mining billionaire Gina Rinehart, who herself inherited a “mining empire” from her father. As things usually go in the case of inheritance, the grandchildren (in this case, Gina’s children) were also left with ownership stakes in the business; however, Gina sought to block her children from their ownership stakes. Now, three of her four children are battling it out with her in a high stakes court case.

Why would a mother bar her children from an inheritance? In court papers, Rinehart said that “none of the plaintiffs (her children) has the requisite capacity or skill, nor the knowledge, experience, judgment or responsible work ethic to administer a trust in the nature of the trust in particular as part of the growing HPPL Group.” Basically, the kids who are all in their 20s and 30s, never even held jobs and have failed to act as responsible adults.

At first listen, it seems that Gina’s case stems from a good place – the sentiment being that she doesn’t want her children to be further corrupted by the spoils of money. But upon second thought, like many observers have pointed out, one has to wonder how Gina, who is said to be worth $17 billion, got to this point? Did she not raise her children to be the responsible adults she apparently wished them to become? If not, why is she now disciplining and condemning their spoiled ways in their adulthood?

One problem that wealthy people have is raising their kids to be humble and to have a work ethic. According to the Wall Street Journal, “most of today’s self-made rich didn’t grow up with money (surveys show 75% of millionaires didn’t inherit their wealth).” It’s funny that the qualities that many self-made millionaires (the public, celebrity ones at least) admire and extol about themselves are virtues that they pretty much discourage in their offspring. The MTV show My Super Sweet 16 provides a good example of wealthy parenting gone wrong for the most part.  How is it that a child whose whims are catered to and whose lavish desires are instantly fulfilled is expected to have a balanced perspective on the world?

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  • L-Boogie

    This is a great article!

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_JAI4SRENU2A5WKRTELXXYJPDSI Kayla

    It kinda makes the child feel guilty they were born into money. Some celeb kids are very grounded. (Smith Kids). It’s all about how you raise them. 

  • Purpose

    I’ve been talking about this well. I feel like you have to make a conscious effort to make sure your kids have responsibilities when they grow up with a silver spoon in their mouth. Otherwise they are good for nothing. What happens if the money disappears? They wouldn’t know what the heck to do. I don’t like the thought of raising my kids to be like Paris Hilton–it scares me. I want to raise people who will actually serve a purpose in this world (not to say you can’t be spoiled and do that–but you definitely have to stand for something).

  • F3ral Anarchy

    i would think it would be hard not to spoil the kids. but you CAN give them a great work ethic.  Everything they ask for make them do something for it.  Dont just fork over money.  Paying for college i can understand.  What parent wouldnt want to be able to not have their child not worry about how school will be paid for.  Reward excellent report cards all the way up to graduate school.  Even at a young age this can show children what hard work can earn.   Money is a great motivator and well if the child can push themselves to become a doctor, lawyer, accountant etc because they know once they get that degree they will have access to some form of trust fund why not.