Bedroom Breakdown: What His Moves Really Mean…

March 18th, 2012 - By Julia Austin
"Black couple in bed"

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Some believe that sex and your relationship are separate—that who we are in the bedroom has nothing to do with who we are out of it. WRONG. Even if you are the opposite of your usual self when in the sack, that in and of itself says something. Since sex is a place where we are allowed to let all inhibitions go, sometimes we learn some important things about ourselves and our partners in the bedroom. Here’s how…

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  • BrittanyLouis

    This is totally cosmo-ish. You guys need better love writers. 

  • Jane

    This article is rubbish.

    1. He’s not expecting it – You say, he is comfortable because he wears pyjamas to bed.

    I say, it may be winter, and besides, taking off his clothes is a big
    part of foreplay. How boring would it be if you were both naked to begin
    with every single time?

    2. He’s an acrobat – You say, he is showing off to compete with stuff going on outside the bedroom.

    I say, he is just trying to keep it exciting and have fun!

    3. Slow down – You say, he is selfish and he doesn’t cherish you.

    I say he may legitimately have PE or just hasnt learnt how to prolong it with you quite yet. Or, you’re just too damn sexy.

    4. Asking Lots of Questions – You say, he wants to make sure you’re enjoying yourself.
    I say, that would annoy the hell out of me. A question or two is fine, but several? NO I would think you’re not confident enough to try something and see if I would like it, use your experience and general knowledge of females! Go back to conversations that we may have had (outside the bedroom) about what I like/dislike. When we’re in the sack, shut up!

  • LadyRed

    This was cool..um i got a little from it..the rest i was like: whatever!

  • FabienneDesrameaux

    This article was accurate…at least for me it was

  • TP02UNITED@ATT.NET

    I REALLY enjoyed this article. Thank u so very much for answering my questions.

  • Caribbeanbeauty

    I don’t believe a word in this article..

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    We are healed from suffering only by experiencing it to the full.

    • L-Boogie

      This is the wackiest ish I ever heard.  Stay to working at home.  DUMB A$$

      • ariesdollface

        *snickers*

        • L-Boogie

          It sounds like psychobable!  Something you say to someone you have hurt badly and know it yet make a BEOTCH move and not apologize for the drama you caused. 

          • WoW

            Angry much? Let us know your story(ies)!

            • L-Boogie

              No.  I am good.  Just sound like bullshit.

    • Is It 5:00 Yet?

      Huh?

    • Tee Tee Smith

      I have suffered looking at these ridiculous posts your write for some time now.Please,Enlightened One tell me,when will my healing come?????