Ask A Very Smart Brotha Live: Sifting Through the Sh!t & Waiting for Him to Commit

March 7th, 2012 - By MN Editor

Lacey: Can you tell me why men think its cute to yell at us outside of their car or friend’s car. Why can’t they be a gentleman and just approach us?

D.Y:  Because, for every 25 women who absolutely hate when men do that, there are a couple who love it. And, since that (literal) holler takes absolutely no effort, why stop doing it if it provides occasional results?

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  • Da1andonly

    You have three small children everyone makes mistake that does not mean he cant accept he made a mistake and become a better man for you and your children you all was very young 10 years ago you have mature and so has he and yes some cases good can out weigh the bad and since there children involve this will be one of those cases

  • http://lettersfromscotland.wordpress.com/ Scotland Dior

    I just wanted to say that The Wire reference is clever and coincidental because I was just watching season two on HBOgo the other night, but I agree that marriage is unnecessary just like D’s death.

  • koiceko

    why should he marry you if you stayed with him for 10yrs acting like his wife and gave him 3 kids… seriously what’s the point of marriage at this stage of things…

  • Lynette_adams

    Women give their all in these relationships and the men are  taking full advantage of them. Stop having out of wed-lock children; it’s not going to make him stay and it’s not going to make him commit to you.

    • perplexed

      don’t know why black women stan hard for having babies oow…

  • sweetie

    love some of the replies but some i think you didnt answer properly maybe you were overwhelmed with so many questions or whatever…i forgive you and i still love you…now come over hurr you sexi thang!! :)

  • perplexed

    i can only smh at the woman with 3 kids who stayed for 10 yrs…

  • perplexed

    i can only smh at the woman with 3 kids who stayed for 10 yrs…

    • OneOfAKind

      Right? I know someone who is going through the exact thing minus a child being created outside of the relationship.

    • Whoisbsquared

       DAYUM SHAME IF U ASK ME…….WHERES THE SELF-RESPECT AND SELF-ESTEEM AT???????

    • FromUR2UB

      As soon as I read Pier’s letter, I knew she wasn’t going to accept the advice she got.  He told her the relationship wasn’t worth the bother, so she tried to steer his answer in another direction, “the good outweighs the bad”.  Then why ask?

      The sad thing is that she’s still young, but saddled with three young kids by a trifling guy.  Women with young children aren’t exactly considered a catch.  She will probably stay with the guy out of fear, deciding that a piece of man is better than none.