Is The Black Standard of Beauty Giving You Low Self-Esteem?

March 5th, 2012 - By Charing Ball

Folks may not recognize it but there is a certain aesthetic, which is more pronounced with the Black community. Generally speaking, women with big breasts, small waist, big hips, thighs and of course behinds are revered. There are biological theories for the Black standard of beauty including the belief that because of environmental considerations (i.e. being originally from dry, hot climates) black women naturally have formed a “c” shaped skeletal structure, caused by a more elevated thorax cavity (chest bones), which has caused the column vertebraes to ‘curve’ in such a way that all the adipose tissue accumulates in the buttock region. Thus creating the butt so big and shapely enough to steady a drink on.

However our “appreciation” of our own aesthetic is a fairly new phenomenon, which has been heightened with the further alienation of black beauty from mainstream culture and the introduction of R&B and Hip-Hop songs and videos, which sought to usher in a new sexual gratification for the Black female form.  This newfound fetishization of the Black female body may have effected how we internalize beauty.

According to one study, Black women tend to favor having heavier and hippier bodies most resembling Beyoncé Knowles. As such, we tend to aspire for that standard of beauty than the mainstream standard of beauty, which is presented in your typical magazine. Yet as we embraced this unique style of beauty, we have also introduce a new way to segment us intraracially by devaluing those Black women who can’t quite reach the Beyoncé Knowles standard. It’s no wonder why we are now seeing a rise in the number of women doing back alley butt enhancement surgeries.

Don’t get me wrong; there is nothing wrong with being blessed with booty. Obliviously, the genetic wheel has been very kind to you so be proud of it. But at the end of the day, we all want to be appreciated for our physical form just as much as what is underneath it. And there is no pleasure in being christened as a woman with “Nassitall,” also known as the Black girl who is not shaped like a real Black woman.

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  • Jay

    Lol

  • ariel7901

    I loved this article. It felt as if you were taking the words out of my mind and writing them for me. I am so tired of being told that I need butt implants. This really bothers me. Thank you for writing about this issue.

  • Caribbeanqueen

    this is so very tru… it’s hard being that size 0 black chick especially in the caribbean… everybody wants to feed u and fatten u up! everybdy thinks u don’t eat or u sick… Y? because black women are sup to b a certain way… look a certain way! ppl tend to forget that we are all created equally but beautifully unique! it’s always been hard for me because i am around 5 7… very very small boobs, abslutely no butt, thin legs, bony collar bone exposed shoulders, every aspect of me is thin and this is how i’ve been since childhood, underweight even, yea (like those models who ppl want off the runway so then when i hear that i’m like but what about the naturally thin ppl like me? u tryna say i not normal? but daz a whole other story rite thur) anyways… i eat! i dont have any eating disorders, but this is how i am built! can’t help that… it is very hard for me at times because i get so fed up of the old talk and i just want to fit in sometimes and not have ppl come down on me for being thin, esp my black sisters… i feel very insecure around guys sometimes because they talk about wanting a woman with curves, but i don’t have curves and then i think that all men want that….*sigh* it’s frustrating… i’m trying to deal with these issues and b confident but it’s difficult when ppl constantly point out the obvious! all i want to say to them is “Yes i’m thin! i know! u and i are dif! i’m healthy and happy and i would appreciate it if you would understand that God made me this way so don’t make it unnecssarily hard for me becuz u have issues…. pls” or mayb just cussin them out will do… lol jk…

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