Think You’re Moving Too Fast? Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Slow Down
Having sex too soon
Do you worry that sleeping together too soon will ruin things? That suddenly, you’ll lose interest in each other? Well, that absolutely might happen. But if it does, it was going to happen if you waited 6 months to sleep together as well. Why? Because humans are sexual beings. Sorry to break it to you but, often what you think is feelings of genuinely liking someone, is just feelings of wanting to tear their clothes off. That is why people often lose interest in each other after sex, but hey—better to know if that is the case now than longer down the line! I’m not saying sleep with him on date #1. But I would avoid ridiculous rules like “no sex for 90 days” or until date #20.